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I enjoy being rimmed and rimming immensely (even own a rim chair), but its not something I do on a first hook-up. But for my trusted pals, partner and boyfriend I totally feasting on their fresh clean and cum-filled holes!

As noted elsewhere, I prefer 7+ when I bottom and have had several 10" pals over the years -- one was 11 thick inches and that one took a lot of work, but was always worth it. Interestingly, I have a buddy with 9.5"  and he will ONLY get fucked by guys with average to smaller dicks.

Ran across this article and thought you might be interested -- http://www.pride.com/gay/2015/11/19/10-reasons-every-gay-man-should-try-throuple-once

We've all been disappointed in this area, but I can tell you that my dick is directly tied to my level of attraction/connection. It doesn't get rock hard for just any hole, which is why pump & dump doesn't really work well for me. I'd rather have a chat, share a drink, make out a bit, talk dirty and let the desire to fuck grow. We're not fuck machines, we're social beings and sexual attraction can be complex --in my experience a bit of playfulness and extra understanding under pressure leads to a hotter fuck (not to mention repeat fucks!

I prefer to top first -- get sucked, fuck a couple of holes, then after I breed I switch to bottom mode for a while.

I've been paying attention to this lately and discovered that I can indeed feel a top's cock spasm AND his load filling my arse if 1) he has a big load and 2) if we've used no lube, spit only or cum/spit for lube -- i do not feel the sensation of being filled with cum if my hole is filled with gun oil or Uberlube (my favorites)

I enjoy fucking in lots of positions, but when it's breeding time I really enjoy sitting or laying back and letting my bottom guy ride me to the point of no return -- I can make out with him while he shows me how much he wants my cum and enjoy his expressions as he gets filled up with premium baby batter.

I've had 4" to 11" dicks inside my arse and honestly the larger ones -- 8+ seem to feel better because they stretch me open good AND maintain constant contact w/ the prostate. Myself and my two lovers all have roughly 7" cocks, and while the sex is hot and satisfying emotionally and physically, when I'm cruising for a hookup on BBRT or in person my preference is larger. I'm also a fan of interracial sex and BBC --the last 9" one to fuck me had me literally cumming without ever touching my dick. My black and latin pals just seem to be INTO arse -- love to eat it, finger it, work it, and of course fuck/breed it -- that makes for damn good sex!

I consider all oral foreplay, and while enjoyable, not the main event. Deep in-ass breeding is the most satisfying whether I'm giving or receiving. Orgasm outside of penetration is essentially masterbation.

Most of my top pals tell me they want my hole to be fresh, as they want to be the first to load me up on any given evening. However, I prefer for my bottom guys to be pre-loaded...Nothing hotter than tasting a strangers load from his arse and using it as lube!

Bag Balm --you can pick it up at Target or Amazon -- works great!

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Hands-Free Orgasm

It happened again (finally). I met a guy on BBRT last night. He came over and gave me a great massage, then we made out while he worked my hole with his fingers and mouth for half an hour. He was very much in charge and kept everything moving very slowly. When he finally penetrated me with his very thick 9" black cock, there was no pain or resistance, pure pleasure! He gently rocked back and forth for another 20 minutes as we kissed and lightly licked and fingered each others nipples. He then stood and put my feet around his neck (my dick rock hard and between my legs and his chest--- lightly touching his chest as he moved in and out of me) -- about 2 minutes later I felt the orgasm building and I couldn't believe it (had only happened once before with another black stud with 10") . The next thing I knew, I started spewing cum all over both of us. He laughed out loud and began plowing me hard and deep so that he began breeding me by the time I'd shot 8 or more ropes of cum. 12 hours later, I'm still completely satisfied! Definitely something about those big dicked men who know how to work a man's hole!

I had my first experience getting my fist into my ex (we're still friends with good benefits) back in October.  It was incredible to see my wrist at his pussy, and it was even more incredible to listen to the guttural sounds that came from him as I gently pushed into his pussy.  He was dripping in sweat, and just buried my face into his pussy for the next few minutes to show reward him for letting me do that to him. 

bbbearlover1 -- I've only made it to 4 fingers so far, would luv for you to be the first to FF me   you're smoking hot!

luv it -- and personally never met a black man who used a condom (but I've only been fucked by 15 or so)

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Very similar experiences with older male cousins! Lots of fun, hot memories too!

Thanks 8Ndeep! excellent perspective and I appreciate your candor -- I couldn't agree more, relationships are tons of work...they hold up a near-constant mirror and provide us the opportunity to stretch and grow, when we don't like what we see - -that can be multiplied/synergistic with all of our various relationships. Cheers to you and yours!! (and the pic is actually me inside one of my boys!)

Thanks for the post eightndeep! It sounds like you have definitely created an awesome and unique family. Do you think your boy will ever want an equal relationship (with you two or in general) or want to live with you guys or is he fully content "as is?" To me it seems that love/emotions can be difficult to compartmentalize over time and once you're in love, how do you say "we're primary, you're always secondary?" More curiosity than anything.

Like you, I'm the HORN DOG in my original relationship and find that it's been great fun to DP, split-roast and have an equally horned up 3rd around regularly to push limits and fun. Plus who doesn't love an instant orgy at bedtime?! While I LOVE to bottom -- especially w/ BBC stud, we're all fairly versatile within the relationships. Personally, I think bareback and breeding are as necessary as kissing to intimacy and feeling connected with your boys/family/tribe!

Thx bbbearlover... Dom/sub family framework sounds totally hot to me! I'd like to be an occasional weekend guest ;-)

My partner and I have been open for most of our relationship and have had plenty hot, bareback sex both separately and together, while traveling, etc... but the best sex has always been with our regular FWBs (maybe we’re just relationship oriented?). Anyway, over the past 2 years, we've accidentally/unexpectedly developed a very loving and mutually satisfying relationship with one of those FWB's to the point that it feels like we're in a Throuple, Triad or 3-way relationship. The "L" word is used, we practically live at each other's houses, travel together constantly, and so forth. I also just met another Triad locally that has been together successfully for other 11 years. It seems to me that most people bring in a 3^rd for hotter sex and/or to meet some unmet need in the couple –the latter of which is generally disastrous and leads to all parties going their separate ways. Therefore, I'm curious to know if other's have had similar experiences with this and/or what your thoughts are in general about polyamory vs. just being a good gay whore?

Sorry about this -- awful. I have a btm buddy that has had this a couple of times, but it clears up -- I've even barebacked him during a flair-up and I didn't get infected. Good luck!

I find the BB scene is pretty small in Tampa Bay, but there are plenty of travelers to have fun with!

107   I'm practically a virgin!

If I'm riding a BIG cock my dick goes limp while getting fucked, but if it's under 8" I generally stay hard. Often my tops will play with my dick while they fuck me and I love it when we cum together. I love to fuck too, so this may be different for men who prefer to bottom/top exclusively.