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Very similar experiences with older male cousins! Lots of fun, hot memories too!

Thanks 8Ndeep! excellent perspective and I appreciate your candor -- I couldn't agree more, relationships are tons of work...they hold up a near-constant mirror and provide us the opportunity to stretch and grow, when we don't like what we see - -that can be multiplied/synergistic with all of our various relationships. Cheers to you and yours!! (and the pic is actually me inside one of my boys!)

Thanks for the post eightndeep! It sounds like you have definitely created an awesome and unique family. Do you think your boy will ever want an equal relationship (with you two or in general) or want to live with you guys or is he fully content "as is?" To me it seems that love/emotions can be difficult to compartmentalize over time and once you're in love, how do you say "we're primary, you're always secondary?" More curiosity than anything.

Like you, I'm the HORN DOG in my original relationship and find that it's been great fun to DP, split-roast and have an equally horned up 3rd around regularly to push limits and fun. Plus who doesn't love an instant orgy at bedtime?! While I LOVE to bottom -- especially w/ BBC stud, we're all fairly versatile within the relationships. Personally, I think bareback and breeding are as necessary as kissing to intimacy and feeling connected with your boys/family/tribe!

Thx bbbearlover... Dom/sub family framework sounds totally hot to me! I'd like to be an occasional weekend guest ;-)

My partner and I have been open for most of our relationship and have had plenty hot, bareback sex both separately and together, while traveling, etc... but the best sex has always been with our regular FWBs (maybe we’re just relationship oriented?). Anyway, over the past 2 years, we've accidentally/unexpectedly developed a very loving and mutually satisfying relationship with one of those FWB's to the point that it feels like we're in a Throuple, Triad or 3-way relationship. The "L" word is used, we practically live at each other's houses, travel together constantly, and so forth. I also just met another Triad locally that has been together successfully for other 11 years. It seems to me that most people bring in a 3^rd for hotter sex and/or to meet some unmet need in the couple –the latter of which is generally disastrous and leads to all parties going their separate ways. Therefore, I'm curious to know if other's have had similar experiences with this and/or what your thoughts are in general about polyamory vs. just being a good gay whore?

Sorry about this -- awful. I have a btm buddy that has had this a couple of times, but it clears up -- I've even barebacked him during a flair-up and I didn't get infected. Good luck!

I find the BB scene is pretty small in Tampa Bay, but there are plenty of travelers to have fun with!

107   I'm practically a virgin!

If I'm riding a BIG cock my dick goes limp while getting fucked, but if it's under 8" I generally stay hard. Often my tops will play with my dick while they fuck me and I love it when we cum together. I love to fuck too, so this may be different for men who prefer to bottom/top exclusively.

I'm w/ bbbearlover1 -- more interracial -- one-in-one and especially groups of black (and latin, middle eastern) men sharing white holes. I have a sexy black buddy with 10 thick inches who plows me regularly and will occasionally surprise me by bringing over friends of his to fuck me -- he always fucks me first, and serves as the director guiding his brosef's when and how to jump in. I'd love to have a video of these hot scenes, but usually his friends are straight and married, so not an option. Maybe TIM could help me out :-)

I have a buddy in this situation and it works for him and his long term partner... he lives with his husband and they have a great relationship, sharing lots of interests, finances, and traditional roles. Plus, he is in a 3-way relationship with another couple (while his hubby has a girlfriend on the side). This has been going on for years and seems to be that everyone is happy, healthy and productive. They rarely all connect as a larger group.

For me a Triad type situation could work, but I wouldn't be happy to be sharing my husband emotionally with someone else unless it were mutual.

I think rawcumhole has some excellent points. In my conversations with men, I don't think many of us are truly 'total bottoms' or 'total tops' for that matter -- while many ENJOY bottoming very much, I don't know a man who truly doesn't enjoy the feel of his cock inside a hot, warm mouth or arse --  it is more about the psychology of it and falling into roles and stereotype and owning them vs challenging them. I truly think if performance concerns were a non issue that 80% of us would be versatile (or at least vers/btm, vers/top)

I used to fuck women in high school and college -- would LUV to breed a sexy FTM dude!

I think it's largely mind over body -- do your mental work in advance, think about how much you desire the top inside you -- how good it feels to you and him and therefore the longer, the better. When I get together with my favorite two men, it's not uncommon for us to fuck for 2-3 hours, but that's a lot of swapping off and positions with no one having a dick (or 2) in their arse for more than 20 minutes at a time. Poppers are great, but like many have said -- I use them in the beginning and at orgasm time or spread out -- hard to sustain heavy use without a headache and limp dick.

I think some people just have a natural inclination toward one position or another...maybe it's lack of confidence as a top or experience or simply genetics? Personally, I LOVE to bottom and am probably better at bottoming than topping -- but I also love the feeling of my dick in a dude's arse, and pumping him full of my creme rocks! I say enjoy it all! I know "total tops" that also bottom every now and then -- I think it makes them better lovers actually.

For me -- cuddling is for men that I have an emotional connection with -- lovers, boyfriends, good friends -- otherwise, it's just good, hot bare sex and breeding for sport

One of the hottest! I have had cum leak from a sexy bottom arse and run down my dick a few times -- VERY HOT!

I've always spread my legs -- but now I have to try it with them together! Thanks :-D

Was in Berkeley recently (on a saturday night) -- there was some good bareback sex and breeding going on at SteamWorks!

Depth is the key for me -- I want it so deep it will absorb fullly into my boy!

Nothing better than interracial sex! I have been a fan of Machofucker since the beginning--- nothing gets me in "bottom mode" faster, plus my hot, hung, top black pals seem to really enjoy fucking and breeding me when a Machofucker dvd is playing in the background -- just raises the bar on HOTNESS!

Move to ATL stud -- I haven't heard anyone over 30 ask about status in the past 5 years.

My guess is your bf knows and IS fucking around behind your back too --  I know a couple of men in relationships who have similar set-ups -- "don't ask, don't tell," everyone knows whats happening, but keeping the "little secret" makes it hotter for them.

Heading to Berkeley/Steamworks on the 26th--fingers crossed!

My goal once inside a sexy hole is to pump it full of cum and get my btm man off too (ideally bending over and swallowing his load as I continue to coat his interior walls) -- if I'm bottoming I want his load too! I know younger men who play these games--- they really want the loads, just not the responsibility of asking for them and want the top to take charge and 'accicentallly' seed them so their conscious is clear "it's not my fault, I asked him to be safe and not cum inside me" == whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the night I guess?!