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I prefer cum to be deposited in my bum or in the bum of the bottom I'm fucking -- however, I do enjoy swallowing the loads of my close fuck buds.

11 x 7" -- struggled greatly to get about 10" down my throat...but once opened up my arse enjoyed it (and 4 loads) very much!

I have a pal who uses C - 5 mg -- he takes one every afternoon. Said it took about 4-5 days to have enough in his system, but it helped a lot. Sometimes he will take another one at night if he's planning extended play. Your brain still has to be engaged for it to work -- e/g if you're not into the guy or horned up the C won't make your dick had regardless.

I agree -- you'll know when it's right for you. Perhaps start with a trusted friend and experiment from there. I grew up fucking and getting fucked bare, so wearing condoms never felt right or natural. Still, I had some initial fears when I began breeding with men I didn't know/trust. It's defnitely a personal journey.

I'd say flush out with some warm soapy water till it runs clear, put some coconut oil or your favorite lube in there and then relax and enjoy his tongue, fingers and cock opening you up--- don't over prepare or you'll miss out on the sensations that make the first time special.

I'm with BadInBrooklyn on this one -- I want to fuck a man who wants to be fucked -- gets off on feeling my dick in his arse and is an active participant. If he acts like he's hurting or it's too much fuss it turns me off...not the reverse.

When I bottom, I love keeping every drop inside of me until it's absorbed -- however, I'm also cool if someone wants to rim/felch some of it out, too... When I top, i want my bottom to let it absorb inside him, unless I have a taste or feed him some of it...

he's right -- you'll both want it raw from now on!

I've continued to get into triad sex over the last few months -- and agree with Caliber26 -- luv watching, split-roasting, double penetrating, triple making out, felching, etc... 3-5 sexy, naked men in bed having bare sex has unlimited potential for fun and satisfaction.

Did my first Double Penetration as a top last night -- WOWZA! Amazing. HOT. And, can't wait to do it again! My partner and I started out by tag-teaming our favorite mate, then after about an hour,  as I was lying down and our bottom boy was riding my cock while holding on to the headboard of the bed, my hubby came in from behind -- handed him the poppers, and after a deep snitt gently leaned him forward and proceeded to push his bare cock up his tight hole alongside mine. It took a little time to adjust, but soon enough we were both balls deep and gently rocking back and forth inside this amazing man --- a few minutes later all 3 of us blew our loads -- 2 deep went inside our boy and his load shot across my chest, on my face and into my hair. Damn!

I must say this goes back to other posts where I've mentioned the importance of a connection for great sex... you don't treat someone you respect or have a connection with as "just a hole"  -- unless it's just part of the experience or role you're intentionally playing out in the moment. If I'm in the mood to be a whore and willing to take any/all dick, then I am okay to be treated like a soulless cumdump because that's the part I'm playing in the moment. The mistake, I think is acting like a cumdump when what I really want is for someone to treat me like a boyfriend or friend with benefits. When I'm clear about my expectations and standards, I've never had an issue with tops or bottoms...if there's a mismatch, someone simply acknowledges it and we adjust or walk away.

Just a personal pref I think -- I have a 9.5" pal who is versatile, but doesn't like to get fucked by guys unless they're 7" or less; but another one with over 10" won't take a cock smaller than 8 -- I think they all feel good, large or small, tight or loose :-)

Sadly, when I top I have to leave poppers alone as they cause my dick to go limp... but as a bottom boy - bring em on!!! LUV poppers and the way I feel slutty and confident that I can ride anything when on them. The first time I used poppers was to take a 10" thick BBC...the first time I used maximum impact was to take two 8" cocks at once (DP) -- I was hooked -- ever bottom without them.

Seems there's a bit of debate over this...however, personally I'd never put my penis in a chastity device or want my partners to. There are plenty of other options for physical and psychological play.

Had an awesome afternoon -- met my hubby and our favorite boy for lunch near the office today -- ate outside on a patio as it was warm, breezy and mostly sunny. By the end of lunch we were all boned up as we hadn't fucked together in almost a week. So, we ended up extending lunch a bit by renting a nearby hotel room and spending the next 75 minutes fucking the cum out of each other (literally). Hubby and I took turns tag-teaming our boy, then we sat back against the headboard of the bed and he took turns riding us, while we all 3 made out (3-way kissing is HOT) -- hubby bred boy first, then I got sloppy seconds (my fav!). By that time hubby was hard again and plowed my hole until I came, while I sucked our boy to orgasm #2. It was awesome, unexpected, no poppers, no lube -- just 3 hot, horny men, spit and cum! We have the room through the night, so maybe there will be more to tell by tomorrow....?

Over the past 20 years, I've gone from total top, to total bottom to versatile, so sex and how you do it is a personal issue and circumstance to me -- I love to bottom and have had anal orgasms when being fucked (without my dick being touched), but that is not the norm for me. Usually I cum when I'm fucking, jacking or being sucked (or when my top is jacking/sucking me while he fucks me). If my dick isn't getting stimulated while I'm getting fucked, it goes soft -- and that's okay, too and i still enjoy the ride. That being said, I think there can still be stigman associated with being the "bottom" -- equating it to being effiminate. It can be a lot of work to be a good bottom, so we should celebrate that more and let men who naturally prefer to bottom feel proud of the role they play and pleasure they give. That's how you train a bottom -- let him know how good he feels, how amazing it is to be inside him, promote pride, not shame!

I love the look, feel of and to play with uncut cocks, but honestly, once they're inside my arse I can't feel a noticable difference. I'd say thickness, hardness and then length are much more important, but ultimately all dicks feel good inside a warm, wet, hungry hole!

Good points Cam -- I guess that's why a bit of a connection can be great -- a connection that drives awesome sex takes a willingness to collaborate/commiunicate vs. just the need to unload in a hole. I know for me, when I sense my partner(s) are into it and want it, I work all the harder to please them and in turn, myself

As a btm, I luv it when i first feel a man's hard cock push inside me and my arse works to accommodate him...the connection/vulnerability I feel when being bred also sends chills across me -- I also luv it if he continues to fuck my sloppy cum-soaked hole until I cum or if he pushes my legs back and tastes/feeds me his cum from my hole.

As  top, I love it when I move into the cradle position and my bottom automatically lifts and wraps his legs around me --I feel the heat from his awaiting, willing hole as it opens for me ---that first thrust into his hot, wet hole is second only to the feel of him spasming around my dick as he has orgasm -- which usually puts me over the edge, so I fill him up with my load, taste his delicious arse-cunt and kiss him with a mouthful of our juice. I'm boned-up just typing about it!

I used to love Maximum Impact (spray on a rag poppers), but the new formula smells, tasts and is generally awful. Currently, I'm enjoying Ecstasy Pop poppers the most.

Just pulled out a full box of Magnum XL's from my nightstand --(unfortunately my dick isn't that large, but some of my old fuck bud's are 10"+)... they "expired" in 2004 -- so can't say I'm surprised either... I also think BB among gay men is down even further. I'd be surprised if it were at 50%. Five and 10 years ago men often asked status and when was the last time I was tested before fucking bare, and felt guilty if they "slipped up," but no more. Typically no one asks and if they do, they ask if I'm cool to fuck bare! My str8 brothers both tell me they haven't used a rubber since college, too. Rubbers make sex seem dirty --if i have to wear a hazmat suit, then I'm not going in! I want to feel your wet, warm arse walls wrapped around my hard, pre-cum dripping cock and vice versa. 

In my opinion, good bottoms are made, not born. Therefore, I'd work to make sure the experience left him feeling sexually satisfied, mentally proud of the mutual pleasure his arse provided and hungry for more. I've topped 3 virgins that I am aware of and each time I started with lots of making out, touching, rimming and eventually fingering, fucking and breeding -- a mix of gentle, yet assertive action provides him with the confidence needed to give you control of his body, so he can relax and enjoy the new sensations associated with being touched, explored and penetrated. I'd give him nonverbal and verbal feedback to let him know how good it feels to be inside him and to let him know what behaviors I want to see repeated. (Think of the deflowering fuck as a teachable moment) ---eventually, I want him to tell me that he wants my load inside him --(I only fuck bare)-- that acknowledgment seals the deal for future fucks...rough fucking, verbal, and fetish issues are simply evolution.

Sub, Sex Addict and sxlhlng - you bring up a great point -- while enjoying the thrill of the chase, I've always preferred to cultivate friends w/ benefits and fuckpals (hence my screen name); while sex with strangers is mentally exciting, it is never as hot as it is with someone I trust, respect and feel connected/attracted too. While I can bottom for a stranger and enjoy the physical sensations, my dick gets rock hard and my body responds completely differently when their's a connection...definitely a mind-fuck! :-)

Good points nelliess -- I honestly can't recall the last time someone asked me to use a condom -- it's literally been 4 or 5 years. I simply assume sex will be bare and include breeding.

I also talked with another top pal today -- He's sexy, 49 and bi -- married with 2 kids; he says he and his wife have great sex, but finds men more in tune with their inner whore and more willing to do whatever feels good in the moment. He really gets off on semi-public (outdoor) sex and men who will beg for his load. (interestingly his wife has always know he's bi and now that he's on PrEP always barebacks)...he likes to think that each guy will have a little of his DNA in them for the rest of their lives...laughingly said he wants to plant his daddy seed in 1,000 hot holes by the time he's 65 -- and I bet he will!

00Felix -- hot response, when I top, I also like it when it's obvious the guy wants my cock and cum -- while a bit submissive and letting me lead, he is aggressive in telling and SHOWING me he wants it -- via his active engagement (sucking, kissing, moaning, eye contact, etc.) -- I also LUV it when the guy keeps my load inside him as long as possible.