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I was 23 when I decided to go to the YMCA in NYC. I had a gay friend older than me who would tell me about his sex adventures in NYC, in places like the Mineshaft, and the YMCA. He was what now is called a bottom and he would tell me about the experience of getting fucked and having a guy shoot inside.

In those days being masculine meant you were a top. My friend was a bit feminine which he connected with wanting to get fucked.

I was then a masculine young man, in very good shape, but wanting to live the fantasies my friend told me about, like having sex with 10, 15 guys in one night.

He described all the "tricks", like leaving the door of your room at the YMCA open for guys to know you're looking for sex. He also told me about being blindfolded.

I think I stayed in floor 10th, an all male floor with lots of horny guys looking for action. I first walked around the floor, went up to the 11th floor, another all male floor. It was amazing.

1 minute ago, Bottom Jim said:

anyone else run into this

It's happened to me more than once at the saunas.

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Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?

I started barebacking and taking loads when it was all called "fucking". Condoms were used for preventing pregnancy and I knew I wasn't going to get pregnant. Then, AIDS arrived together with the condoms.

I adapted to bottoming with condoms and I even managed to make a fetish out of condoms with cum. I would put them on display at the sauna or the park. I was enjoying getting fucked liked collecting the condom full of man-juice.

At the time the risk of HIV infection was high so at the bathhouse everybody fucked with condoms. So did I. But one night a guy came into my room and wanted to fuck me doggy style. I heard the condom wrapper noise when he put on a condom. At some point he pulled out but he quickly shoved his hard cock back in. 

I noticed that it felt different but in a good way, which is why I let him continue fucking me. When he was done, just before leaving the room said: "I left you a present", and he was gone.

I got up and saw the empty condom so I fingered my hole and I felt his cum, the "present" he had left for me. It turned me on so much that I've never been fucked with a condom again. So, yes, bareback feels very good for the top but also good for bottoms.

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In a bathhouse how does a bottom show tops he is a bottom bitch?

In my darken room I wear my short with a hole and hang a glow in the dark sign that says "CUMHOLE".

I've even been bred by bottoms who get turned on by the scene.

On 5/3/2024 at 10:21 AM, Tempusfuget said:

Simple question... what is the automatic turn off when watching porn?

When it's a breeding video, I don't like hearing the bottom screaming like a woman. I prefer to hear the top's breathing, moan and groans, and maybe the bottom talking dirty "I want your load in my hole"

On 1/8/2024 at 9:13 PM, ClosetBiSub said:

which would you recommend I visit to receive some loads?

I've had fun at Spa Excess, and I like renting the room with a sling on the 3rd floor.  But unfortunately this place does not offer good cleaning facilities for bottoms to clean their hole. I think there is a place in the basement. 

Steamworks, on the other hand, has great douching facilities, all on one floor.

On 1/20/2024 at 4:20 PM, Read1 said:

I've been to LIGHTS OUT on Thursday nights a few times

I'm also a fan of Lights Out event at Steamworks. Guys get more uninhibited.

9 hours ago, ccmmss said:

If I am topping... i usually go deep.

This is why I always open up my hole wide when I noticed that the breeding is about to start or has started.

On 3/7/2024 at 3:07 AM, BootmanLA said:

I'll mention something here that has been covered elsewhere: hotels in many areas are becoming less friendly towards this sort of thing.

I'd love to setup anon action in my hotel room but they now don't provide the environment for anonymous action.

Some comments here mention "when the guy is at the hotel". How do you know he's actually there? Maybe the App provides that info. But then, once the guy is "there" and you provide them with the room number, how do they get to your room where you are waiting blindfolded, etc,? Do they have to sneak in, when other people use the elevator?

Can a "guest", once at the hotel, give the receptionist your real name and room number, and get permission to go up to the room? 

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Hot gloryhole breeding. I love to hear the top moaning and groaning

On 4/24/2024 at 2:12 PM, hntnhole said:

Much prefer bending over the bottom's back and whispering truly filthy Breedtalk in his ear

This reminds me of a time at the sauna during the time when most guys fucked with condoms.  I was getting fucked in my room supposedly with a condom, it felt a bit different but didn't think about it. When the guy cums, he leans forward and whispers in my ear "I left you a present", and quickly left my room. I saw the empty condom and touched my hole and felt his cum. I liked his present so much that I never fucked by a guy wearing a condom again.

49 minutes ago, Konrad said:

I agree, it is the ultimate to cum after your partner has cum inside

Just as a bottom stops being horny when he cums, so do tops. From Wikipedia, the description of the orgasm from Masters and Johnson's research:

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In males, orgasm is usually associated with ejaculation. Each ejaculation is accompanied with continuous pulses of sexual pleasure, especially in the penis and surrounding area. Other sensations may be felt strongly among the lower spine or lower back. The first and second convulsions are usually the most intense in sensation and produce the greatest quantity of semen. Thereafter, each contraction is associated with a diminishing volume of semen and a milder sensation of pleasure.

If a bottom wants to cum together with the top, this is the time to do it, so the bottom's prostate can massage the top's cock as he cums. Also,. seeing the bottom shot his load can be hot for the top who is now in the "resolution period":

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The resolution phase occurs after orgasm and allows the muscles to relax, blood pressure to drop and the body to slow down from its excited state.

What makes the connection is both, the top and bottom, sharing this relaxing time.

At the sauna, it's a different story.

2 hours ago, faggot4play said:

Yea it can hurt, but ass adapts quickly.

It's amazing how the hole adapts quickly, even after a bit of pain.

This is to me the perfect breeding. Up to minute 3:21 the top is just having fun with the hole. This is when the top realizes that he's getting very horny and he's starting to think about shooting. His expression changes and he starts to focus on his cock that will soon explode. At 3:42 he's getting too horny so he briefly pulls out. At minute 4:00 he's super horny and it's the moment when the bottom knows that load is going into his hole. At least I do when I'm getting fucked.

The top says "You like this dick" and followed by "You want that load, don't you". For sure the top is getting ready to blow, an exciting moment for the bottom.  4:30 the pace is in full swing and the load is for sure going into that hole. It is at this moment when I usually play a bit with my hole, open up and tighten up a bit, and tell the top "Go deep with you deliver the load". I love the talking between top and bottom as the top gets ready to shoot.

4:34 the top explodes moaning for  few seconds. I like it how he keeps pumping for quire a long time,

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On 4/18/2024 at 11:00 AM, Bottom Jim said:

He then went on to say he was 100% straight 
He is a little in self denial Any comments 

His view makes sense if you believe that "gay" is a self-identity. Like "Trans", it is the person that has to take on the identity.

Most people don't know that the famous Dr. Alfred Kinsey was against using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" on people because these terms refer to the sexual act. According to Kinsey, a sexual act  can be heterosexual or homosexual, but not the people involved.

The Kinsey Scale has nothing to do with identities, gay or straight and it has been hijacked to mean a "spectrum" of sexual orientation. In the 1940's sex was supposed to happen between men and women but  the results of the Kinsey's questionnaire for men showed a different picture. He categorized men by the proportion of types of sexual acts, heterosexual and homosexual, but never to mean an identity.  Here is Kinsey's quote:

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"For nearly a century the term homosexual in connection with human behavior has been applied to sexual relationships, either overt or psychic, between individuals of the same sex... It would encourage clearer thinking on these matters if persons were not characterized as heterosexual or homosexual, but as individuals who have had certain amounts of heterosexual experience and certain amounts of homosexual experience. Instead of using these terms as substantives which stand for persons, or even as adjectives to describe persons, they may better be used to describe the nature of overt sexual relations, or of the stimuli to which an individual erotically responds." Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (Kinsey, et al., 1948, p.656)

Instead of focusing in identities, I prefer to focus on the "needs" that the identity may satisfy. First of all, identities are ambiguous and open to several interpretations. Needs are specific and to the point. 

For instance, instead of thinking that I may be gay because I like sucking cock in a gloryhole, I prefer to understand the origin of that need. Once I focused on the desire to suck cock I came to the conclusion that one reason I may wanna suck another guy's cock is because I can't suck my own! If I could suck my own I may be curious about doing it to another guy, but I may do myself a better BJ that someone else. But we have no option but to suck another guy's cock. The power of the experience of sucking a cock in a gloryhole is that because it's unattached to a body, I can imagine I'm sucking my own. And that's s turn on.

What this guy is saying makes sense from the perspective of Kinsey.

When I'm at the sauna after a couple of loads, I sometimes push the loads out and then douche. I like the feeling of a clean hole being filled with cum. After a load or two I don't even know if a guy who fucks me ends up breeding me.

I've shot my load before the top and I've noticed that it's a bit uncomfortable to get fucked but only for a couple of minutes.

I find that once the guy breeds me, I'm horny again and can keep taking cock and cum.

3 hours ago, hairyone said:

how do you feel when a top ignores you without saying anything and just leaves?

I love it when that happens. When I advertise my private gloryhole I always say that I don't want any hellos, goodbyes, or chit-chat of any kind. Just dirty talk. Once the guy shoots, he quietly leaves, without saying a word. I love that

To understand why some "Tops turn out to be bottoms" one has to understand what makes someone a bottom or a top. Being a top or a bottom is not determined by genetics but the ability to get an erection, maintain the erection, and then be able to control the shooting of the load. Keep in  mind that the sexual mood changes dramatically once you cum.

If I could easily get an erection, maintain the erection and then be able to fuck without shooting, I would definitely be at least versatile. I envy those guys at the sauna that can move from one hole to another and then cum at their will. Maybe then rest a bit and keep fucking. I envy those guys.

I don't top because I cum too quickly and then the fun is over. I prefer to take loads and enjoy every load, until I decide to go home.

Bottoming requires men to get over the idea that bottoming is a female role. Some men would like to try it, but they can't psychologically.

I find this video very hot. A twinkish white boy getting gangbanged by several BBC's. Hot

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I like a verbal guy fucking me, especially while he floods my hole. But a quiet horny guy eager to breed my hole is pretty hot too.

I like it when a guy is fucking me at the sauna or darkroom, he suddenly stops and then he leaves. And I then feel cum running down my leg. That's pretty hot and the guy didn't say a word.

On 4/8/2024 at 3:46 PM, RealCute said:

Yes steam works has two stations in the wash rooms down stairs. 

Thanks!

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What do anon-bottoms think about straight-ish tops seeding them??

The one event that comes to mind is when I was at the local sauna. I was already quite opened about being a slutty bottom when a guy came into the room and closed the door. The typical, start by sucking, licking balls, enthusiastic about working on his shaft, but when he found my lubed hole he told me he wanted to fuck me. After breeding me and pulling out, and before leaving told me he was married and ass was better than pussy.

On 12/26/2023 at 5:33 PM, RimBoy87 said:

My only regret was not giving in to my urges earlier in life.

I was lucky that in my early 20's I had a good gay friend who was older and with a lot of experience as a bottom.  We never had sex but he would tell me about his sex escapades. With him I learned about bathhouses and about clubs like the Mineshaft in New York City. He also told me about action going on at the YMCA in New York city. This was in the mid-late 70's.

I was young and didn't really understand what was the point of bottoming. The cock and cumming gave me pleasure. But by listening to him and his bottom adventures, I started getting interested in the idea. I borrowed from him a book of sexual poetry and one of the poems caught my attention and started fantasizing about getting fucked, and taking the load. The poem was about a guy in prison talking about how he will go to another guy's cell, fuck him and then see his cum running down the guy's leg.

I was around 23 and decided to go to the YMCA in NYC. Because I was young, in very good shape, and masculine looking, I had no problem getting guys to fuck me. Nobody used condoms before the AIDS epidemic.  In the 90's I did the cumdump thing again, and had lots of fun. I was no longer young but kept myself in shape but decided to start barebacking with anon guys when condoms were still the norm. At the time some guys would change their mind about fucking me with a condom if I suggested we could bareback.

I'll be in Vancouver at the beginning of May and would like some recommendations. Does anyone know of:

1. A hotel where I can have anonymous guys come up to my room? Or at least, without too much hassle or having to walk them up to my room. I like anonymous sex, no chit-chat, door unlocked, etc.
2. A bathhouse equipped with good douching facilities. I understand Steamworks has. If you are a bottom, can you suggest a bathhouse?

I like sucking in a gloryhole, so I'm only in touch with a cock that later shoots a load.  I'm usually so horny and eager to milk a cock that I welcome all flavours of cum. Once the cock disappears, I'm eagerly waiting for the next one to appear.