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8 hours ago, Bwccummer said:

I hope to get soon so can share a review of.

I hope you do. $26 on Amazon

23 hours ago, meetme said:

Bottoms are intending to be clean for you, that takes sometimes hours of preparation. Tops don’t have to do that kind of advance work.  

When I was a younger bottom up to my 50's getting ready for a fuck took only 30 minutes. Fuck buddies would call me when they were planning to be in the neighbourhood and I was always ready, spotless hole. Guys liked a clean hole so they kept coming back plus it was at a time when most bottoms still demanded a condom so my clean raw hole was sought after.

But now I find it harder to "feel" clean. I like Steamworks Toronto because they have good cleaning facilities. When I was young I would clean my hole and bike to a park and spend hours cruising and having sex. Can't do that any more. Anybody else notices changes with age in this department?

This video is really hot. A verbal top with a big cock asking the bottom to squeeze his hole if he wants the babies:

[think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/66241/vocal-xl-top-breeds-in-public/

Vocal XL top breeds in public

4 hours ago, ErosWired said:

An ejaculatory orgasm is not a rewarding thing for me;

You are nothing special because this is true for most men. It has nothing to do with being top, bottom or versatile.

4 hours ago, ErosWired said:

it’s unpleasant and energy-draining.

That's why in French the male orgasm is called "La petite mort".

4 hours ago, ErosWired said:

it really is all about their climax.

As much as you enjoy watching other men shoot their load, other men like it too, including a guy who fucks. Just look at how porn is full of cumshots which in porn is called "money shot" because seeing a guy shoot his load is what sells the movies.

All men have to deal with the postorgasmic issues of feeling tired and loss of sexual interest.

I was a cumdump before such a concept existed.

In my early 20's I used to travel to NYC and stay at the YMCA, where guys from all over the US would stay for days or weeks, and at the same time have fun having sex. I was young and in good shape and enjoyed having seducing guys to fuck me.  All I needed to do was to leave the door of my room open and wait. But I didn't see myself as a cumdump or a bottom or that I had bareback sex because that's how 99% guys would do.

The scene I like is to get rimmed by a guy at the sauna, with a soft cock when he starts the rimming. And then to hear him get up and start fucking me with a raging hard-on.

On 8/11/2023 at 10:50 AM, FelchingPisser said:

Isn't that the way men are built?   I've heard wives complain about it for years...

Exactly  most of us lose total interest in sex, or even in touching or coddling. I had a longtime fuck-buddy who fucked me for many years, very masculine good looking guy, nice body. As he shot his load his entire body became very sensitive to the point that I couldn't touch him while he was breeding me and a minute or so later.  He had a beautiful body but I couldn't touch him at all.

It's sometimes awkward for two guys who know each other to cum after having been fooling around. There are some nervous laughs and the mood of the encounter changes completely. Maybe go out and eat. I prefer the anon scene so I don't have to deal with that.

I like going to bathhouses because there's a lot of flexibility for fetishes. Things happen spontaneously and the possibilities are endless. I leave open the door of my room, which I keep in the darker side. Most visible to guys walking on the hallway are two glow-in-the-dark items, the hole in my shorts and a sign CUMHOLE.

I spend a few hours, many guys are surprised by what they see and many walk in. Eventually I get fucked and take the load. Once the guys pull out, most leave right away. Some lose energy for longer time and the lie exhausted, but with no real interest in fooling around in any way. But I'm horny as hell, especially when I can feel it in some way. I open the door again, and start again, horny as hell.

When I was in my 20's a gay friend who was maybe 10 years older told me that he liked getting fucked because then he can keep having sex. I took his advice and became what nos is called a bottom.

Really hot Anon Breeding!

Starts when the top is already past the point of no return and he moans as he gets ready to shoot and then while he breeds the hole

[think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/65515/anon-breeding/

8 minutes ago, btmdad said:

What do Tops think about fucking in a dark room? 

Having sex in the dark, once you get to like it, it's good for the guy fucking and the guy getting fucked. The same is true for sex in gloryholes. I was very young when one night looking for the club Mineshaft I came across a club called "Gloryhole". I had no idea what a gloryhole was. After paying quite a bit of money I walked in walked around shocked, and left a few minutes later, shocked.

Dark room or any kind of extreme anonymous sex is an improved version of a hot porno video that once you shoot your load, you leave, like tuning the laptop off once you unloaded. A few months ago in one of the dark areas of Toronto Steamworks some guy fucked me and shot his load, and left without saying a word.

My dilemma when servicing cocks at a gloryhole is if and when to offer my hole. I enjoy sucking and swallowing loads a lot but I also like getting bred, especially by someone anonymous. Unless the top indicates he wants ass, through withdrawing, etc, I'm always afraid that the guy leaves the gloryhole and I miss a load, because some guys are turned off by bottoms who bareback.

37 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

it's all psychological for me, even then i was doing it for him, really not turned on by it, just wanting to give him a good time... but my penis didn't agree. 

Let's face it, most men have to deal at some point with "not getting a hardon" because the conditions for being able to get a hardon are many. One of the things I like about sex in saunas or parks is that I never have to think about getting hard because there will be some cocks there that are hard.

That's completely different from a guy jumping from a romantic dinner with a lady and then moving to the bedroom hoping the thing will work. Maybe the lady said something that completely turns the guy off.

All this to say, yes, many men have had to deal with tough times of having to perform.

3 hours ago, Daddieaz said:

I am a confirmed bottom but lately when I’m at the bathhouse and there are nothing but other bottoms I have started topping them.

Did you end up breeding the holes?

I have a weakness for getting bred by a bottom, maybe because they know how it feels to be bred. At the baths I try staying late until guys start going home, maybe 4am, when bottoms are getting tired and need to go home. But some are horny and in need to shoot before going home and hunt for a hole to unload. I love these loads, it's a quick fuck, sometimes only a couple of thrusts before they go deep to shoot, they pull out, take a shower and go home.

I'm very aware that there is a huge difference in my "erotic mood" between how I feel before and after I cum. And I know this is not only me, but it is also true to the majority of guys. I remember cruising for sex late at night in a popular park, full of horny guys and only once they unloaded they would become aware of how late it was "Oh, shit, it's 3:30am and I have a 7am appointment!". The mood changes, for everyone.

I remember only two multiple cummers, a black guy with a nice uncut cock, who every time he bred my hole he would stay inside and in a couple of minutes he was hard again, and ended up giving me another load. The other guy was at a park, I swallowed his load and I expected him to just leave. But he stayed and fed me another load.

In the 70's I had a good friend who was gay and a bit older than me. In those days the "identity" of top or bottom didn't exist and instead there guys who liked getting fucked, and my friend was one of them. I was then young and naive but he told me all about saunas and sex clubs, and about how much he enjoyed getting fucked. I was curious because I couldn't imagine that sticking a cock in my ass would be better than an orgasm.

My friend told me that early in his sexual life he realized that he enjoyed being horny so much that at the saunas he would only get fucked and try never to cum. Before that I couldn't understand what was the fun of being a bottom, but then I realized that apart from the excitement of being horny for long periods of time, I could also feel an excitement that I would call an "emotional orgasm" every time a guy would come inside. When I go to the sauna every time I get bred, while the guy makes sexy noises as he unloads inside, it feels to me so powerful that I call it an "emotional orgasm". But unlike a physical orgasm, I now feel hornier and want more.

On 6/16/2023 at 8:55 AM, 1hornyjohn said:

My God, he told his top what to do! I was being fucked alongside him and it turned me on listening to him.

If being a verbal bottom implies talking dirty, I'm all for it. But a good bottom has to be in tune with the needs of the top. For instance while getting fucked I never talk about cum or load to the top, and instead say things like "That cock feels good in my hole", but I never overdo it, repeating over and over. I always prefer to focus on the top's sounds, and occasionally say something that connects with the top, like "My hole is getting ready for your load" once I've noticed the top is starting to get ready to cum, and if the top responds I may say "Go deep when you are shooting". 

On 6/19/2023 at 11:44 AM, drscorpio said:

If I cum hands free from being fucked, it doesn't make me lose my arousal.

Some loss of intensity of the horniness is inevitable and there are a few seconds when the experience of getting fucked can be a bit uncomfortable. However, from my experiences bottoming after a few seconds in most cases I'm back horny as before and happy to keep taking cock.

On 6/19/2023 at 5:23 PM, hexfet said:

If the bottom, though, has a death grip on his cock and clearly is trying to get off and I tell him to wait, and he cums anyway.  Well then I’m keeping on fucking him whether he likes it or not (within reason, but it’s never been a problem).

I agree with this attitude and approach

On 6/11/2023 at 7:09 PM, LatinoCumdump4u said:

I think it is important for you to communicate with your partners and explain your sensitivities ahead of time.

This makes no sense at the bathhouse.

I think that a bottom has to be reasonable and accommodate to the needs of the guy fucking, but depending on the situation. IF the bottom starts shooting but realizes that the top is getting pretty close, the bottom has to let the top finish, and he'll be happy he did let the top finish.

On 6/14/2023 at 7:22 PM, Funinncounty said:

At the bathhouse I also like to be verbal. Telling the guy how good it feels. Asking for him to fuck me harder or slower. (You get the idea). It seems to draw a bit of a crowd but the guys don’t always verbally respond. Do tops like verbal bottoms?

A lot has to do with the meaning of being "verbal". When I'm at the sauna watching two guys putting up a sex show, what I want to hear are the sounds coming from the guy doing the fucking, I wanna hear the grunts, breathing rhythm, and the dirty talk as he plows the hole and then when he breeds it. The bottom could be silent and that would be OK with me, as long as I can hear the top's sounds.

I find this particularly irritating in porn when I can't hear the top because of some loud bottom just screaming. Not my thing. Appropriate dirty talk is for me the only acceptable sounds, which are words encouraging the top without pushing him. At the sauna, one phrase that use when the guy fucking me has signalled that he's getting ready to cum is "Go deep when you breed my hole", but I say it only when I know it's happening.

I recognize that there are guys who like to hear the bottom make noise while he gets fucked, but those are things a bottom can discover while getting fucked. If I notice a guys needs to hear something to get hard and then to shoot his load, I'll say it or do it.

On 6/11/2023 at 3:57 AM, Robbie1111 said:

I guess he was planning to shoot in me and pretend he didn’t realise the condom had come off.

Let's face it, there's a huge difference between fucking with a condom and fucking raw, especially when the guy is shooting his load. At that point the tip gets too sensitive and the condom rubbing on it makes it very uncomfortable. I can't blame a guy wanting to shoot inside a warm smooth hole. I was stealthed in the 90's by a guy at the sauna who took off his condom. Before leaving my room he whispered in my ear "I left you a present", I touched my leaking hole. I never went back to condoms.

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How to Know When You are a True Cum Dump

I had a gay friend who liked getting fucked and would tell me about his adventures at the baths. I was very young then and I didn't really understand what the point of being fucked would be because I enjoyed shooting a load. He had lived in NYC for a couple of years and had lots of stories about places like the Mine-shaft. One day perusing his library I came across a book about masculinity and I found a poem in this book that made me want to get fucked. It's called "Rape":
 

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when you walked into my prison cell

and told me that you were going to

fuck me---after first pulling down

your pants and exposing your rod

I guess you thought you were going to

get a virgin ass

well---sucker

I have been fucked before

and plan on getting fucked again

so you are not getting anything new!

and someday you will come to my cell

and your ass will be twitching

and then you---sucker---will feel my

cum run down between your legs!

 

Soon after I took a bus to NYC and stayed at the YMCA for a few days. My gay friend had told me about his adventures at the YMCA and how he would leave the door of his room ajar so that guys would walk into his room. I was in my early 20's and had a great body so of course I took all kinds of loads during those days. My gay friend also told me all about cleaning your hole and being ready to get fucked, which is essential for any cumdump. I like to feel the cum inside my hole and not mixed with any shit.

26 minutes ago, Bottom Jim said:

He said he was straight but wanted to see what same sex was all about.

I think that it's not really fair to compare sex with men and women, because I think that what most guys like about sex with men is the no-strings-attached type of sex.

31 minutes ago, Bottom Jim said:

He left with out a word

This is what I mean. I've been at the sauna in my room, door open, and some guy comes in. Without saying a word, we kiss, do so oral, and finish with anal. And he leaves the room, again without saying a word.

What I like the most about sex with men is the easy access to anonymous no-strings-attached sex. If I had to always meet in person, and have a talk before I could suck a guy's cock, I don't think I would bother. One of the reasons I like sucking cock is that I know that I can walk into the local ABS and play with cocks in the gloryholes.

16 hours ago, Rillion said:

It does help on the hook up apps, as I've found I'm in a lot more demand when I'm advertising as a top than when I'm looking to take dick.

That's always the case, even in parks and bathhouses. Any old guy 65+, but who he can, get an erection, maintain the erection, and shoot a nice load, can find a hole. But if the same guy is the hole, there would be very little interest.

I've noticed the effects of aging as a bottom. When I was a young bottom, and not so young, I knew that when I went to the sauna or at the park I would be taking loads. I enjoyed the challenge of meeting up with a versatile-bottom looking for a top and then walking out the door with his load. Once a guy said "You tricked me!" as I was leaving. We would start necking and then once he was really horny and really into my body, I would then make sure to find my lubed hole. It was hot!

15 hours ago, cumfillme said:

For me it is the pounding music,

On my last visit to Steamworks Toronto I was getting fucked in the darkroom and I knew that I had just taken a load because of the slap on my ass right I got before the guy was gone, just his load in my hole. The music was too loud so I didn't hear a thing.

21 hours ago, ryanroman said:

I prefer loose bttms -

Are there any guys who enjoy fucking a tight hole? I like my hole to be as loose as I can and once the cock is inside I tighten or loosen depending on the cock and the situation.

Are there guys who enjoy fucking a tight hole?

On 5/5/2023 at 3:33 PM, LetsPOZBreed said:

but even these saunas have their good and bad nights

I agree, sometime saunas are empty and not much going on. They used to be great places for sure sex before Apps. But what I meant is that at the sauna one can play the role you want and sometimes get lucky. My last time at Steamworks Toronto on the Thursday night I took 6 loads and then 5 on the Saturday night. On one of the nights a guy gave two loads in a 2-hour period and in part because I hang a sign that glows in the dark saying "CUMHOLE". At the sauna I can do what I want and hope to find guys.

12 hours ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

I’ve never been convinced by this. The thing is, most tops are a one shot deal- whether they’re online or in a cruise bar, they generally hook up, unload, and disappear back into real life to get on with other things.

This is absolutely true. When a bottom shoots his load, especially inadvertently, also stop being horny and many no longer want to continue bottom. When I used to go to saunas more often I knew that if I wanted to be able to use a public sling being monopolized by a bottom, the solution was to somehow make him cum. Most would jump off the sling and then I could use it.

12 hours ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

And because bottoms cum less often, they’re always horny, always more willing to chat about sex on sites like this- ...

This is what makes the cumdumps and cumholes. 

12 hours ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

... and that feeds into the illusion that there are more bottoms than tops. 

It's difficult to come to a consensus about the ratio of tops and bottoms but there are some facts.

A guy in his 70's or 80's who can hold a nice hard erection for long periods of time and who can then shoot a nice load, especially a raw hole, would have no problem finding sex partners. An older guy in the same age range who is looking to get fucked and bred won't be as lucky. To be lucky as a bottom it helps to be young.