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I've never used poppers but when I go to the sauna I always have some for my "guests". It's happened too often that while in my room a guy asks for poppers and when I've said "no" the guy leaves looking for poppers, and he never comes back. So now I always have some available when a guy asks for them.

But now the problem is that twice the guys have taken my poppers. I lost one bottle but the other night I went after him and got my bottle back. It looks like poppers are in demand and when a guy gets ahold of a bottle he doesn't want to give it back.

I'm now keeping a close eye on my bottle when a guy comes into my room at the sauna.

On 2/12/2024 at 12:16 PM, bentover4u1972 said:

I had a not-so-great experience during a gang bang I had set up for myself,

It would be interesting to know what went wrong with your gang-bang. It may help others

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"Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?

Is this question still relevant?

I haven't heard this asked in a couple of decades. It was very common in the 90's but now with Meds and PrEP, other STDs like Syphilis, Clamydia and Gonorrhea are more easily caught. Pulling out doesn't protect from these STDs

9 hours ago, Jose said:

I always like to fuck for at least an hour non stop 

Most guys who can fuck for a long time are at least versatile. I can usually recognize bottoms who want to unload after they are done bottoming and want to go home, because they don't last more than a few seconds. I don't mind it and actually enjoy quick breeding sessions.

On 2/4/2024 at 3:38 AM, rawfuckr said:

I'm scared and now I may  have to  live with hep c  due to my stupidity ....

It's not really "stupidity" because then being "wise" would be to never have uninhibited anonymous sex in saunas, darkrooms, gloryholes, and parks.

On 8/11/2023 at 3:37 PM, Jose said:

My seed is a little part of me that I feel needs to be shared with the world.

This makes sense because it complements what a bottom feels. When guys leave after the breeding, I remember that their load is in my hole. It complements what Jose enjoys

On 8/11/2023 at 3:37 PM, Jose said:

I fucking love doing it.

I think that what makes a good top is (1) The ability to get an erection and keep the hard-on, and (2) Being able to fuck without shooting your load.

Jose, is this your case?

If I could keep a good hard-on and could fuck for long periods of time without shooting, I would at least be versatile.

On 1/21/2023 at 11:01 AM, Marcos21 said:

i cannot stop thinking about getting loaded...

You are young so you should take advantage of your youth and get bred as much as you can. I did that myself.

When I was in my 20's, before the AIDS crisis, I used to go to the YMCA in NYC and rent a room for a few days. Guys would follow me in the hallways and all I had to do was leave my door open. Some nights I wouldn't even sleep. Young bottoms can even get loads from other bottoms. 

On 2/8/2024 at 3:54 PM, topblkmale said:

Vaseline for the base coat.

Yes, a coat of Vaseline and then other lubes or spit

On 2/8/2024 at 4:22 PM, FelchingPisser said:

For those of us who love to rim

That's always the question: To lube or not to lube.

A good top is a guy

(1) Who can get a hard-on and stay hard, and

(2) Who can fuck for a long time before he shoots

Optional, and a plus,

3) Who can stay hard after shooting and cum a second time.

I've been a bottom all my fucking life and I would be versatile if I could do 1) and 2)

On 2/2/2024 at 7:21 AM, Bbbtmws said:

 I need to be loved and I need to be bred, but not necessarily by the same person. I want more than one person to breed me and often multiple men and loads in one “session” even if I get really good sex by the one I love at home. 

I've needed emotional intimacy with usually younger men, and different kinds of anonymous sex, which includes getting bred, with men in saunas, parks and online.

I prefer to start with an anonymous encounter and then move to a friendship. I can't the other way.

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What were the most influential events that turned you into the pig you are today?

My first visit to the YMCA in New Yor City, before the AIDS Epidemic. I was young and hot, so the scene blew my mind.

On 1/11/2024 at 3:41 AM, Faithboy said:

Is there a reason anonymous sex feels like the best kind of sex between men?

In an anonymous sex encounter I can incorporate the other guy into some hot fetish of mine. Once I get to know a person the dynamic changes because now instead of a body they are now a person. 

On 1/20/2024 at 8:37 PM, btmdad said:

What makes a hole appealing to you? 

I would say that a pre-loaded hole because these appeal even to horny bottom guys. I was once in a darkroom at a busy sauna and once I took my first load, the second and third happened pretty quickly. The first guy pulled out and some guy who had watched the action would touch my dripping hole and move close to my hole and dump his load. A dripping hole is always really hot.

I know that these days "being born" something has become very popular, but in the case of bottoms, nobody is born a bottom.

In my early 20's I discovered that I preferred to bottom because that way at the sauna I can be horny and have fun for longer periods of time. When I had a gloryhole I could service many guys and enjoyed swallowing load and getting bred.  I enjoyed watching guys fuck me, listening to them groan and moan while they unloaded inside my hole.  Every time I take a load and hear the guy shooting inside, it feels like I'm having an orgasm, but I'm still feeling horny.  So many times I've been bred at a sauna and then minutes later I see the guy leaving the sauna. 

It's the way the male orgasm works that I think makes many guys want to bottom instead, if they are able to, because some men are incurable of bottoming.  Also, while bottoming I don't have to worry about having an erection or not.

I had a good friend who was a total bottom and I think my friendship with him made me try bottoming and I liked it. But I wasn't born a bottom

On 12/28/2023 at 11:11 AM, mjkuhl said:

When in Chicago always visit Steamworks! 

I like Steamworks Toronto because it's in a modern building with nice cleaning facilities. The doors of the rooms are solid and with great locks, almost like a hotel.

Are all Steamworks bathhouses the same style? In Chicago and San Francisco?

1 hour ago, EuRawBull said:

#1 Cairo, Egypt. There has to be at least 100 tops for any bottom out there.

#2 Doha, Qatar. Oddly enough, one of the places where bottoms thrive

It makes sense because I think that in many non-Western countries bottoming is thought as a woman's role so many men stay away from it.

I once read that during the AIDS epidemic Brazil had to change the prevention strategy and instead of referring to "gay men" they started using "men who have sex with men" because a man was considered gay only if he bottomed.

On 5/17/2022 at 9:52 AM, Pigforcum said:

My only regret is not taking loads when I was younger. Waiting so long was a mistake

I was lucky that when I was in my early 20's I was very good friends with a guy who was a bottom and would tell me all about bottoming. It was a lot of fun taking loads as a young bottom because young holes are a big turn on to many guys.

On 12/26/2023 at 12:14 PM, StraightBottomSlut said:

I never could have imagined the pleasure of being fucked bareback. My god, I loved it.

If you think about it, the most erotic experience is to "feel-wanted", to feel that your body appeals to others. This experience is mostly accepted in women who are supposed to be wanted by men.

A man who self-identifies as straight can only experience feeling-wanted from women, which is an experience that is never as strong as feeling-wanted by a man, because of the hard-on.

On 12/26/2023 at 12:14 PM, StraightBottomSlut said:

It makes no sense. I’ve always wanted to be that bottom in the Treasure Island video

Being a bottom has nothing to do with femininity, which is something many men think, the "woman" of the sex encounter. I started bottoming in my early 20's and I never thought of myself as feminine. On the contrary, they often asked me if I was married because. Being young and in good shape really helped because it's easier to "feel-wanted".

When I bottom someone has to feel horny for me and the hard-on going into my hole is the proof, or at least I can fantasize it is. There is pleasure in feeling the hard-on and because I also get hard-ons I can connect with the guy fucking me. But the best perk, if you will, of bottoming is the ability to get fucked non-stop by identifying with the pleasure of every man as they unload inside me. Every load I take feels like my own, but I never cum.

I've never enjoyed fucking ass, I've tried it, but don't get the enjoyment that I get from bottoming

Getting the load is a different story all together and something that has been discussed here before.

On 12/18/2023 at 10:20 PM, VersatileBreeder said:

We laid there for a couple of minutes, then he jacked his cock and came within about a minute. First thing he did was get up, go into the bathroom and empty my load out in the toilet.

In this case I think he was done after shooting his load. If he hadn't cum he would have probably keep his load.

In terms of security it depends a lot on the city. I've done the anon walk-in scene a few times and it was hot. I once had a total bottom breed me because the scene turned him on too much.

On 12/13/2023 at 5:58 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

I think the apps work well for younger guys.

Not only Apps because in bathhouses I always see young guys being chased and paid more attention than older guys.

20 hours ago, EuRawBull said:

We both advertised ourselves as bottoms, and on the grindr and scruff hunt off we went. Three hours later, my friend had about 40 something chats open.

I started bottoming in my 20's and it was very easy to get guys' attention then.

16 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

So now you're the arbiter of what a "real man" is?

Born with a cock that works

16 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

what Trans men have is "none too appetizing" as a general statement is arrogant and rude. 

I don't understand this attitude of getting offended by my statements when there are guys who reject a cock smaller than 7", and in their profile they go on and on how much the only want XL guys.  It's so obvious that the whole thing revolves around masculine men, hard-ons and cum so I don't understand being surprised by my comments.

15 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

1. Many trans men DO look like men - probably as much, or more so, as you do.

In this thread the topic is about bathhouses which are places for men to look for sex with other men, find cocks, swallow loads, fuck a manhole, etc. So it's natural that the majority of men expect real men in these places. What do Trans men have between their legs? I'm sure nothing too appetizing.

Ads of bathhouses or hook-up sites always show masculine men because they know that masculine men is what most men are looking for. Yes, there are fetishes and some men may like a different kind of person to have sex, but  overwhelmingly men want masculine men with a hot bulge and a cock that shoots cum. 

On 11/30/2023 at 12:33 PM, BootmanLA said:

so please change the "we are interested" to "I am interested". 

So you are saying that I'm the only one interested in big cocks and after BBC's to get fucked, and worried about whether cocks are cut or uncut?

I can understand that there are many fetishes and that people with undetermined genders may be a turn-on for some. But the huge majority of guys I read about here and in other sites are after men who look like men. The more masculine looking the better.

7 hours ago, Movietheaterslut2 said:

Trans men are men. 

I don't think so, especially in the environment of anonymous sex where the cock, the hard-on and the cum are at the centre of the excitement. We are interested in size, shape and how far does a cock shoot, a real one I mean.