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15 hours ago, analluv27 said:

Personally for myself I try not to cum because once I shot my load my interest begins to dwindle.

This happens to everyone. The only difference is the time it takes to recover. Double-cummers can shoot their load, keep pumping, get horny again while pumping and shoot a second load. Others are done, but what matters is that is not for ever.

I was discussing the bathhouse scene because there are saunas to relax, showers, rooms to rest and relax. Plus on a busy time there is a lot of hot stimulation around which makes it easier to get very horny again.

16 hours ago, analluv27 said:

So as a rule I ignore my dick won't even touch the fucker until my top is satisfied and gives me permission to cum

Some bottoms can completely ignore their dick so no need at all to cum. But many bottoms can't and don't want to and get horny, a hard-on and for the 8 hours at the bathhouse have to be on guard to make sure they don't shoot their load. Or, after bottoming for a while, shoot their load, take a small break, relax and get back to the action. I enjoy more the second round of bottoming because I can still play with my cock, get hard, but without worrying that I may cum and change everything. I personally don't enjoy at all fucking so I usually shoot my load because I'm too horny with a load I just took. Bottoms who enjoy breeding holes will discover that they don't only enjoy shooting in  hole but that they also will enjoy the bottoming in the second round.

The same goes for tops. If a top is planning to spend several hours at a bathhouse it may be better to after a couple of hours breed a hole and then enjoy the rest of the evening fucking without being so worried about shooting his load. I actually leaned this from a buddy of mine who used to be a bottom but he now only tops. When we meet at the bathhouse and we are planing to stay all night, my buddy breeds the first hole in less than an hour. But then he fucks like a rabbit.

From a thread about experiences at Cumunion:

42 minutes ago, Read1 said:

One guy was sucking him [older guy] off, ass up. I don't need any more invitations; my hard dick was ready to fuck him. His ass felt so GREAT! As I just got to Steamworks, it was a little early to cum up his cunt. But the fucking was amazing. Another younger guy came closer, stuck his ass beside the other guy's ass and wanted too to be fucked. So I switched asses.

I sometimes think that guys are too protective of their load and it ends up interfering with the fun. Read1 could have bred one of the holes and make a bottom very happy, not to mention all his  excitement shooting his load inside. Then take a shower, rest for 1/2 hour and back into the action.

In a bathhouse it's easy to get horned up again with so many guys and all the action around. Read1 was planning to stay until 5AM with plenty of time to get very horny and with more cum-control. Once you've shot your first load it's easier to bottom and to top. You can fuck for a longer time and you can also bottom without worrying about shooting your load in the middle of a fuck. Maybe if you plan to only stay for a couple of hours it may make sense to "save" the load. When I know I'm staying all night at the bathhouse I usually cum fairly early and then once again before I leave in the morning.

21 hours ago, barecubtop said:

Nice to see something focused on us tops ;-)

I agree because we already hear so much from bottoms and their experiences. Some of us may prefer to bottom but it may be helpful to hear from tops' experiences. Plus some bottoms top occasionally and can learn from others.

21 hours ago, barecubtop said:

3. I don't like my holes too tight - I don't like having to fight to get in, nor do I want it so tight that I cum too quickly.  That being said, I don't want it so loose that there's no friction either.  Sometimes when I fuck a guy on a fuckbench or in a private room at a bathhouse, they're so loose and cummy that it gives me no friction and I can't cum (but mentally it's hot that they're slutty and cum-filled).

...This can be interesting, though.  I've found with certain guys, their ass is just the right tightness/looseness, and the positioning is just right, etc... that I've fucked them so long that we're both covered in sweat by the time I unload in them.  With others, I might only last 5 minutes or so.  *shrug*

I think hole tightness is crucial, as barecubtop says, because it may affect the length of the fuck and if too loose, remove much of the pleasure for the top. My few breeding experiences as a top were quite bad maybe because I'm uncut and the tip is very sensitive. I don't even like to receive blow-jobs.

I had a fuck buddy who topped me bareback for many years. He really enjoyed fucking, had a nice 8.5" cock, but once he started to shooting his body would "hurt" if I touched him, and his cock would become so sensitive that he would pull out. I eventually learned that when he started shooting I would open up my hole as much as I could to reduce friction, because after all when a top is ready to shoot and while shooting his doesn't need much friction.  The few times I've fucked the bottom wanted to show me that he had a "tight hole" and for me it was very uncomfortable. Any comments/preferences about the tightness of the hole when breeding it?

21 hours ago, barecubtop said:

You mentioned that you didn't want this post to be about the types of bottoms we fuck, but it does play a role in my enjoyment of the fuck and how it all goes down.  A guy that I know is a cumslut whore will be a different fuck than a college undergrad who has only taken it a couple times.  As a cub type myself, nailing a twink is different than slamming into a fellow cub/bear.  I fuck all of those types, and enjoy all of them, but knowing who I'm getting into affects my mental preparation, whether I get into a more dom mood or not, and even the location/setup.

I know the type of bottom is important and that the type of guy sometimes even determines whether you top or bottom ("I like topping younger twinkish guys but I bottom for older and bigger"). But I was trying to focus on the fuck itself, sort of like when fucking through a gloryhole.

We read here so much about bottoms describing what for them is a good fuck. But not so much about guys describing their topping experiences and the way a hole feels when they fuck. I would love to hear from bottoms who sometimes breed holes.

I want to focus on the fucking, the breeding and the way the hole feels. Not really interested in the "type" of bottom that turns you on. After all a hole is a hole.

Here are some things that could be considered: Clean hole? Do you like to fuck for a long time? Do you need to cum? Pull out when you cum? Prefer to cum inside? What kind of hole you like? Tight? Loose? Or you like it loose and then have the bottom tighten up? When shooting inside you like it tight or loose? I just watched a video where the top when he was shooting kept telling the bottom to relax and open-up. True for you?

This is one of the best understall breedings. The bottom shoots his load just a few seconds before getting his hole bred.

BB understall fuck

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/BB-understall-fuck-31304532

On 2014-10-30 at 2:49 PM, freshxtop5 said:

What is your favorite part when fucking bareback? When you first open up an ass, going balls deep, or my favorite out of all of them breeding the ass?

It seems to me that the original poster wanted guys who top to tell us about barebacking. freshxtop5 suggested (1) Opening up the ass, (2) Going balls deep and (3) Breeding the hole.

Unfortunately, as it happens so often, we "slutty bottoms" get so excited that we usually take over and hardly any top relates his experience. And most responses end up being from bottoms telling us how much they like to get bred.

To those who have topped bareback (you could still be a bottom, but tells us about your topping experience): Anything else to add?

I notice that in videos many bottoms get very aggressive and pushy wanting the load and during and after the top cums. I remember that the couple of times I've topped I hated that greedy attitude. What I found most uncomfortable was when the bottom kept moving his ass while shooting and after. One of the reasons I don't top.

Do you like greedy, verbal bottoms asking for the load?

While you shoot and right after, do you enjoy when the bottom tightens his hole or do you prefer looser? I ask because most guys' cock gets really sensitive after shooting and a tight hole does not feel good.  Any comments from guys who have topped?

6 hours ago, raw773 said:

How do you feel about the possibility of totally untreatable gono? 

It's not  good news because PrEP doesn't help. So, what's there to do?

14 hours ago, Dickmagnet said:

Now if you criteria ever changes for age  ( not that i understand the age issue ) which is irrelevant in my book anyway i think you will have a lot more fun & less disappointments.

In that case I would jump on the sling and forget about finding a slutty bottom. What turns me on about whoring out a young bottom is that it's not easy to find.

I've had lots of anon sex in my life and although I still enjoy having sex I sometimes prefer to whore-out a young slutty bottom (18-35) on a sling at a sauna. It turns me on to get guys to fuck him and breed his hole.  I've done it a few times but with slightly older bottoms, in their 40's. Getting older bottoms to whore-out is easy and I can even find them at the sauna.

But I wanna whore-out a twink between 18 and 23 because lots of guys get turned on by a young slut on a sling but I haven't been able to make it happen. They all go "Oh, that's hot....I've always wanted to be blindfolded on a sling...blah,blah..." but the young bottoms end up afraid and end up changing their minds.

Fucking a cummy hole is so hot that it's one of the scenes that makes total bottoms want to fuck and breed that hole. I guess bottoms identify with the slutty bottom.

As a bottom I prefer to wait for the guy about to fuck me to find my hole leaking with cum and him getting turned on by it. After finding my cummy hole he may say "You already have a load" and I will just say "Yeah!" Less "mathematical" than asking for the number of loads because all you need is one nice load to have a sloppy hole.

On 2017-06-04 at 2:15 AM, NLbear said:

... some guys weren't clean which grossed me out. Hate smelling shit. 

Same here. I only bottom because the idea of finding shit grosses me out. So I find that if I bottom I can make sure no shit will show up. I will also need to be able to fuck for at least 10 minutes without cumming in order to enjoy topping. I envy those tops that can enjoy fucking and can go for a long time.

Yesterday was a nice sunny day so decided to go for outdoor cruising. It had been a while since my last time but I was horny so I cleaned my hole and biked over to a nice park that is fairly isolated and mostly accessible by bike.

Got to the park around 11am and for the first time I brought with me a folding stool so I didn't have to rely on the spots that are mostly used by cock suckers like a rock or a tree stump. There is a rock at this park that I have been using for years but these spots are never the "perfect" place, visible enough and with traffic, but private enough so guys feel comfortable fucking. I had always found that when using the rock to sit ans suck cock many guys would not feel comfortable fucking. I could understand that but unfortunately none of the preset spots for bottoms were private enough but at the same time easily accessible by cruisers.

My folding stool (see picture) solved the problem because this time I could chose a spot close to a busy pathways but secluded enough for some hot anal action. Once I found the right spot I sat on my stool right next to the pathway with my mouth at crotch level as guys walked by. I wore a black leather hood to add a kinky touch. Lately I've been trying to avoid taking anon loads because I then have to deal with the dreaded wait. But I was so horny for some anon loads that I made sure to clean my hole and bring some lube. To make sure guys knew I was in a cumhole mood I placed a sign that said "CUMHOLE" next to me (see other picture) that  would be visible to guys as they walked by. That way if some guy was in the mood for breeding a hole the sign would speak for itself. A couple of "bottoms" stopped by and made comments about my setup and how hot it was.

I spent more than six hours in the park sucking cock and getting fucked. I would start by sucking them but while I suck them they would see the sign "cumhole"  and that's how sometimes we would change to anal. I never discussed HIV status because although my last test was negative I find it a bit ridiculous for a "cumhole" to say "I'm HIV-negative". Ended up taking 4 loads although I got fucked by more than that. One of the guys who bred me fucked me a few times and would disappear and would be back. I guess he didn't want to cum too soon but when he did shoot his load it was hot to hear him saying "Wow" with every squirt. It got busy at lunchtime and it was when I got a lot of action. I will definitely go back with my folding stool and my sign.

4 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

I can't remember taking a cock in my ass that I didn't like... there were a few guys attached to them that I didn't prefer, but I can count them on one hand and it had nothing to do with cock size.

Same here...Unless the cock is so short that can't go into my hole. Many small cocks get rock-hard and I find it hot being pounded by a cock like steel. If it's a thin cock I just squeeze my hole.

On 2017-06-08 at 0:48 PM, phukhole said:

The question was what is the appropriate behavior of a bottom monopolizing the sling/fuck bench.

I sometimes get the bottom off the sling/fuck-bench by making him shoot his load, and many get off the sling and leave. Many bottoms stop wanting to get fucked after shooting their load. It doesn't work all the time because some bottoms never cum and some don't want to get touched so they won't cum.

1 hour ago, AirmaxAndy said:

What I crave is a load from the guy whose ass is full of other guys' spunk.

I also crave it so I try doing this at the bathhouse, but I refer to it as getting a load from a bottom. Some think that bottoms who occasionally give loads are no longer bottoms are now versatile. But we have to remember that many bottoms also enjoy shooting their loads.

2 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Finding a 'versatile' cumdump is proving tricky! Anyone wanna help out? 

I doubt you can find a "versatile" cumdump online. But you could do what I do when I go to a bathhouse.

Because I know that many bottoms also get horny and enjoy shooting their loads. So I try to get their loads by on busy nights staying at the bathhouse for a long time, especially late at night or early morning. Many bottom cumdumps get turned-on by other bottom cumdumps and they like to breed another bottom before going home.

But it's important to present yourself as a cumdump and what works best for me is a sign that says "Cumdump". I turn down the light in the room and "load" the sign for it to glow in the dark. I've been bred by guys who tell me that they are bottoms but the hot sign turned him on.

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On 2017-04-27 at 6:03 AM, freshxtop5 said:

... does there seem to be an influx of picky tops on bbrt lately in the LA area?

I can understand tops being picky because the bottom has to be one that turns them on so they can want to fuck him. I've heard of versatile guys who sometimes like to be tops and sometimes like to be bottoms, depending on the other guy. A typical description in profiles is "I'm a top with smaller and younger guys and a bottom with older and bigger guys". This kind of versatile guy who is in the mood to top will be picky because he only tops certain types of bottoms.

On 2016-02-28 at 2:39 PM, Locomotion said:

...the night I learned I was poz, I topped a young twink and gave him a dose of the toxic cum as had been given to me. I would never have imagined how much that has increased my desire for sex. A life long bottom, I now see I have a desire to enjoy a more versatile sex life.

Interesting and at the same time so hot.

I was very lucky because I started barebacking before AIDS and managed to keep taking loads until late 80's, when most wore condoms, but I managed to stay HIV-negative. I restarted barebacking in the early 90's when also not too many were barebacking. At the local bathhouse I had tops who were regulars that knew I didn't wore condoms and that I liked taking loads, they would always stop by my room. Not too many raw holes in those days.

On 2017-05-30 at 5:07 PM, ff-whole said:

Well it seems I dodged the bullet AGAIN...

How relieved you must be. Yours is an example of a slutty bottom who is not chaser, a bottom who enjoys being bred but who does not want to poz.

22 minutes ago, Leatherman667 said:

I love it when a guy cums when I fucking him; whether it be hands free or hands on is immaterial.

Just wondering if you like it because it turns you on to see the bottom's cum or because your cock feels good with the contractions while the bottom shoots.

Here is an example from a bathhouse of what I'm talking about. Some guy in his 40's wrote:

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Going around 11 love big uncut cock

Then again another message by the same guy:

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Delayed won't be arriving until around noon

Did this guy actually think that guys at the bathhouse would be waiting for him?  Would guys at the bathhouse be worried because he will be late?

It would be more useful if instead he  talked about the place after his visit, make recommendations, suggestions, etc.

There have been many times when my hole has been hungry for a load but there are no tops available to supply the loads, online or at the bathhouse or park.

It was in those occasions that I would hook-up with a bottom pretending to be a top and slowly manage to make the bottom horny enough that he would end up fucking me and breeding my hole. This trick worked very well when I was young and in very good shape, with a great set of pecs that were be a big turn-on for guys. The bottom would get turned on just by the pecs and once he touched my lubed hole, that was it.

Now that I'm no longer young is not the same thing but I still get a thrill when at the bathhouse I'm able to take a load from another bottom, a slutty bottom that I've seen taking loads.

1 hour ago, ff-whole said:

And to tell you the truth; I can't believe how calm I am.

You may have some weird dreams tonight. I once had a scare and had to go get my results and I had some rel weird dreams that night. Just like you I'm not interested in pozing and wanna avoid HIV.

1 hour ago, ff-whole said:

I don't blame him because it was my choice to take the load...

Totally your choice to take his load and if you poz you can only blame yourself, even if you were stealthed.

3 hours ago, rawfuckr said:

You can get Gonorrhea, Chlamydia or syphilis easily without ass play. I've got the first two from sucking cock in the past. 

While BB makes it a bit more likely you'll catch something, if you really don't want to catch anything your only solution is to abstain. 

I totally agree.

PrEP can be a "silver bullet" for guys who don't care much about all other STI because they consider them "manageable". But my point was that there many other men for whom STI are not acceptable and for these men PrEP is not a solution. Yes, PrEP is good for some men.