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As most guys here I really enjoy presenting myself as a slutty bottom but not because I feel good feeling like a slutty bottom, but also because I get more action. At the sauna, for instance, instead of just waiting in my room like all other bottoms waiting to get bred, I "decorate" my room with signs that glow in the dark and that present me as a slutty bottom: "Cream this hole", or "Breed me". Guys have told me that the signs caught their attention and decided to come into my room and want to breed my hole. So, for me "being a slutty bottom" makes me feel good and brings me more action (i.e., loads).

Bottoming yes, topping, no or sparingly. Jerking off, sure. I don't "need" them but I definitely appreciate the euphoria.

I don't use them and don't like the smell either. I just tolerate them because I know it makes some guys hornier.

I've always known that poppers help bottoms relax the hole. True? But I'd known many guys who need poppers to fuck which is why I started buying them and have them available for tops. When I didn't carry poppers with me, when at the bathhouse some guy wanted poppers to fuck I would end up loosing the fuck and the load. So I started carrying poppers with me. ,

To the 100% bottoms reading this, focusing too much on tops is causing you to miss out on some great fucks from versatile bottoms and versatile guys. And it makes tops even pickier. This is turn makes bottoms feel even more discouraged. It's a vicious cycle.

I agree. Many total bottoms make the mistake to only want total tops to fuck them. As a total bottom I've never rejected anyone because they are not total tops.

On the contrary, I remember a summer when I was in my 30's, kept myself in excellent shape. I was in a new city for the summer and would get off on hooking up with "total bottoms" and eventually getting them to fuck and breed my hole. As I knew I was hot, tall, masculine, nice body and good size cock, the bottom, with some exceptions, would eventually get a hard-on, and then they would feel my already lubed hole, and the fucking would come next. After breeding my hole one of the bottoms said to me "You tricked me". I kept meeting with a couple of them for the remainder of the summer. Feeling horny and enjoying sticking your stiff cock in a wet eager manhole is part of the physiology of men and has nothing to do with being top, bottom, or versatile. 

When I spend the night at the bathhouse I make sure to have my hole available at the time when the crowd starts winding down, and guys starting leaving. I know that at this time many guys who have been bottoming all night are horny and like to end the night with a good fuck so they look for a hole to plant their seed before they go home. Some enjoy the fucking itself and can go on for a long time before they unload. Other bottoms don't really enjoy the fucking itself and just want a hole to unload instead of having to jerk off. Just because a bottom breeds a hole he doesn't have to renounce to his total bottom status.  

I am truly versatile.  I love so many things about men that I couldn't possibly list them here. 

It would make more sense to me that anyone who enjoys getting fucked and taking loads should be versatile because he knows how much tops enjoy fucking and breeding a hole. I'm talking from experience, as someone who's taken more than a thousand loads. The grunts, the  moans, the breathing, the yelling, all telling us that the top is fully enjoying the experience.

I've always been a bottom and I don't understand why topping is not my thing.

Being 5'6" shouldn't stop you from being a good top because most bottoms don't have any problems accommodating to the top's height. Most bottoms will do whatever needs to be done for a fuck and a load.

How about changing the environment? Have you tried topping at a bathhouse? There you can trying different bottoms and find the hole that will give you the "primal urge" that you want.

It's a shame that most of the "Good" public toilets are a thing of the past.

Yeah, and nothing better that the university toilets. My university had a raunchy toilet in the Student's Building, near the pool tables and the food machines (coffee, sandwiches, drinks, etc). 

The door was noisy so it would alert guys fooling around. The 4 toilet cubicles had a privacy wall and the last 2 cubicles were perfect for sex. The university Pub was just around the corner from this toilet so the best times were Friday or Saturday nights with lots of straight drunken guys coming for a piss.

After many years, all of a sudden, the gloryholes were gone.

I took my first loads starting in the mid 70's at the YMCA in NYC and enjoyed going to NYC a few times a year and stay at the Y. I had heard about the Y from a friend a bit older than me who was a bottom and would tell me about his trips to the Y in NYC. The YMCA in NYC in the 1970's was a hot place for sex.

I  had to stop barebacking and taking loads in the early 80's, when everyone else started wearing condoms because of AIDS. But I still remember refusing a fuck from a top who insisted in wearing condoms. I already knew about the epidemic but I still wanted it raw. I eventually started wearing condoms too when I once got stealth and felt with my fingers a fresh load dripping out of my hole. I'm now slowing down.

For those who don't trust any information from AHF (AIDS Healthcare Foundation) and who want Weinstein dead because of his point of view, here is another source of information: CDC about the same topic.

"The Center for Disease Control and Prevention reported troubling news on Tuesday that sexually transmitted infection rates skyrocketed over the last year, particularly among gay and bisexual men."

The CDC is concerned about the use of PrEP. And here comes the ridiculous part:

Although PrEP may be the culprit behind the wave of new STI infections, health groups including the World Health Organization are strongly urging men who have sex with men to get on the pill regimen but warn that the pill must be used with condoms to effectively prevent most STI infections

How many guys in here are on  PrEP and wearing condoms when they have sex? Does it make sense to have an organization like the CDC evaluate the defectiveness of PrEP based on the assumption that condoms are also being used? When we know that most men go on PrEP so they can have bareback sex.

How about the antibiotic resistance?

"The CDC warned that although treatments for most STIs are readily available, many STI strains are becoming antibiotic resistant, including gonorrhea."

The AHF is against anything which might hurt their revenue stream.

And Gilead is not?

I found this definition of Panacea: "Something that will make everything about a situation better." PrEP is not a panacea and this is no reason to get defensive. Advocates of PrEP have to accept its shortcomings.

How about remembering that there are many married men who enjoy casual sex with other men but are terrified by any kind of infection, not only HIV. These men don't have the luxury of just getting treated if by chance the catch some curable STD. Yeah, for some cock&cum-hungry bottom slut who's only concerned about HIV when he takes anon loads in darkrooms, PrEP may be good enough.

http://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20160908006730/en/AHF-UCLA-Study-Shows-Gay-Men-PrEP

"AHF (AIDS Healthcare Foundation): New UCLA Study Shows Gay Men on PrEP Are 45 Times More Likely to Contract Syphilis; 25 Times More Likely To Be Infected With Gonorrhea"

“Not only have gay and bisexual men largely rejected the relentless drumbeat for PrEP by the CDC and other agencies who have been dubiously shilling for Gilead, the men who are using PrEP are having increased condomless sex—contrary to the PrEP guidelines set by the CDC—and, as a result, are exposing themselves to dangerous sexually transmitted infections,” continued Weinstein."

"Their findings come amid growing international concern about the rise of antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea and other STIs. In releasing its new guidelines for treating bacterial STIs last week, the World Health Organization (WHO) expressed concerns that “resistance of these STIs to the effect of antibiotics has increased rapidly in recent years and has reduced treatment options. Of the 3 STIs, gonorrhoea has developed the strongest resistance to antibiotics."

PrEP causes changes in behavior that increase the risk of other STD. I would consider this a side-effect.

What happens when someone has to stop PrEP, will he be able to change back his behavior and stop taking anon loads at a bathhouse?

And I will be off to Hamburg and the Slut club before that happens, so only safe sex, Damn.

This is what read in the Slut Club website:

Each third SUNDAY of the month

The most legendary and talked about Sex Orgy Party in town in total darkness.

At the entry you will get all you need, a pitlamp to use on your head and the bag for your clothes, so the fun can start from now on.

Horny boys and big balls, Gang Bang in every corner, lights ou and party starts.

Fuckin´ horny atmosphere being naked in boots with a flashing light on your head.

It wouldn't be easy to do "safe sex". Not sure how you'll fight the temptation.

In short, any top.....size, skill, race, etc has my respect if he is hard and wants my hole.    Then he has all my attention.

I also love anyone who fucks me and breeds my hole, but I wouldn't say that I have "great respect" for all those who've creamed my hole. Some haven't even been tops but just horny bottoms looking to get off. For me, just because someone fucks and breeds doesn't make him a top or even a versatile-top. There are so many total bottoms who need to get off so they look for a willing hole to shoot in.

What I'm talking about here is the admiration and respect that I have for REAL tops, those guys who really enjoy fucking for the sake of fucking. They can fuck for a long time without shooting. Those are the ones that I respect and in a way envy because I see how much they enjoy fucking.

One of the things that surprised me in my visit to sauna GI-Joe (Montreal, Canada) last weekend was the widespread use of smartphones by guys in the rooms themselves.

As I walked through the hallways I could see lots of guys with the door of the rooms open while they they were totally engaged on Grindr or some other hook-up App. Many wouldn't even make the effort to see who was going by because they were totally focused on the smartphone. 

I could not agree more. I think it takes an amazing guy to be able to Top.

That I part I do agree.

I disagree. Moist tops at bathhouses don't know how to please a bottom nor do they care to please him. They just want to fuck and cum. They're very selfish.

And I agree with this part too. I think that most bottoms are looking to please selfish tops...

I spent a lot of time this weekend at GI-Joe, a sauna in Montreal, Canada. It has been renovated and you can find public slings in many parts of the establishment. Maybe not as good a Lab-Oratory in Berlin (never been there but I hear is hot), but GI-Joe is a great sex place.

Watching bottoms getting pounded in their rooms and in the public slings made me envious not of the bottoms but of the tops. How can a dude be such a great top, fucking forcefully non-stop for 5-10 minutes, then moving on to another willing bottom. Same thing in the dark room, one top fucking every bottom in the room until he breeds a hole and leaves. But he's back an hour later, again fucking every hole.

If I could do long-time fucking and really enjoy it, like the tops I saw at the sauna, I would be a top. But I can't really enjoy topping.

I really admire those tops who can fuck for a long time and fully enjoy it. Any top can tell us how many holes can you breed in one night at the bathhouse?

... Rather than asking if a guy is just "clean", why not ask more direct questions, such as when they last got tested, what clinic they go to, or what exactly they got tested for most recently? 

 

Personally, I stopped using the word "clean". Instead, I often ask specific questions, even though I'm poz (I still don't want HepC in particular). If I can choose between a guy who gives me vague answers, and another who is honest and open, I usually end up choosing the honest/open one). ...

The site safestsex.org explain that the problem is not that people lie about their STD situation, but that the information is vague and many times ambiguous, like "clean", "all clear", "tested couple of months ago", etc.  They claim that by answering a detailed STD testing questionnaire  during registration is a game-changer because now there's clear and unambiguous information such as precise tests and dates. Although the test results are not entered directly by a clinic and are not verified, it's a step up from "are you clean".

But the ones that make my stiff cock drip are the ones I fucked and bred that didn’t know I was Poz and giving them dirty loads.

I know it's a story but I bet it happens more often than we think. The long-time "grooming" is different because most stealthing like this would happen at a bathhouse, with a shorter grooming.

 Or do you want them more verbal, begging for harder fuck, begging for loads?

Bottoms, which do you prefer to do?

So far I'm staying on the quieter side, but audibly begging for loads when dicks go in raw

Some tops may not like a loud bottom while fucking outdoors so as a bottom I would just whisper dirty talk to the top and moan quietly.

For me being a top, a bottom, gay, bisexual, or straight is determined mainly by the guy himself, and not by what he does. That's why I'm not surprised by a top who occasionally bottoms, or a bottom who occasionally tops, or a straight guy who occasionally has sex with men.

A top who under certain circumstances bottoms is still a top, not versatile. A guy may be 100% top with dates and boyfriends and on-going fuck-buddies. But if he's out of town on business he may stop at a bathhouse and be a total bottom slut for a night. But he's still a top, if that's because that's how he sees himself.

The same goes for 100% bottoms who are afraid of topping because they may loose their bottom "card". I've known of many 100% bottoms who after a long night taking loads at the baths go on the hunt for a hole to quickly fuck and breed before they home home. Usually when bottoms top they don't last very long and cum quickly because they only want to get off and fucking is not that enjoyable for them. Between jerking-off or breeding a hole many bottoms choose the later.

Versatile guys enjoy both and are open about it because that's how they see themselves.

Isn't this like a straight guy who says he is not gay, but gets fucked by a guy occasionally, yet wants for the sake of his ego to be labelled/viewed as straight?

It's not that some straight men also like men for sex. What they like is the WAY men have sex, anonymous. The idea of being sucked in a gloryhole is only a dream for most straight men. They have no interest in relationships but the fascination with anon sex is universal in men, straight, gay, etc. I see nothing wrong with a straight guy wanting to get sucked and even fucked.

My comment to anybody thinking that they may have erectile dysfunction is "You are not watching the right porn!"

When I'm watching "the right bareback porn"  I can get hard and cum 3-4 times a day. If at the sauna I don't get hard I never think of ED. Some married guys think they have ED because they can't get hard with the wife.

I've used the system (safestsex.org) and exchanged STD data twice by now. One guy who was already a member and another guy who I asked to become a member before we met for sex. After all it only takes 5 minutes to join.

The immediate advantage is that I got to read which tests and when those tests were conducted. Yes, it is self-reported so guys could be lying about it. But to me the main point is the clarity of the information one gets from the other member. For instance, I noticed that the guy who had just become a member had not posted anything about Gono and Clam, although he has insisted he was "clean" before the exchange. He said he was going to get tested now for those. This is what I get to see from the other member (I removed the ID). I find it a great idea.

STD Profile Exchanged:2016-08-06 17:40
HIV: Negative, last screened May 2016    [3 months ago]
Syphilis: Last screened June 2016    [2 months ago]
Gonorrhoea: Nothing reported
Chlamydia: Nothing reported
Hepatitis-B: Immune
Genital Herpes: At registration member reported never being diagnosed
Hepatitis-C: At registration member reported never being diagnosed

Hi Guys.

 

(1)  I'd like to know how many of you are so able to take multiple dicks in one evening?

(2) What do you do to prepare your holes? 

(3) Do you do anything special afterwords to prevent discomfort the following morning?

(4) So, the best bet would be a bathhouse.

 

(1) I've taken multiple loads many times in one evening but I prefer to have a bathroom available if I take more than 3 or 4. All depends on the size of the loads and my digestive system at the moment.

(2) I don't think there is one answer to this question because a lot depends on the person, including age. Some technique may work for years and then it can stop working. An example is fiber which for me is no good. Deciding on what to use when douching is also something personal.

(3) Prevent discomfort? Not sure what you mean. I may smell the "aroma" of the loads left overnight.

(4) The best bet is a bathhouse unless you are in your 20's and 30's when it's easier to hook-up only, exchange sexy pictures, etc. I find that for older guys cruising places are better because no need to ask "Stats? Age?". You meet somewhere in the bathhouse, you like each other and just have sex.

For me, I don't fuck much at bookstores for so many aren't prepped and cleaned out for it.  The bookstore here seems to be a spur of the moment thing for guys.  I don't fuck shitty holes.  I do fuck guys I recognize and who I know come cleaned out and looking to be fucked.

I'm sure this is the big reason. Any dirty hole getting fucked would leave a mess and no good place to wash or shower.