AirmaxUK

8 hours ago, Godliath said:

And he's got a goal this summer: Get his cunt bred by a hundred old men.

Darn. That's me out then. 😆

Funny, I was only thinking yesterday it's been a while since I saw him online, and today I saw this thread.   I am glad he's okay and understand sometimes it's needed to take a break and reset. He had great taste in EDM, so I am glad his DJing is continuing.  I miss his posts but I am happy if he's thriving. 

I've always had an okay time at Bunker but if you've seen an ad for a 'specialist' theme or party, be aware that they often have two or three overlapping things advertised. For instance Roadworks (worker hivis gear) overlaps with Skinheads and Smart business suits.  Apart from advertising, they don't do anything much to make the events different or stand out.  The videos they show in the play areas are random.  This means that events are somewhat diluted.

For me, its location and event timing means an overnight stay in a local hotel. This cost is hard to justify with a 'diluted' event. I would go more often if the trains home ran past midnight.   

One of the problems of dual citizenship is Tax.  As I understand it from friends in this situation, if you come to the UK and get dual citizenship you'd be liable to pay *both*  the IRS and HMRC tax on your income unless you relinquish US citizenship.  Take advice from a professional before making a decision. 

The other phrase that comes to mind is 'out of the frying pan and into the fire'.  Speaking as a brit, things aren't great here either. The only thing keeping me here is looking after an elderly parent.  My plan for the future isn't to stay here - I'll move for sure.   

Almost everyone wants to be the cumdump that gets all the loads - it's ultra competitive - so what's your USP?  Think what you can do differently that will draw men in and choose your ass over others when it's time to nut.  

Don't be picky and hold out for that *one* guy - odds are likely unfavourable.  

Be open, friendly and engage with everyone.  If someone is being a nuisance, be discrete, polite and firm.   Shows of prissy/queeny behaviour really turns guys off. 

If you can get in the headspace, try to be versatile - be willing to give some to get some. I find that goes a long way and it means there is more to go around.  

6 hours ago, sleazebugga said:

We in the UK and partner and I keep to keep on this site. Have been looking at VPNs. Before I buy, does anyone have positive or negative feedback on NordVPN? it seems to get quite good reviews.

cheers!

Longtime NordVPN user here and very happy.  DM me for a referral code for 1-3 Months free depending on the package. 

Also this makes interesting reading: [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VPN_service#comparison

I use NordVPN - it's good value for money and you can set your egress point to be in most cities in the world. 

I used the guide to VPN's that's in Wikipedia and rates them for privacy - Nord were pretty well rated and had a good offer if you bought 2 years up front, so I chose them, and have been using them for years. 

They also have specialist egress points for peer-to-peer torrent based file sharing apps as well as TOR. 

If anyone wants a referral code, send me a DM.

As noted, when travelling abroad, BBC/ITV/etc sometimes won't work on one egress point, but Nord have loads in the UK, so pick another and I usually find one that works. 

This "survey" on NKP sums up online hookups these days:

1 hour ago, ellentonboy said:

I know there are guys who advertise themselves as vers/bttm and it has been my experience that in almost every occasion, they decided to go the bottom route. That's fine, that is their decision, and like I have said, I don't like pressuring someone into doing something they don't want to do.

Now I have been at group parties or house parties, where there has been a guy who has been topping the entire time.  Yet when someone else entered the house, he suddenly had the urge to bottom and put on a show for all to see. I do believe there are guys who lean heavily towards the top side, but on occasion will bottom for someone they feel is incredibly attractive or has some other attribute they haven't found in other tops online or in the area.  However when it comes to the vers/bttm issue, I have never had a situation where a bottom suddenly has this earth shattering revelation and stands up and says "I am going to top".  It has never happened in my presence.

Maybe I am going to the wrong parties, I don't know.

Speaking as someone who identifies as a "vers/btm"  I will say that my default position is btm - but as the years go by competition is more and more intense.  The vers bit is that I'd totally flip for the right guy - It's not an optimal outcome, but I'd rather that than go home unfulfilled.  When guys make an effort to get you to flip - that's nice as it shows desire. What isn't a turn on is when bottoms are indifferent to the guys they want to be topped by.  That seems to come with the "cumdump culture".  

2 hours ago, SpectreAgent said:

I really must visit again soon. 

I'm gonna hold you to it - you've been saying that for *ages* lol

Many years ago when we had sex-ed (1980's) I remember being told that unprotected sex was like having sex with everyone that person had ever had sex with.  Sadly for the teachers, that thought stuck in the wrong place of my mind.... When I go out to parties and events there always seems to be a couple of bottoms who "dominate" the scene and get all the action.  My success rate is low, but I do enjoy waiting until the night is almost over and getting their load at the end of the night.  That thought echoes that I'm getting a tiny peice of everyone else they fucked that night too... These days these kinds of guys are often on drugs and can't perform, so as I say success rate is low.  

A new strategy i'm experimenting with is using dildos and plugs with another bottom and sharing toys - I had an experience a few weeks back where a guy 'stored' the plug that was in my ass in his own ass while he bred me in the sling. He'd gotten fucked by many guys that night so it was a massive turn on when he popped it out and put it back in my ass after he'd done. 

SOP is my Sunday Afternoon/Evening pleasure.  It's sleazy enough that it doesn't attract the puppy-hood and harness hoardes.   

15 minutes ago, jorgge said:

I get around 20-25 loads per session

That's pretty good going in reality 

South Buckinghamshire / Chilterns close to M40/M25, Berkshire and Oxfordshire borders.

3 hours ago, jd13 said:

Fair points here, @AirmaxUK, and yeah we do have stricter insurance, liability & safeguarding rules here in the UK, for all sorts of (IMO) very good reasons. It's just interesting how strict it is in London, and seemingly less so elsewhere in the UK. But yeah all fair points.

It's probably down to the local authority issuing the license, how closely they monitor things, and how often the venue pops up on their radar with incidents like ambulance callouts, complaints from locals, etc.   

1 hour ago, jd13 said:

Yes that's my understanding of most venues too. In the UK it's perhaps a bit less open - like no one would ever say "I'm off at X" while you're standing in line to get in, it'd be more an approach in the corridor or changing rooms etc - but yes that seems to be the general rule. But at Vault, it was always secret, rushed, furtive, urgent, watchful. Just wait in the dark I'll be there but gotta check no one sees me etc. Which of course is a hotness all of its own, but you're right, it seems pretty draconian.

I am aware of bar and door staff that were fired after fraternising with customers during their shift at venues in London. One venue I know has a policy of barring for life staff that are fired for misconduct.  I imagine it is a legal thing where a venue with an adult encounter license might be accused of breaking the terms of the license and even running a brothel if they charge an entry fee and then allow staff 'engage' with customers.  When you think about it, as an employer it'd be a legal minefield to permit staff to engage with customers in that way - liability, insurance, safeguarding, all sorts of things come to mind. 

2 minutes ago, jd13 said:

Me, I was bouncing from cock to cock because of my welcoming attitude 😄 

Oh he was probably jealous 

12 minutes ago, jd13 said:

These days, at my age, I tend to focus on the guys who actually want to fuck me, regardless of age, rather than the guys who I'd really love to fuck me.

Totally agree. Great advice. 

13 minutes ago, jd13 said:

The number of twinks in saunas and batrhhouses who just seem to want to parade and be picky. And be rude to us oldies. Well, honey, you'll be us one day.

There was a big thing about consent in kink on Instagram a while ago.  Lots of younger guys pointing the finger at older guys for their behaviour in darkrooms.  Thing is that older guys were brought up in a world where the cruising protocol was different to how it is now. Both sides need to understand that... and there's no excuse for being rude or disrespectful as a result. That includes being a persistent pest who won't take no as an answer as well as being overtly rude to a genuine show of interest.     

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Early 50's here. It's hard: you have to keep your confidence up - confidence *is* attractive - keep at it and don't let knock backs beat you down.  Keep engaging, but equally be aware of "no means no" and don't keep persisting - if rebuffed, quickly move on and try something or someone else.  

That advice I'd apply online and in-person at clubs/events. 

When I used to do whitewater kayaking there used to be an issue with bacteria in the water at the whitewater centre on the river Trent in Nottingham because just upstream was a power plant that warmed the water up in the river.  The guys that ran it advised us to drink a couple of cans of Diet Coke after being in the water as the acidity suppressed any bacteria ingested.

Now in another life, I've used that trick after rimming - I'm not sure if it works against all bugs as I too have occasionally had Gastro Flu after a longer session, but perhaps it helps a bit?

6 hours ago, LondonGreedyGuys said:

Really want to go here and glad that it seems to got going now.  Only issue being it's very difficult to get to from East London.

Yeah - I have to admit from the west (Marylebone) it was a trek, and Jubilee line to North Greenwich was packed like sardines. There is a regular bus from North Greenwich which runs along the A200 and the nearest stop is Deptford High Street Stop A.  My problem is coming home, since the last train home out of Marylebone is 11:45pm  ish  it means an overnight stay somewhere is essential. That makes a night out expensive unless you know someone you can stay with.  It's a shame LC doesn't have B&B rooms upstairs like Central Station does. 

2 hours ago, cockfun69 said:

Is there a website with calendar for Lord Clyde?

Sadly they don't excel with their marketing! The closest thing is that they put all their events on Meetup.com and they occasionally post on Instagram. 

14 hours ago, EuroMusk76 said:

The 2025 booklet is online (don't be fooled by the year in  the link) [think before following links] [think before following links] https://blf.de/easterberlin/easter-booklet-2024/

I would also look at [think before following links] https://www.siegessaeule.de/ nearer the time.  I much prefer the smaller peripheral events (Scheune, Bose Buben, Ajpnia, etc) to the big mega parties because the big events have become such a circus of desperate tourist bottoms. Many Berlin guys avoid going out during BLF and Folsom for that reason. 

Silicon based lube lasts longer - Vaseline and oil based lubes longer still, but may harm the rubber material the plug is made from.