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Anyone up for pre-party drinks? Staying at the Riu. 

On 10/13/2024 at 4:09 AM, easilyled said:

will they turn people away if they're clearly wasted?

Yes. People who're wasted cause problems for the venue staff and spoil the vibe for everyone else. 

I believe that in the UK connecting anything like a douche to the water supply is against the water regulations. This is because if the water supply fails, then water could be drawn from the douche into the water supply contaminating it. For similar reasons a shower head on a hose shouldn't be able to reach the bath because in a fault condition bathwater could be drawn back into it causing contamination.  Standard non-return valves are only for up to category 3 use and a douche (or ablutionary shower) is category 5 due to the nature of contamination.  Of course, in many private households this may not be the case, as householder will make changes unaware of the regulations, but with businesses that deal with the public  - their insurers are all over this stuff to limit liability. 

[think before following links] https://www.waterregsuk.co.uk/news/newsletter/categories/installer_news/dont_be_a_douche_about_hand_showers/

So I normally identify as a non smoker. BUT quite turned on by Dom/top guys who like to force their subs to smoke or inhale vape - especially if they're a non-smoker.   I've done scenes with gas masks and smoke/vape and it's very horny.  There was a guy on here from Wales who is sadly no longer a member who liked getting guys to sit on his cock and he'd force feed cigar smoke to make them cough. When you cough it makes your ass clench and that's what made him cum...  

2 hours ago, 1hornyjohn said:

Thanks for the update.

I had read it was out of order a few weeks ago but got repaired. So it must have developed another fault after that. 

Its annoying when all the facilities are not on offer despite paying full whack.

One might say don't go in but I've got myself ready and want cock and so I just shrug at the news, pay up and go in.

You can always call them and check beforehand.  Many guys seem to do that - just don't ask "Is it busy today" as that really pisses the staff off!

Having been a regular there for way too long, I think that their installation has a problem that the gas heater shuts down in high winds which affects the showers and the jacuzzi.  So if it's very windy/stormy I'll not bother. 

On 9/30/2024 at 7:40 PM, 1hornyjohn said:

Yes. Usually go on naked Wednesdays.  Not sure what it's like on other days. 

As of last Wednesday the jacuzzi wasn't working. No money off admission price though!

Jacuzzi was working on Sunday for Bears Day but a number of guys got wedged in it and wouldn't budge all afternoon and evening so it may as well have been out of order. 

About 18 months ago, I went to Northwich a few times on a Tuesday when it was advertised as CumUnion - it was not like you'd expect a Cumunion to be having seen the CumUnion website. Once inside there was no mention of it and there was nothing different or special to make it a CumUnion... in fact they were more promoting it to be naked/no towels.  The Tuesday crowd I'd say was quite blue collar and yes there were condoms being used - like I say for a CumUnion they'd made no effort - even the porn playing in the venue was 90s/00s condom porn.

That said, I understand they are under new ownership now and have had a refurb in the wet area. I'd like to go again and see what's different, but I'm not making a trip just for that, so it'll be combined with something else. 

Sheffield was the other place that advertised a 'cumunion' party - I went to that to see how it was and it was really awful. Again, you wouldn't know it was CumUnion unless you'd seen it advertised on the CumUnion website. There were very few people in and I got the impression they were all regulars who knew each other. I didn't see anyone fuck all night - even the sling was empty.  I thought I'd try my luck and climb in - but shortly after I did one of these 'regulars' walked by, tutted and rolled his eyes at me, and closed the door from the outside so nobody could see me there.  It was really unwelcoming - from the customers to the staff (who were more interested in their phones than serving customers). I really would not recommend it. In fact I was sufficiently moved to email the CumUnion people and suggest they might take it off their list. I had more fun with a member of staff at the Premier Inn I was staying at than at the Sauna.  

These two things made me wonder if CumUnion's time has passed. Now it's only seen as a way to get a few extra bodies into the sauna on a quiet night.  Long gone are the days when CumUnion packed out a basement in London. CumUnion's USP was Bare Back when it wasn't mainstream. Now it's not unusual at all, so maybe it's lost its edge? 

1 hour ago, MichiganBottom82 said:

I do not know what “counting coups” is but based on your description it’s just called sexual assault in the Anglophone world. And it’s pretty common for men to do it in certain settings because it’s not like gay spaces are heavily policed for this.   
 

I assume most guys who operate in play spaces go through something similar at some point, though maybe not full on sex.  And it is pretty common for people to fetishize it after they have experienced it. 

I had to look it up - the definition I saw said that counting coups means touching the enemy - which I take to mean having some sort of contact with someone who identifies as  straight.

Maybe I am wrong.

The OP's description of what they witnessed is non consensual - but I don't think that is the definition of counting coups as I understand it. 

I've never actively hunted, as I know I'd feel really uncomfortable if I was targeted by a woman.

That said... always open to opportunity:

When I was at uni there were plenty of straight guys who were malleable and inquisitive enough to want to try stuff out.  Some were more keen, some just happy to be led. All sort of types but typically Young Conservatives or religious group members.  Never did anything without consent though.  Most often it was to give them an inconspicuous blow-job.  A couple wanted to get fucked. One just wanted to sleep naked and cuddle.  Many were curious about the gay scene which in the early 90's was more underground and I took a few to the club Heaven or the London Apprentice.  I bet at dinner parties they still recount those experiences. 

I remember I was dating a guy who lived in halls of residence and in his corridor there was a laundry room. There was a guy a few doors up the hall who went running most days and just left his kit draped over the drying racks. I often went in there for a crafty sniff of his pheromones - but one time someone must've seen me and told him.  Next time I was around he cornered me and kinda said he'd tell everyone what I'd done if I didn't blow him then and there. I didn't need to be told twice (or even the threat) so I complied and it became a regular thing.  

In later life not so many opportunities. Probably the one that stands out were the two straight guys who sat next to me when I was a season ticket holder at Charlton Athletic FC and we shared a Travelodge hotel room for an away match to Manchester United.  I went out on canal street in the evening and they wanted to come along and see what the gay scene was all about. They got an intro to poppers on the dance floor and I remember going into the bathroom and seeing one of them on his knees sniffing poppers and entertaining a few guys with his oral skills.  The other guy was enjoying the dance floor and getting pretty drunk. We all went back to the Travelodge and although it was a twin room we all ended up in the same bed. Don't remember much but it was never spoken of again and the next season they moved seats to another part of the stadium so we lost touch. 

Does that count as counting coups? 

Also going - got my tickets. 

As others have said I'd avoid dubious sources - you have no idea what's in it or if it's fake.  You generally get what you pay for. 

Have a look at [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.iwantprepnow.co.uk/buy-prep-now/

They were testing prep supplied by some overseas online suppliers in the days before it was generally available on the NHS - not sure how recent the information is though. 

That said, it is important to take Prep with the support of a clinic - you need to be tested clear of HIV before starting -  taking it when you're already positive can lead to becoming med-resistant. You also need kidney function testing while you take it, and there are various common medications you shouldn't take when using Prep.

In the UK the medical records at the sexual health clinics are separate to your general medical records. My clinic can see my general records but nothing from the sexual health clinic goes into the general records, unless I ask them to.  

I would seek advice and support from a reputable clinic. 

35 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

The only issue I have with this is that my generation (which is close to/overlapping with yours) had more than our fair share of alcoholics and substance abusers in part because "the bars" were the only place to socialize. And a huge number of guys I knew took up smoking (creating another substance abuse problem) because it gave them something to do with their hands while they were standing around talking and drinking. Thankfully in a majority of states smoking indoors is now prohibited, which eliminates (in those places) that nasty reeking odor pervading your clothes whenever you'd go out to socialize.

That said, "the bars" also limited those kinds of casual encounters to evenings and nights, and pretty much weekends or weekend-adjacent nights only, because most people couldn't go out drinking on a Tuesday and get up and be at work on Wednesday morning, especially if they got lucky; that meant either getting in very late and little sleep, or staying over and then having to rush to get home, cleaned up, and changed for work. And in a city with more than one bar you found appealing, there was always the FOMO factor of wondering if the pickings were better at the other place(s). 

For all the downsides, the apps have meant opening up other times during the week, have meant not having to tolerate obnoxious drunks or tweakers or unbreathable air, have meant letting you be in more than one place (ie app) at a time. Of course, you'd think this would improve one's odds, but as we're seeing, it doesn't.

Maybe it's a regional thing but I think prices for bars/clubs/drinks in London are high enough to keep the addicts away.  On the other hand, some might say expense is a problem.

The only thing I would say is a nuisance on the London scene is guys who won't take no for an answer, and bottoms that are competitive to the point of irritation. 

I'm not a smoker, but I never minded it in cruise bars/club - they still allow it in some places in Berlin -  it has the advantage of masking any of the more unpleasant smells from the darkroom and whatever industrial bleach they use to clean it up. One club I know uses a special disinfectant intended for mortuaries.

My opinion of the apps is very low (see my previous posts on various threads). It likely varies with which app you use and where you are and what the culture is like. UK wise, most guys seem to be on apps for attention and gratification. Few are there to really meet.    

On 8/20/2024 at 4:01 PM, Morgar666 said:

i feel that the shiny skin tight later serves to transform a person into a doll. It is stimulating both for the viewer and the wearer. Perhaps it serves to dehumanize the wearer so that it frees them from the normal "human" behavior and allows them to indulge in some fantasies that are more [banned word].

For me I am not sure about the doll analogy but I can relate to freeing from normal human behaviour. 

Elsewhere on this site, @Lucienblack88 and @Morgar666 debated about how wearing rubbergear put him in a particular headspace in contrast to what you might normally wear day-to-day or at your job.

I've always thought that what you wear helps with how you feel. Rubber - Leather - Tradie/Workie/Hivis - Sportswear.

A moment of reflection and I recalled that as a kid I loved a TV programme in the UK called Mr Benn.  (Anyone remember that? It's on YouTube for the curious)  Each episode Mr Benn visited a shop and tried on an outfit and 'became' that person and had an adventure.   I guess that idea stuck in my mind...

As a teen I attended a very sporty school, but wasn't athletic myself. I used to 'forget' my gym kit or rugby kit on purpose so I'd have to borrow someone else's and pretend for a moment I am them...  Maybe that was half of it - the other half I expect was the pheromones...

As an adult I like to wear both my own gear and borrowed gear from other guys and let my imagination take over.  For a few hours I can immerse myself in the masculinity of being a Railway Worker, a Biker, an Ice Hockey Goalie, or a Rugby Player...    

Anyone relate to this or am I barking mad? 

Hampstead Heath - met up with two fetish friends for an outdoors session by the pond with lots of gear and equipment. Had a great time and several guys joined in or watched.  Walked back to the fuck tree and not a lot was going on. Being in gear seemed to frighten the fluffies... The 'darkroom' was much better - too many bottoms to compete with for a load so I picked a nice ass and unloaded before heading home. 

Two loads at SOP on Sunday.  Arrived later than usual and found two guys ready and keen to unload from the start. After that a guy with a large PA Piercing gave them a good churning but didn't add his own to the mix.  The sling was free a bit later and although there was plenty of stretching and prodding with fingers no further loads... Not a bad Sunday at SOP. 😉 

Many words have been written on our frustrations with how people act on the hookup apps:  More flakes than a bowl of Raisin Bran. 

Recently I've advertised a motorcycle for sale on eBay, Autotrader, MCN and Facebook Marketplace. 

I was struck by the parallels:

• First enquiry was someone trying to scam me into giving personal details out including c/card. 
• Second enquiry was from someone dead keen, but then ghosted after the initial message. 
• Third one was a guy who wanted lots and lots of detailed photos - and when I obliged he said it was "too far to travel". 
• Fourth guy was again really interested and wanted to visit to do the deal but couldn't commit to a date/time. 
• Fifth one was again a  first initial message but then ghosted. 
• Number six arranged to come and view the bike but never showed up. I called to see if he was having difficulty finding me, and he claimed he'd visited and I hadn't answered the door.  (I was actually in the front yard so I would have seen him if he showed up) 
• The latest showed up today but with only *half* the money - and his negotiation tactic was that the cash machine ran out of money and would only give him this much so I should accept that as his offer because he came 'all this way'. 

All strangely familiar... I guess it's just human nature or me getting grumpy and intolerant in my middle age. 

The other option is of course to trade-in at a dealer or use a service like webuyanybike.com - where you get roughly 60p on the £1 for what it's worth. That feels like paying to get fucked!

Rant over. Normal service is resumed.  

Very much into fluid exchange here and while a guy's cum is the top prize, swapping ass juices with another guy is also hot.  

I've been wanting to try a fuck machine - the kind that's built into/under the seat of a chair - Would like to find someone who's got one and have them use it first - then swap places over and over. The more guys the better.    

Maybe it's an answer to the shortage of tops 😉 

Interesting review here: [think before following links] https://restoreprivacy.com/secure-encrypted-messaging-apps/session/

Particularly the last part about it being based in Australia and Australian Privacy Laws. 

If you want real physical contact with real guys then get yourself to a sauna/baths bookstore or cruising bar/area. Guys who really are up for it will make the effort to go.

99% of online guys are only into the idea of meeting up and string you along while they have a wank. 

This weekend I was at a hotel in Shoreditch, London.  Was on the apps for a few hours in the evening - despite being able to host, nobody actually went through with a meet... went out to Bunker (local cruise bar) and had three very horny sessions with different guys in the space of a couple of hours.  And two of the three who approached me were a lot hotter/younger that I would usually approach for fear of rejection.  

Which was a better use of my time? Definitely going out. 

I thought this was an interesting read.... 

[think before following links] https://phys.org/news/2024-04-mechanical-pressure-triggers-key-event.html?utm_source=apple&utm_medium=app&utm_campaign=apn

Yesterday (Easter Sunday) everything is mostly shut - so figured the Luton Greenhouse Sauna would be good since it is one of the few options available. It was Bear's Sunday (last sunday of the month) and I got there about 3pm.  The crowd was on the older side and skewing more to hippo than bear, but as afternoon turned to early evening things improved a lot.  

Upstairs, drinking a beer watching the porn, I noticed someone was eyeing me up. This guy had what I would describe as a rugby player type build. Not lean muscle but heavy muscle under a layer of insulation. Enough to make his frame look impressive but with a softer contour - without the hard knobbly bits.  So the chase is on. He leaves the room with a glance back to follow, but by the time I wend my way around the occupants to exit I can't see where he went... so I wander a bit and can't see him anywhere.  I guess he's in a private room with someone else.  

A bit later he's back in the porn room making eyes again so this time I'm more ready - it's me who leaves and signals him to follow. Only this time all the private rooms are taken... so we end up in one of the rooms with a big viewing window for guys to watch. He's clearly not bothered either and we quickly get lost in each other and forget about everyone else.  

Now, I'm a little reticent as I'm just back from Berlin and still a bit bruised from past shenanigans at Lab. and The Bull. Fortunately he's endowed long and not too girthy but it's hard as steel.  And he knows how to use it... After several switches in position and technique he tells me he's gonna shoot, so I ask him to shoot deep inside... After a few final violent thrusts he's done and we break to see a crowd of faces peering through the window.  We agree on a shower and a beer in the bar.

We chat over a beer and swap anecdotes about the sauna and some of the guys. I'm ready to relax in the jacuzzi so I head there and get settled.  After a few minutes he comes and joins me - and it's obvious he is up for round two.  Here's where I am glad I use vaseline as it stays in place in the jacuzzi and doesn't wash off. We fucked in there for a bit, but the other occupants didn't seem too happy, so we headed to the darkroom behind the jacuzzi and continued the fun there.  Much like before he just had an insatiable appetite and kept going - position after position. Some of the other guys in the darkroom wanted to join in and I am sure one did at some point as it felt very different for a while - both the shape and the technique.

In the end I was quite sore and asked if he was close.  He grinned and said he'd plant it deep again. And he did.

Now I was really done - there wasn't going to be a round three for sure!

Today everything is quite sore and bruised - and a constant reminder of a fun Easter Sunday.      

13 hours ago, NoFucksGiven said:

Look, my great-great-aunt really did fall off her skateboard that day and had to be rushed to hospital. You do believe me, don’t you…? 

Sounds totally plausible, but then you Tweeted all those pics of yourself at SOP... so gotcha!  

(I'll stop now, I promise)

1 hour ago, JamesL100 said:

 Plus I see BBRT parties with 70 and think how are they going to fit in a hotel room!

Because of the 70 who signed up on BBRT:

• 20 Have a sick pet that needs to be taken to the vet urgently
• 12 Have an elderly relative that needs help 
• 15 Have a sudden cold / food poisoning/ tummy bug / other illness
• 10 Had a flat battery on their phone and left their charger at home
• 7 Had a water leak or other domestic emergency
• 3 Partied too much and now can't get hard
• 2 Turned up but fancy the guy in the room up the corridor more.
• 1 Guy who's only up for proving he's more of a bottom than you are.  

(Maybe I'm just too jaded and cynical for this anymore 😜)

There's fourkinds of Skinheads in my mind: 

Men who are losing the battle with a receeding hairline or thinning out on top who embrace shaving their head to get back on top of their masculinity again.  They might also embrace other parts of the Skinhead style to justify/compliment it. 

Gay men who fetishise the skinhead look and strut their stuff in 30 hole Rangers and Bleacher at the fetish clubs and parties. (True skins laugh at them...)

Then there are those who embrace the community, culture and lifestyle proper. They know that being a skinhead involves more than shaving your head and wearing bleachers bought at Mr B..  Now those guys I have time for. 

Back a few years there were several national gay skinhead groups. A Belgian group organised regular events in Antwerp - which included a long week end of events organised around the Oink Bar and the Boots. They were great and a 30 Euro ticket got you into all the events, breakfast buffet at The Oink every day and a BBQ in the evening. And the events played proper Skinhead music - no pop or techno.  They guys were great. I made so many friends there and always had a great time.  Different groups organise similar things, but none were a patch those. 

Today I'm no longer a mohawk sporting skinhead - but I'm still friends with those that are and am still accepted as a part of the community.  

The fourth kind are the right wing ones. They might look hot with their hyper masculine looks but they're toxic in a bad way. Best avoided.