I am a POZ have been since June 1987. Exclusively a topguy.
On meds and great numbers, yadda yadda. I normally only play with other POZ guys.
Normally, until 1 month ago when I met a tall dark and handsome submissive guy. I told him way before we met in person of my status, and I told him about PrEP. He told me that he had to check with his Doctor at the V.A. hospital.
We set up a playdate, I went to his place, where I fucked him AND did pull out to spew my load on his chocolate brown asscheeks. (2x)
Repeated our play session 2 weeks later, and again he told me that he had yet to hear from the Doctor.
We have another tentative playtime set up soon. I will not breed him until he is on PrEP for a full month.
My fear is that he has not and probably WILL not talk to his Doctor. What do I do? I have given my word that I will not breed him until he starts PrEP.
I fear that if I present an ultimatum, I lose a fuckbuddy, just as my dominant side is beginning to bloom.
HELP.