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  1. I'm with the majority on this one too. The cum should be either swallowed or shot deep in the hole. SOmeone mentioned frozen cum in an earlier post. I've done that, my own loads frozen. A local guy only likes fucking sloppy hole or tag teaming with another top, so I froze about 12 of my own and shoved them up in side me and he came over and pounded one into me real good.

    On a different note, I saw a porn some years ago, wish I could remember the name of it, where they actually used a little camera and it was up inside the bottom and you could actually see the Top shoot into the bottoms ass. It was one of the hottest things I've ever seen.

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  2. Hey guys. Been chatting with a guy whos partner keeps his cock locked up. He loves it for various reasons which I wont go into here.

    My question to the Tops is: How would you feel going to fuck a bottom and find him in a chastity device and you didn't know it. Would you find it HOT or a Turn Off??

    To the Bottoms: What do you think about it? Would you Do it or Not?

    Me personally am unsure. I think the idea of it is HOT, but I also think that the bottom wearing the device needs someone to actually control the device, they couldn't do it them self, to easy to take off that way.

  3. All I'm gonna say is this. If it Hurts, there is a problem. Pain is the bodies warning system. If something hurts there is generally a problem in that area. The Knee in the chest thing is really bad IMO as he could have broken a rib and punctured your lung. If that had happened the scene would have ended quickly and not in a fun or good way you would have ended up in Hospital due to a collapsed lung.

    As others have said, it isn't being weak or a pussy. It just your bodies way of saying Hey, I can't take this anymore make it stop. You need to communicate with this guy and just tell him honestly that you aren't 20 something anymore and you're body not you can't handle some of it the way it once could.

    I got fucked the other night and this guy bent me in half, I haven't been bent in halve in over a decade, it wasn't comfortable for me at all, granted my weight doesn't help with it either but I also have arthritis in my lower back which makes getting bent in half rather painful and honestly my body just can't do it anymore.

    Be honest with the guy, if he calls you a pussy again well just laugh at it.

  4. I'm with KptNLine. I've never had the need to cum while getting fucked, but at the same time, I've never cum while getting fucked. When i topped I very seldom shot my load as well. The only times I remember cumming as a top where usually in the baths, bookstores or in the park back in the day.

    As a total bottom now, I don't need to cum. My pleasure comes from the cock pounding my ass and ultimatly taking the load the top at the moment plants deep in my cum hole. IF I was with a BF or someone I was dating seriously the other things would then come into play. But as a Hookup I don't expect anything like cuddeling after or anything that might be involved in a Loving relationship. A hookup is for the top to get off in my hole and me to enjoy the fuck and taking the load.

    As someone else mentioned above regarding cumming and not being able to take anymore fucks. I am that way always have been, if I shoot my load I am done getting fucked for a little while. I've never been fucked to the point of shooting my load and still getting fucked, so I don't even know if I could take it if I shot my load.

    That is just my 0.02 on the subject.

  5. I can relate to this. For me it is just my nature, my zodiac is Sag, the Sag is a wonderer, we tend to get bored easily and quickly.

    I've had 2 relationships to speak of in my 42 years, my first was at 19-22, to a drunk who was a very decent and nice guy when he was sober but when he was drinking well it wasn't all that much fun. We'd fight and argue into the late hours of the night, once he even tried to choke me on the living room floor. After about 2 years of living with him I had enough and moved out and back home with my mom. We continued to date for another year or two after that until I finally ended it completely. The second was only 6 months, we where doomed from the beginning, he was a leather man into all the kink and things that I wasn't, at the time I wasn't much into an Open relationship but if I had been it might have lasted a bit longer, but it doesn't matter really as I was a rebound for him.

    Anyway, I am the same way I get bored after a single fuck and don't always really enjoy a one time encounter but repeats tend to go bad for me as I get attached to the person and "think" I love them but am not really sure anymore what real love is outside of Family Love, which is totally different.

    As bb1991 said, do what feels right for you and take things slow and take the time to heal and recover from your last relationship. When you find the right one you'll know it and you'll go about things differently. Best of luck to you man and hope you find what you want/need. Hugs!

  6. @MascMountainMan Thanks for that. That is what I was kind of thinking that there aren't to many sites for us BB Bears to hookup. I belong to BBRT but don't have much luck on it, I live to far from the bigger cities so those guys aren't interested at all even if they are into bears/chubby guys. I'll check out the site you referenced and see what that is all about.

    Thanks again.

  7. Okay guys. I belong to all the normal sites. BBRT, MH, A4A etc. Don't usually have much luck on them, some is my bearish appearance some is the location in which I live, an hour from Philly and maybe 2 from Harrisburg.

    Are there other sites out there where a horny bottom bear can go to get his hole used and filled with loads of cum?

  8. I'm a bottom and i'm pretty obsessed with assholes. I love having mine eaten and I could certainly eat a tasty hole out for hours!

    I'm with samshadowxxx, love to get my ass eaten before its pummeled and I also can spend hours eating a hot ass myself. ONLY clean though, I finger it before I lick it to make sure I wont get anything nasty while my face is burred in it.

  9. I don't know about the Dungeon area. But according to the web site, not been yet, there are VIP rooms, 2 of which have slings and 1 has a doctors table. All have queen sized beds, large TV's and private lockers. All rooms have USB charges, so you can wait as well as surf the sex sites.

    They need to update the web site with some completed pictures as they only have construction pics up.

    www.clubphilly.com

  10. I've got a few major problems with toys.

    First, they feel really different. Harder and less yielding than a cock kind of. And their temperature is often off. Just sort of wrong. Yeah, that's subjective...so sue me.

    Second, when someone is using them on you, they get very little tactile feedback about what's going on with your ass. If my cock is in you, or my finger or hand, and you suddenly clamp down hard, I know I've done something wrong. If I'm using a dildo on you, the cues from you are much easier to miss...you have to pay closer attention. Actually, my very first experience with dildoes was a very bad one for just this reason: the guy using them on me kept trying to shove it into me, despite my clamping down, my pulling away, my telling him to stop, and my obvious distress. He ended up getting booted away from me pretty hard. And I didn't allow anything other than cock or fingers into my ass for many years after (my interest in fisting came later).

    Third, there might be some concern that dildoes sort of warp your expectations about how long and thick the things that fuck you should be. They can make nearly every real cock seem small by comparison. But on the other hand, I'm the guy who really loves a hand in my ass, so who am I to talk.

    I still don't use toys much for pleasure. But I do have a few for practical purposes. A dildo can be very helpful when cleaning your ass out...you can use them to stimulate the second sphincter inside you and relase the water above it. Butt plugs can be used to help keep fluids like cum inside the ass instead of leaking out. And the very wonderful man who first helped me experience getting fisted used toys extensively to help me open up my ass and get ready for his hand.

    But to answer the question, no. Nothing is better than raw cock in your ass. Period, end of discussion.

    I'm with MascMountainMan on all points, except the fisting, that's not my thing. Everything else though is so very true. I'm with the majority as well, the real thing all the way, toy's can have their place as he said but for a hot sweaty fuck, give me a nice 7 to 8 inch semi thick cock and I am in pig heaven.

  11. Not to be a downer on the site or anything but if you are concerned about getting HIV then barebacking probably isn't a good choice. Particularlly if you aren't prepared to deal with the life changes that being poz brings. The pills the doctor appointments ever 4 to 6 months, blood work etc.

    I have a friend who's eldest son just passed away from AIDS. He was 27 years old and sadly it all could have been prevented. He didn't have medical insurance and when he started to feel poorly he just chalked it up to being depressed. Little did he know he had a tumor growing in his brain as his T cells were at 11 when his mom finally went and picked him up in Philly and brought him home and convinced him to go to the hospital. I watched as this vibrant young man withered away and became some fraction of himself over 4 months until 2 weeks ago at 5:18 PM on a Wednesday afternoon he finally succumbed to the infections and diseases that were ravaging his poor body and passed away at home.

    So, if you are concerned about it and don't want it. Then by all means, don't do it and if you do it, get tested regularly at least once a year. Watching someone die of AIDS is not a fun thing to do trust me, its heart renching particularly someone so young and knowing it could have all been avoided just if our health care system was something other than what it was. I know he could have done a free clinic and all that but the young don't always realize what is available to them and being scared of a huge medical bill well enough said.

    As for the original topic of this thread. There are not always symptoms to sero conversion. You can convert and not have anything go on or as I did, you get a low grade fever and nothing else and well my doc just gave me an anti biotic and sent me home, I forget what she said I had. My next regular appointment and lab work, I had a scheduled HIV test and well there it was, my VL was little over 30000 when I found out, my CD4 was normal still but I caught it early and was able to get to an ID doc and well all is good now, undetectable and my CD4 is still very much in the normal range.

    Sorry abot be Davy downer here but thought it was relivent to this particular thread. :)

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