NWUSHorny

I've had a couple that were 12" or more. I used to frequently top a guy in Denver that was at least 12", and because he had a significant bend I had some minor difficulty taking him the few times he agreed to return the favor. I always had to ride him, he wasn't willing to take the active lead as a top which was the total opposite of his bottoming.

I'm firmly in the "yes", and "it depends". It only works for me if I am somewhere I can hookup successfully in a short amount of time. I have been dealing with some high stress at work for about a month now, and am at home in Portland this week, where I probably won't even try to hookup as a coping mechanism. While it might work out (it did actually happen this weekend when I wasn't as desperate as I am right now), the odds are definitely against me. I will more likely wind up giving up after a couple of hours even more frustrated than I am right now in one or a combination of scenarios: 1) I'm the only one at what ever cruising venue(s) I try; 2)there will be other cruiser, but no one is hooking up or are there just for attention not a physical act and relief; 3)someone who doesn't fuck will take an interest in me and try to convince me there way of not fucking is infinitely better and will have to leave because they won't accept no for an answer, and because guys here don't generally like groups no one else will even approach while you are engaged by the time waster. Alternatively I was working at the client location for the last 2 weeks and even though I didn't really know where to go I was able to instinctively sniff out the locations where like minded guys go to fuck or at least suck out their frustrations and was able to find a couple of spots where I could be fucking or getting fucked within 15 -20 minutes. I've taken advantage of it a time or twenty over the course of the weeks I've worked in other locations this summer. I'm open enough and am told I give off an intense sexual vibe that works for me even in small to medium sized cities in most geographical areas. The openness generally works against me in the PNW, I attract lots of time wasters that invite me to join them non-penetrative activities, but not actually fuck.

Does anyone else like to find quick hookups when they are under personal or work related stress? If so does it work? If your answer to the 2nd question is "it depends" what does it depend on?

Pure guesses on my part after 36 years of being a complete slut combined with a job that involved extensive travel within North America. I'm going to ballpark that I've topped 5000 different guys, maybe half of them bareback since I was mostly safe up until around 2010. In the same 36 years, I've probably taken around 1500 unique dicks, with probably only a quarter to a third of them bareback since I didn't start bottoming bareback until 2019 after I found out I was poz in 2018 and recovered from a health crisis that kept me out of commission for over a year. Over the last 10 I've taken a significant number of sexcations in gay sex hotspots where I've had sex with 100 or more different guys over a 2 or 3 day period, but since they tend to centered around events I'm interested, at this point probably at least 2/3rds are repeats.

I haven't recently, but never know where my work will send me in the future.

I am very familiar with the sex club around the corner, I always leave with empty balls and an overflowing hole.

Any action happening at ToolShed? What I liked best about The Barracks was fucking in the crowd on the patio.

Same problem here. Not just the apps, but everywhere men do in person cruising for hookups. We also have a surplus of "sides" that are absolutely convinced that they can show me how to have the sex of my life without penetration and more often than not having to even touch each others "icky dick."

You might be a cumdump, if you are at an orgy or fuck venue and discover you have cum in your hole and have no idea who or how many came in you.

There are area where gaining the reputation of cumdump works against you. If you live in a city where slut shaming and looking for a LTR in bathhouses and other fuck venues are more common than fucking, then being promiscuous as either a bottom or top renders you person non grata most of the time. A few guys may pull you aside and tell you they admire you for being comfortable in your own skin, if their buddies aren't around but that really doesn't get you fucked very often.

I've been traveling a lot, and getting my fair share of sex since last spring, but found myself back at home in Portland and horny the weekend before my 56th birthday. I had almost decided to skip the frustration of trying to get laid in the PNW this weekend. I had either fucked or been fucked every night my last week in Hawaii, so I wasn't desperate. I had flown the red eye back from Honolulu Thursday night, and still put in a 10 hour day on Friday, so it was Saturday morning before I figured out it was cool and rainy here in Portland (it normally doesn't rain between the 1st week in July and the 1st week in September here). Guys here usually fuck even less when it is warm and sunny outside than they do when it is cool and rainy. So I decided to role the dice and go to the blackout party at Steam (Hawks was having some kind of trans fetish event). I arrived just before 8 pm and had a hard time finding a parking place, and noted that there were a lot of out of state plates while searching for a parking space, another good sign. Then had to wait in line for 20 minutes just to get in. On the way to my locker to strip down I noted there were actually holes on offer in one of the play areas but no fucking, so I was boned up by the time I was naked. Since I was already freshly showered, I went immediately to the play area I had seen holes being offered and by this time they had a top going from hole to hole and for a change none of the 3 bottoms insisted he go take a shower between holes, so I joined him in sampling the 3 bottoms and wound up having him fuck me as well, and then got fucked by a 2nd guy before deciding to head to the playroom with the sling. Since the sling was empty I hopped right in and when I went to apply more spit to my hole, discovered I was already bred. For a change I wasn't completely ignored in the sling, I had 2 guys come up and suck my cock briefly, and at the same time had a black guy come up beside me and offer his cock to me to suck and found me cummy hole with his hand. Once he was hard he shooed off the cock sucker that was still working on me, gave my hole a brief licking and started plowing me hard and fairly quickly gave me breeding number 2. By this point, we had cleared the playroom, and I was super hard so I went back to the playroom and sunk my dick into the super loose wet hole I had been in earlier and dropped my 1st load of the night. After a short break, I went back to the bigger playroom and had several guys fuck me until I was hard again and started fucking one of the other bottoms that had been on all fours next to me on the bench. Almost immediately the 1st guy that fucked me came up and shoved his dick in my ass while I was fucking, my absolute favorite fucking position. Unfortunately the other bottom didn't take the hint that he needed to get a little lower so I could squat a little bit for the shorter guy that was fucking me from behind, and I broke it off since I was having too hard of time keeping the pole in my hole while keeping my pole in the other hole. So I went back to my position on the bench hoping the guy who had been fucking me would follow, he didn't he stepped up and fucked the bottom I had just vacated and 3 other guys fucked my hole a little with him fingering my sloppy hole if it didn't have a cock in it. Once the 3rd guy pulled out of me the 1st top finally switched back to my hole and asked me if I wanted his load and quickly bred me. Once he pulled out I licked him clean and made out with him for a bit before he headed to the showers to go home, and I decided to breed the other bottom. After a nice break, my next fun happened in the sling playroom, a large group had formed someone was in the sling getting fucked, several guys were fucking on the bench and around the room. A shorter twink came up and started sucking my dick and fingering my now very sloppy hole, before he started fucking me. Before to long he pulled out and backed up on my once again hard dick and I fucked him for a while until he said he needed a break. Around that same time the guy getting fucked in the sling got bred and hopped out, and a curly headed guy hopped in and started getting fucked by a guy who had fucked me several times. He pulled out and another guy took his place, a shorter older guy with a huge dick pulled out of a twink on the bench and walked up behind me and I impaled myself on his dick and got bred by him at the same time the curly headed guy got bred in the sling. The curly headed guy motioned for me to take my turn in his hole and after a long fuck I gave him my third load of the night. After 3 loads and being just days short of my 56th birthday, I figured I was done topping for the evening, but stayed knowing I could continue to get fucked. I had took a couple dicks on the bench in the bigger playroom when I started getting fucked hard by a black guy with dreads and a big dick, I'm not absolutely sure, but think he bred me. Not too long afterward I saw him get bred on the upper level of the suck ramp and asked him if he wanted more and wound up fucking and breeding him on the bench for my 4th load of the night. I stayed another couple of hours and took several more dicks, including the black guy with dreads in the private sling room, but unfortunately he couldn't stay hard very long. Eventually a guy my age started fucking me in the playroom sling and shot a 4th confirmed load in me and I called it a night. My balls were empty and my hole was as loose and cummy as it had been since my weekend in Palm Springs back in June. All in all a really great night of debauchery for my birthday weekend, and a phenomenal of fucking by local standards.