Another update, I've been cumming a minimum of 3 times a day now for 2 months. It has definitely made it easier for me to get an erection even under circumstances that are psychologically adverse for me.
This weekend I was able to get hard and start instigating activity by fucking available bottoms, even though no one else seemed to be fucking at the bathhouse. This was after I forgot to take my Cialis on Thursday and Friday, they don't do anything for me the 1st day I take one, but continue to work 3 days after I stop taking them. I had been taking them to improve the odds of getting hard even if it turns out to be a blue ball no mating dance. It really wasn't working very well in spring and early summer when I was cumming a lot less frequently, the cock blockers were pretty much killing my hard one even with the Cialis. Last night I fucked at least 10 guys and came in 3 of them on an otherwise inactive night at Steam, which is always a boner killer for me. On the downside, 2 weeks ago there weren't any guys trying to bottom, so after getting fucked and bred repeatedly I had to jack off before going to sleep after a night at the baths.
If I'm interpreting my research correctly, this means I need to make sure I cum 3 times a day, instead of resorting to erectile distinction drugs, and save the drugs for when I take a sexcation and want to fuck all day for several days in a row.