ObligingBottom

I don't know about all the facts and figures on HIV transmission, and I'm sure other people could answer that better or point you in the right direction, but the bright pinkish spot on the head of your penis following sex that quickly wouldn't be a disease. It probably was more likely an irritation from rubbing a certain thing inside a certain way or maybe the position. I hope this helps about that part at least.

I hope you are okay though. Your post does sound a bit of a jumble of emotion and anxiety or anticipation, which I understand.

1 minute ago, fuque_toy said:

Thanks. I'll try. Getting together tomorrow night. I asked him to stay the night. I'm determined. 

That's the spirit. Let me know how you get on (you can PM me if you have more questions).

Relax your ass. That's a big key.

Breathe too. If you don't breathe deeply, you'll get anxious and tense up.

Also start by riding him very slowly and pressing down deeper and deeper each time.

It takes time but you can do it.

I have had a 9" boyfriend in the past (and 2 8" boyfriends) and it just took practice and patience and lube.

Good luck.

Awesome. Thanks for the answer @lower_bucks_bottom I have the rarest blood type and am of European decent so it would be interesting to see if there's any correlation or if I have that mutation.

I honestly think it would suck if you had the mutation and you wanted to become poz but couldn't, especially as the mutation is so rare.

Do they know if the mutation is linked to specific groups of people (i.e. northern European caucasians) or blood types or something like that?

1 hour ago, BoredMidwest said:

A discount on top of a deposit. Nice.

You beat me to it lol

A major league baseball player. That’s as far as I’ll say

The first time I felt really dirty. But then again I was raised with a pretty strict Christian upbringing. I'm not as bad as I used to be I guess

I'm usually either nude or with a shirt on (because my pants were ripped off lol)

Thanks @GermanFucker Totally sorts that out :)

@Littlebill77 and @SBB1984 are spot on about Sydney and Melbourne.

I haven't caught anything from taking loads either yet.

Could it be how you are positioned? Even by arching the back a little more / less might help?

@GermanFucker - My doctor told me that by having the Hep A and Hep B vaccines that Hep D was most likely covered too because B and D are related I think?

@Fatbearsub yeah I also forgot about a top wanting to suck me. Just no. I hate the feeling.

I agree with @rawloadstakenabout hard limits. It's a real turn off when someone is super pushy about something he knows you won't do. (No means no.)

I had my ex husband try to force me into sex once when we were staying with my parents and I was pretty sick. Not cool to have to shove your husband away because he's too unable to gauge people's feelings and moods. (That's one reason we're exes.)

Tried to hook up with a guy last night on Grindr. Hot cock and everything. Then asks me how I could "reward" him. Uh, I'm letting you cum inside me dude. That's enough reward?

My ex husband had a great cock and we fucked bare all the time, but he was also mostly bottom, so it meant I had to go elsewhere for cock lol

Sounds really hot!

I personally would never ask. He'd tell me if he wanted me to know. But I guess every scenario is different, and it depends on the relationship (for lack of a better word) between me and him.

I was reading this and maybe is it the fact that, because you are poz, the psychological "shackles" of barebacking are released and therefore all previous taboos / inhibitions are removed?  (I hope that makes sense. Just been on planes for over 24 hours so my brain is mush.)

I agree that bare is better. For me, I can actually feel the guy cumming inside me when he cums (like the loads squirting inside) which is very hot. But psychologically, knowing I've brought a top to climax, and inside of me with no barriers, leaves me very satisfied too. I keep hearing I like to please other people, and I guess this is one way I do it. (I also agree about keeping the seed inside... the top put in all that work to give it to me, why would I dump it back out? lol)

Great topic! I love eyes too.

Lighter blue eyes get me but yeah, depends on the guy. I have hazel (sometimes greenish) eyes and guys always comment on them. I think they're pretty average lol.

My third boyfriend was hung (9" and thick) and on our first date, he didn't want to wear a condom. I was so enamoured by the size of his cock that I let him fuck me bare. The rest, as they say, is history lol

I found out my blood type recently and I was curious to know if certain blood groups or types were more or less likely to become HIV positive or acquire certain STDs through bareback sex.

I guess I'm curious if certain blood types (or even two people of different blood types) have any effect on transmission?

Does anyone know anything about this? I looked it up on Google and got a million different answers, some of which I am taking sceptically.

(Hopefully I'm making sense. Sick with a bug here at the moment.)

Thanks in advance.

Really, it depends on my mood.  More often than not, rough so I know who's in charge, but sometimes it's nice to be regular too