SuccessfulChaser

First dude was much older (+20 years or so).  He had spent a good amount of time recruiting me and ended up being a great mentor for my first year of queer sex. 

After that came a couple years of mostly fucking with other guys my age.   In that era, it was still difficult to be out, so finding other homo friends was a little risky.  But there were three or four of us kinda close and we spent the rest of high school having the proverbial gay old time. 

After high school, I was more than ready to find some new faggot fuck friends.   The high school guys were fun and we shared a lot of cum....but I was ready to learn and experience more of the queer world beyond our little town.  A car, some cash from a part time job and a drive to a larger city for college each day were all part of opening that bigger gay experience to me.   At last!

I know I have enjoyed the company of many great black men over the years.  The benefit of that has been each one has a black cock to go with it.   Some of the key events in my queer life have had a wonderful black man as part of the deal.

First guy I ever lived with full time was black.  Over a year of sharing that amazing tool every single day.

First guy I ever "chased"--not knowing if they were even gay was a black guy.  John was one of my dads graduate students.  He was from Uganda, had been educated at Oxford......so he had the most beautiful dark black skin....plus he spoke with a British accent.  To top it off, he was just beautiful....perfect body.....great size.   Risky, but I finally got him to let me blow him...and I did a lot.

Two of the three guys who bred me during the time frame most likely where I got converted were black.  Both are great guys and I have been with both many times now.

Most memorable night in a sauna was due to a group of black guys who came into the WORKS health club (Indianapolis) late.  It was my first time there and I was having a blast.  The place was a bit slow, and nobody was interacting with the group as they roamed a bit.  I was poppered up already.....likely buzzed, so I kinda cut one from the herd and asked him if he wanted to fuck me.  He did....and did it well as the others all watched and cheered him on.  I took the rest of them......and due to their sizes and enthusiasm, they truly wore my ass out.

Oh there have been so many other great experiences......but these are a few of the reasons, I always welcome the time I get to spend with black guys.   I also proudly wear a JOS tattoo....my way of showing any black guy who wants me, that I relish that opportunity.

If you are going to fuck raw, you have to understand and accept the whole deal.   We don't get to select the parts we like or those we want to avoid.  Yeah, the PReP guys have found a mostly magic bullet for keeping HIV transmission risks down, but those other fuckers are out there too.   Not sure if it is my mutating immune system or just the fact most of my fuck partners are POZ now, but since converting I seem to be attracting the other bugs.  A life time of raw bottoming did not result in the first STD---until after I had gotten knocked up with HIV.  

Safe or dealing with it are really the only two choices.  

Have enjoyed both.  No doubt, cut is the most common for guys my age in the US.  I have had more uncut guys outside the US.  Either way, it is part of the nice surprise when a partner drops his drawers......and you get your first look at the next cock that will be in your ass.   After all these years, and all those cocks,  I still love that moment......

yeah, you can fuck a thousand pussies and you are never called a cocksman, but you blow one dick and you are thought of a cock sucker life.

i am convinced that most humans have a range of sexual desires.   Because of the fucked up concepts that are beat into our heads from the moment we are born, many are to uptight to act on anything that is outside the "limits" that a polite society suggests for them.  

Having the balls to be sexually liberated, regardless of the potential label is a big deal.   Allowing yourself to enjoy the sensations of whatever sex you think will be fulfilling is, for me, an key part of living an authentic life.   I have fucked some pussy in my life....but not a lot, it just never did anything for me.  But, a couple of those times were pretty good experiences---since my partner was an intriguing  person.  

And, based on my own story played out over nearly 4 decades of sexual activity, being a queer is really not a bad gig.  

Relax, enjoy the sex and you will figure it out.   So what if it is just filler until you find a willing cunt.  At least you will have an understanding of something that lots of uptight righteous pricks never figure out...that by itself makes getting your ass reamed a worthwhile adventure.  

Never had a top refuse to fuck my ass 'cause my hole was not "pretty" enough. I use it for two things: fucking and shitting. Neither of those require beauty.

I do keep it clean and somewhat healthy (if you ignore being Poz).

But bottom line (pun intended). It is a cum-depository not a beauty mark.

in short, fucking right it is worth it.   Not always a great fuck----a lot of big cock guys I have found think their size means they do not need good fuck skills.   To some extent that is true,  but I have plenty of well used small cocks that out perform the fleshy giants. 

And, there is always that challenge of trying to take a giant.  It takes some good skills and effort to do a big dicked daddy in a way that gets you both off with a minimal amount of pain and strain-----on both sides of the fuck.  

But, if you do, it is great to feel a very hard, very large cock work your ass.   While I am not a true size queen, I do appreciate a big slab of meat from time to time. 

The only cock I have not been able to take up the ass was huge....cannot even estimate the total size.....and the poor bastard who had it was one of the most miserable guys I ever was with sexually.   Few men, and in his words NO cunts, could take that freak of nature.  I know the best I could do was lick it a bit and take the head partway into my mouth.   Truly have never seen another one like that...nor have even seen a picture that is similar.  For all off you who have wished for a bigger dick.....just remember, that poor fuck....biggest cock in captivity is worthless since nobody can service it.    

Appreciate what you have and learn to use it well and you will have better sex than the clumsy cocksman with the supersized prick.

Very good story.  No doubt the intersection between AIDS and the dark forces/spirits is very real for many of us.   While my own pozzing was not tied to a ritual, it could have been.  And I certainly see my choice to become infected as a part of my own efforts to be in concert with the darker forces in the battle to achieve anarchy/chaos.   Perhaps ever major action in my life has been a step towards committing fully to the work at hand.  No doubt, my infection is a key element in the role that has been revealed to me. 

Hope more like minded guys will provide their stories.  Always great to read of where our understanding of the occult and the thrill of POZ sex are intertwined.

Let's face it. It is still argued that gay unprotected sex is a cause of HIV/AIDS regardless if both males are clean.

Can penetrative sex between two ABSOLUTELY CLEAN males (let's pretend they are virgins) lead to HIV at all? And if so, how?

 

I am not sure which is most stunning about this post.   The use of clean (and by extending dirty) to describe an HIV negative (or positive) person is inappropriate.  I am as clean an individual as you will ever meet...I just happen to be infected with HIV.  I certain understand your desire to come to a site like this to learn, but please be a bit more understanding of some of the terms. 

Second, there are literally millions of articles on the internet regarding HIV and it's methods of transmission.   Even poorly performed research will debunk a myth like the OP asked about.   HIV/AIDS was not developed by or for us faggots.  Yes, our preferred sexual practices an provide an easier transmission of the virus, but beyond that, in my mind, it is not a queer thing any more than other transmittable diseases.  

Have used almost all to some success.  No doubt, BBRTS kept my chase going.  All three of the most likely dudes to have bred my ass were BBRTS hook ups.  

But since converting, it seems as if other things work better.  Simply knowing more POZ guys and that local "network" keeps my ass with cock in it.  I am also going to lots more public places...clubs, cumunion events etc.    

Just like an NFL team, you gotta have a good play book, you need to study it and know which play to call when.   That great BBRT profile may do nothing for you when there is a Bearfest in the next city over. 

With a well designed play book, you can be assured that you will get cock into your red zone nearly every time.  And, if you are a chaser, you know enough trips to the red zone will result in that big SCORE you are looking for.  

Yeah i'' afraid but i also know that Many guys there are on meds so the risk is lower

Don't count on other guys lying asses to keep you healthy.......only YOU can prevent infection.   Horny cocks are just doing what they need to in order to find a willing hole.   

It is really quite simple.   If you want to get POZZED go.   If you don't stay the hell away.    No doubt, poz related sex has a very sensual taboo allure for many.  But once the fucking stops, the virus is forever.  

Your fear of HIV is a good thing.   Not because it will tell you to run, but it is telling you that you really do not fully understand the risk of the action.   Once you really understand, I believe you will have no trouble making the choice that is best for how you elect to live your life.  

I know some of this from experience.  I had a brief chase some years ago.   I could not get past the fear, so I stopped.  Once I figured out how the whole HIV thing fit into my mind and life, my decision was easy and my profile name is the results.  

Fucking is a lot like getting a haircut.   Even the worse fuck (or haircut) only lasts so long and you need another.  

Why be to fussy about it? We all like cock---either taking it up the ass or ramming an ass (well we like oral too).  I do think that attitude does deserve some consideration.....I don't like spending time with people who have really bad attitudes towards life.  But other than those types, I welcome anyone to use my holes.....it is just sex right?

And, if I have found, that as I have worked to improve my skills as a bottom, I am finding fewer tops who really don't get the job done.  Skill and enthusiasm on my part can offset many limitations in skill and size and shape of the guy riding my ass.  

I also believe that current queer porn does a lot to encourage having too many limits.  To make their product commercially viable, they go for a "look" that sells.   I have found many younger guys who seem to be trying to replicate a porn scene rather than figuring out what turns them on.  

I am not beautiful, I am aging a bit and have a gut.  But I also have nearly all the sex I want as a bottom in a world where top to bottom ratio is something like 1:20.  Knowing what I like, being open to all cummers and being skilled as a fuck hole---not appearance keep me getting some great cock.  

It is all about understanding your own risk vs. reward value system.  That system is largely anchored on one side by those of us who accept any risk as part of only having raw sex and on the other, by those who never are exposed to anything during sex.  Certainly PReP, as it relates to HIV offers another jumping off point for many guys.   But HIV Is not all that is out there, so until your friend can clearly state his own risk reward concept, he might want to consider going full safe.

No doubt, those of us who enjoy raw sex talk a great deal about how hot it is and how great it can be not thinking about risk.  And many of us, me included have some health issues as a result.   As attractive as the sex is, if you play enough, you will likely get burnt by something.  Your friend got to the clap quickly.  

I will never have an issue with a guy who makes an informed decision to go raw.   But I do have some concerns for guys who jump in and do not fully understand the risks.   Read, learn and be informed, once he does that, he can make a better decision.  Perhaps his newly pus filled cock will remind him he has more thinking to do.

I have been taking it raw since before I could drive (back during the Nixon administration).  Four decades of unwrapped cock and I still love each and everyone that penetrates my willing hole.   Started riding diseased dick eighteen months ago and got knocked up a year ago.   Love all aspects of raw sex and poz cocks.   Embrace it, it is part of an authentic queer experience from my viewpoint.

Nearly 4 decades of raw fucking and sucking never resulted in anything close to an STD.  Until, that is, I got knocked up last fall.  Since being poz, have had gono a couple times, syph and just last week found out HEP C antibody test is poz, gotta do more testing on that one.   No doubt, once compromised it seems as if my immune system is letting the other bugs play.  Of course, as a poz dude, I might just have found a more interesting group of guys to fuck me.  

Interesting article, and thanks for sharing.  My view is that for those of us who came of age as queers well before the AIDS crisis of the 80's have always had the love of cum.  Fucking pre-AIDS was amazing.  Although faggots were not as free to be out at that time, the network of clubs, baths and dark rooms gave us plenty of places to play.

For the post-AIDS fags out there, a lifetime of safe sex messages have been beat into your heads.  It takes some effort and a good amount of bravery to step out of those queer limiting safe sex rules.  But once someone does, the love of taking it raw and the enjoyment of fully sharing cum is amazing.

No doubt, I have found no-limits, full on raw fucking to be the most incredible experience.  But, I have to admit that for a number of years my sex life suffered as I tried to hang on to what I loved and avoided as much risk as possible.  No doubt, those were highly unsatisfying times.   I gradually loosened up my standards and last year took the final step.  The wide open sex I experienced as a chaser and the quality poz on poz sex I am not enjoying have been everything I could dream of. 

Have been to Steamworks...but never a Cumunion event there.  I have been to several Cumunions at the P-House in Augusta.  P-House is a male only, semi-nude "resort" (old hotel).  Pool, sauna, maze, and play area called the PIG PEN are part of the club and usually it is a good place to fuck on any visit. 

Cumunion there has been a bit spotty.  Twice, there were not a lot of guys and twice it was a serious fuck event.  No doubt, I have seen a good number of biohazzard tats on the guys tearing up my ass.   Lots of slings and benches mean lots of play with the right guy.   But the bottom to top ratio is, like always showing a lot of bottoms without cocks in them at times.  I find it helps to be a bit more aggressive to stand out from the crowd.   Although it is unlike that Cumunion was the site of my pozzing, that was likely that I had already been knocked up when attending the events were I got the most cock.

Go, Get Naked, Be Friendly and FUCK a lot.  You will enjoyment.  Do not expect or ask for condom use...they are around...but mostly for show.  If you are a bottom, claim a swing, spread you legs and let you hole become filled with lots of cock and lots of cum.

I swore off getting fucked by married cock many years ago.  Having the baby's mamma walk in while daddy's dick is buried balls deep in my ass is a bit of an uncomfortable.   Extend that discomfort a bit by having all your clothes still in the car in the garage (you think) after being picked up in a parking lot in a different city and being driven to the house nude and with a mask on.  

I am sure I have had some married meat ram my ass since, but it is always on my terms/turf.   One situation like that was enough for me. 

That woman seemed to have little sense of humor about the situation.  

pozzed a year ago.   no meds.    cd4 is still pretty good...a bit over 600 and largely stable/unchanging.   vl has not been exactly by the books.  had the real big (in my mind big) numbers as expected during the acute stage...something near 400k.   Dropping...but still north of 200k 8 months or so into the latency stage.  docs so far are not providing a lot of reason for the slower drop..than might be expected...but it is going down.  

Farming and agriculture is a big part of my background.   No longer directly associated with anything in AG, but damn it was a good way to grow up.

Grew up on a small dairy farm.  Started pulling tits when i was 14 or so.....about the time I started getting carnal knowledge of MEN.

Learned to cultivate cannabis among the corn

Fucked a few sheep to have an authentic farm boy experience.

Paid way through college by grading livestock for a local market

Taught agriculture engineering classes at a land grant university for a few years

ALL of my early same-age sex partners were other farm boys.  Some, just did dick just cause it was available.  Others, like me became dedicated faggots.

Spent weeks every summer at grandparents farm with same age, sex cousin.   Making hay...skinny dipping in the pond...and eventually fucking the hell out of each other.

Corny as it was....always appreciated John Denvers's "thank god I am a country boy". 

I have one basic rule.  If I am in a one on one situation, I believe status should be discussed.  Yeah, there are liars and stealthers out there.  I have been fucked by my share of them.  But, i still believe the status discuss should be part of the encounter.

But at more open environments, those who go know what goes on.  You make your risk decision by attending or not.   Waiting until a hot cock is poking your hole seems foolish and rude.

Go, enjoy the scene, but know what you are in for...it could be getting POZZED.   Only you can be responsible for the out come.

By the way, in a long life of barebacking, I have NEVER been asked status in a pubilc fuck setting.

Sucking cock, bottoming, topping or whatever takes time to get good at it.   I was fortunate, I had a great mentor when I first became sexually active and he helped me learn to be good in the sack and a good queer.   I have continued to work hard on being the best bottom I can be.   The reward is that partners like to come back, most partners are surprised by a really talented partner...and YOU get more out of the whole experience. 

Talk to guys....fuck and suck a lot....and you will get there.   But try NOT to use porn as your guide.  It is usually a poor representation of what real sex is like.  

KInd of a split answer for me.   No doubt, chasing was hot, I loved each and every thrust of every dick.  I quickly adapted to an HIV+ mindset that many guys have and that is once you got it, you won't get it again...so go fuck.   No doubt my mind was converted before the rest of my system.  And, post pozzing, I am finding the poz on poz interactions quite interesting and in many ways distinctly different from uninfected fucking.

So for the most part, I am more aroused, and more sensual while getting fucked and spending much more effort finding great poz guys.  So in my mind my sex life has amped up a lot since I stated chasing and went up a bunch more when I eventually converted.

But, that is all mental....the physical side..the biological side has remained kind of flat or subdued.

KInd of strange....and as a bottom, I can always find a way to really give my top a good ride.   If I was a top, I am not sure how my performance would be.   I have bred two negative asses and neither one was all that great for me (but no topping real is).

For me it has been great.......the increases have been amazing.   Would not reverse it if I could (right now).