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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I have noticed a odd thing on Doublelist under Men for men section that have a ad listing for a woman. Not sure if miscategory or intentional post under a different heading. Also can seem on ad or apps have some that wonder if playing games in not meet or a bot or listing to try to sell something or to visit a website or use a app. I do wonder why some ask if have kik or snap or whatever to communicate when app, website, email to reply work just as well. I personally figured not worth getting app where seems to maybe learn ask for money or potential scam. Also have to think as remember in past one make a ad as a joke and then get mad of contact later. I take view if not seriously looking to not have a ad, or profile. However can weed out if seem a picture collector or after chatting learn neither can host or working, etc. I had on a app get a reply of someone want to meet but want gas money. First off not contact, next is likely if had money to not travel, or some other scam or spam. I reported for seems maybe a scam of get gas money and not see person. Also I think was maybe 3 hours away. I think rather see of individuals local where if serious decide to travel, host or meet. The exception is if I was traveling to see who may be in area, but only do if to plan to stop if traveling, otherwise can seem annoying of traveling say on highway or road and not plan to visit or chat in decide to meet up or not. Be nice if bots and scammers, spammers, game players weeded out so know if communicate with a real person and not one that may be pulling a scam or spam. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had Wednesday tried using a app. A rare time can host. I wasn't able to host long. One seemed interested but needed to take a shower as gotten off work which can understand. However I have figure hear from after 20 or 30 minutes. Instead was 3 hours later. I replied can't host as not know if time hosting nearing over. Besides if feel asleep or something that likely not work. Share for some if can host have a limited time can host so best to travel as soon as can or they travel and host or get a room or something. I again see to point not get excited unless one actually shows up and use time waited to do other things fsuch as sorting, cleaning, relaxing, etc. or sadly seems some play games in waste others time. -
When I bred I generally do number 1.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As think about another category of individuals on hookup apps and websites are those that not seem to be ironically looking for a hookup. One is I guess looking for a buddy to do nonsexual things or maybe looking for a husband. I don't know but I guess maybe forgot what app or website be used to fuck or get fucked. If they are looking for a boyfriend or husband I would guess a website or app that be a better fit for what looking for. At least profile are honest in not looking for a hookup. Another time found a individual profile seemed misleading in maybe give oral or anal. However when went to where host. First was a hot day. Next when get there in ask learned individual not interested in oral. Basically just wanted to cuddle watching guitar youtube videos. It was ok but profile again had me thinking interested in a hookup when just wanted to cuddle. I ironically not block their profile as see their profile picture and see to avoid and not have a repeat. I think if just want to cuddle to be upfront on. Otherwise see as waste time if allude to hookup when not hookup. I would not meet again for had their chance. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I can see potential for abuse of rating systems. I agree that could have individuals do things may not feel comfortable with. I also see problems of apps that not seem to remove problem profiles. I only want to use block feature for those that are wanting to do things that may not be comfortable with or is not ready to try. In past had one that wanted me to fist them and then can top. I personally didn't feel comfortable with fisting. Thus offered to just top. They wanted fisting, so I declined meeting. I did previously meet up with person. I think maybe more into bdsm or something. However, it would have been nice to give a heads up that have oil or lube or whatever was on them. I ended up blocking the profile for seemed to want things that not comfortable with or figure to maybe ease into. Just seemed no ease into. I also had to block some that seemed too pushy. Wanted right now, or realize may not be a good match to meet up. However when I blocked, found a bit unnerving when individual blocked that use another account to send messages to where block them. I try to be upfront in if can't host, if can travel or not. Also to share if interested or not. I do find annoying in chat with someone to realize not likely meet for different combinations such as neither can host, neither have a vehicle, that one or both worked and tired. What after learn details can't likely meet in host or travel, the person wants to see pictures. What for want to see pictures when can't meet. I decline sharing pictures. I have limited pictures and not want to just share for picture collectors. I don't understand want to see pictures when I guess maybe some see as safe sex or a way to fuck or get fucked without actually being fucked or fuck in show a picture of a ass or cock to say fucked or fuck by when not even meet. I had so many ask for pictures that I finally had to write to go look at a adult magazine, pictures or video online. I guess some not want to go to adult bookstore to buy a magazine, or movie. However, can see online of adult websites so again not sure why want pictures. One time shared some pictures like shaved around balls for individual meet if was shaved. Individual I guess just a picture collector not meet. Or another started wanted certain angles, when not practical oneself to take picture of. Thus I eventually figure if want to see more to meet up. To me pictures should be to help decide to meet up or not. Apps and websites are to figure to meet up or not. I do also wonder if some are lazy or just what in not want to travel or host. I noticed this with gaymers or gamers in may not host but can't seem to get away from video games to meet. Now I can understand caution if maybe visit a rough neighborhood or caution to travel at night. However as I figured out that when can host and individual can travel that they either decide to travel or not. In shortly seems if want fucked will go or not. I have noticed something that if host and then host darkroom or anon that darkroom or anon seemed sometimes increased meeting. However can vary in want to be discreet, to maybe in the closet, to just don't want to see who with. Last item that I have concerns on if someone uses someone else's pictures to pretend to say be one person when is someone else. For example if one share a picture of a cock 9 inches long and in real life their cock is 6 inches long and fuck someone that individual may quickly figure out. See better to be honest of size. If one is 6, 8, or 9 inches long or so to say. Seen ad for individual want small cock, while another ad for long cock. I see as cock is cock and different sizes can give pleasure. I also don't understand why some seem to play games. I recall one saying needing to get ready to bottom and seems 2 hours later still not ready. To wrap up not like to chat with someone that only after chatting for awhile learn not drive or host. I try to be upfront on in can host or not, travel ability so not have a half hour feel wasted chatting to learn not work to meet. -
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Had a married man give me a hand job and noticed wedding band. I was able to cum from him stroking my cock.
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I had a little bit of a wait to get in the mail. Then get a read much off and on. I have finished the book. Overall great reading on cover many topics balls, cock, breeding, sucking, fucking and more. I do suggest a proofreader or review for spelling or word choice as noticed some potential other words used such as God when think intend word Good. Definitely worth a read. Also maybe blow a load or two reading.
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I would say what do to keep private. Or maybe write about on a forum on website, or someplace where similar postings be posted. Unless family or friends are very open that may not want to hear about what do you in private. Also my suggestion is to make sure all involved agree to what doing and are legal age or older. On a personal note, I remember asking a woman about how former college gay roommate was doing. At the time not seen since was roommate and still not. She replied in that they did it. I didn't want to know that. Besides later have a odd picture of a woman that was Christian and a bbs figure and roommate that maybe frustrated in not fuck to fuck a straight woman. I remember seeing at times I guess roommate seemed frustrated. I guess she thought maybe I needed to know or she needed to reveal details to someone. Or maybe meant did something else like kiss or something, I didn't want to inquire further. At the time not see possible to have done anything sexual with roommate as concerned at time others find out such as residential manager. Still to sum up would have just preferred to hear former roommate is doing find or that talking to. Bottom line is too much personal details or open to wide interpretation that not want to know. A simple they are doing fine would work and not need to share with others that maybe family, friends, or individuals.
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I am not sure how came across but is a publication title. I thought write about as a little surprised not see a topic on. Seems a interesting publication as I ordered. I hope to get soon so can share a review of.
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Craigslist at times could have some fun meetings. Other times seems many playing games in not serious, just want pictures and seemed to not hear from again. The one hookup was a couple of times repeated that I remember in other posts writing about. I find some played games in have you go to basically have no interest. The only thing see positive in is if learned had another ad for same location wouldn't waste time again trying to go up 3 flights of stairs.. A simple not interested would have been better. I had to at one point on grindr say to look at adult materials when noticed not be able to meet. Same with Craigslist and many other sites and apps in some I guess not want to travel or host so not sure how meet. I don't get the want pictures if not interested in meeting. Also I wonder if someone's weird idea of safe sex in just get off seeing a big cock? My view is while I get need to see a picture to decide to meet, that those that just want a picture, wouldn't they want to see in person the cock? When Craigslist worked was great, however many flakes, scammers, game players that I guess get off in not meeting. Doublelist has become a bit like Craigslist in when work have some fun meetings. However can still get many non meetings. I have noticed some not seem to read ads carefully as when was on Craigslist or now Doublelist. One ad asked individuals to reply in subject line, age, description or a picture. Response got to one ad was "Hot". I figure not to reply since can't follow directions. Also want to know ages so one is age 18 or older. Thus if one get upset or angry in ask age that see if was at a bar or buy alcohol be asked to show ID that can legally consume or not allowed. Same with ad and figure not need to meet. I remember playing along with a Craigslist replier knowing that same pattern in flakes until replied something like not interested. Seems that ended that and if saw any other replies from same person not reply. Not to confuse with both are interested but can't meet at the moment. Sometimes later works to meet, however I would saw is a bit rare. I think Craigslist and Doublelist would be better if reply in read ad to see if match. Seen ads where not reply for want legal age older or cut off age range not fit. I figure if looking for a 20 year old that hope fit but I not reply as see I am not what their looking for. Next is try to follow instructions in the ad if ask for age, description or a picture, etc. I get also some maybe into fisting or other kinks, ask be upfront about. I am not into and hope find one that is into. What I didn't care for was one trying to talk me into fisting when offered to top. I decided to not meet. Same with if one into bdsm or similar to give one a heads up warning. I find may need some time to warm to the idea and go slow. Thus some ads may be better suited for app or website for bdsm or specific interests Lastly, find I have limits to what not do. I didn't like the one trying to get me to fuck outdoors where lied about empty vehicle or could go to their place as had hours to do. While I get some enjoy that the activity can be potentially veiwed as illegal activity. See as not for me. Someone else may decide to do and is their choice along with face any potential consequences. In short don't pressure others if not interested.
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I think head knowledge and arousal can be the opposite. For example one may know to wear or have a condom used, or be on prep. The arousal can throw out that and want to bottom and beg for poz cum. Also the risk can be part of the thrill. However later may have second thoughts. This is where get tested and get on prep. Also can picture if one off prep, decide to get back on prep. I guess a way that may help is watch bareback porn and cum. Then after cum, cn maybe think clearly on choices make. As Also think about that can see avoid drinking or use substances so can make clear informed decisions. I am mainly talking about my thoughts as others may not be a issue or just use precautions.
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I had first time tried to top with a condom on. At the time had some hang ups which made so couldn't enter. Much later went to a adult bookstore that had a gloryhole. I had thought they just suck me. They sucked me and while thought still sucking had bottomed bareback on my cock. Later when realize fucking me, I pulled out. I didn't cum. However was first time feeling how great bareback is. Later I topped a man at his house. Not sure if he was dating or married as seemed vague. He was bent over middle of the bed. I entered him bareback and cum inside his ass. At these time not on prep as not available or ability at time to get on Later as prep was available, I got on prep.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
On Sunday I fucked a truck driver in sleeper part of cab. I had Adam 4 Adam app open in casually looking. I get a message that be in area when saw profile was 72 miles or so away. I will acknowledge wasn't sure if actually meet as app has a tendency of some to bail out or not show up. However did let me know was interested, shared details in they in 50s, and I shared pictures. They let me know where at certain locations. I was to make at a nearby gas station in a city where had area for a semi truck to park. I learned that they arrived at gas station. I then started walking I guess mile or two to gas station. The semi in the color description was parked. I entered the passenger door. After mention here then unzipped screen for sleeper area in cab. Push lock doors button as learned where at and locked doors. Mostly dark, but briefly turned light on. A little awkward for trucker to suck me as ended up standing while he sucked on my cock. Then when hard, I put lube on my cock and entered his ass bareback. A little before enter, then start to fuck. Then picked up the pace. Ended up on the bed, holding the blanket while plowing his ass. I said I to cum. Then ask where can cum. When mentioned want to cum in his ass, he agreed. A intense fuck so didn't last too long. Then blew load in his ass. First a squirt, then ask if more and squirted more cum in his ass. I pulled out. Then I stroked his cock briefly, then made sure had everything like my phone, and exit truck and pushed lock button. Then made walk back to where live. First time fucked in a semi truck cab sleeper area. -
One time had a guy stroke me cock and I noticed seeing a wedding ring. However that is all wanted is stroke me till I cum, which I did. I am not sure, but I think one I topped was a married bottom. I cum in his ass. See as to individuals if married up to them if cheat. I will play and if want to cum in them.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As from time to time on the apps but often just chat. Given how can seem at times difficult to find a hookup that wasn't looking too much. On Adam for Adam app one chatted with me. His profile was in 50s, average figure. I would guess be a month or so chat. Wasn't able to host. However as talk more that eventually agree to meet and go to there place. Get to there place. I sit briefly on coach while they went to a room. Then come back on with pants and underwear off. Then he sucks my 8 inch long cock. When hard he bends over doggy on the couch, while I put lube on my cock. Then slowly enter bareback. I start fucking and get in all the way. As fucking, briefly pull out to put more lube on cock. Then I reenter and start to really as had music playing. After maybe 20 minutes or so blew my load in his ass. I let him know to cum and he says to cum in his ass. I cum deep in his ass. -
Negative (violent) Grindr experiences
Bwccummer replied to soultrader7's topic in General Discussion
I had watched in past a program I think titled "Hooked Up for Murder" the one episode remember was how one in UK United Kingdom used grindr to commit serial murder. One victim was a former retired British police officer that wanted to be blindfolded and tied up. Seems that is risky if not know partner or not able to free self from rope, etc if need to move. The individual was caught. However if recall at least 4 victims. Been awhile since saw so could have been more victims. I find best to take precautions and if get a feeling something seems wrong to leave. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had place a ad that be in a area. However, not realistic to visit each that reply. I managed to meet one but was just oral. Another thought meet for a threesome that changed mind at last minute. I decided to call it a day, while still check but basically none other meets. Later next day received a email from one upset not visited and called names. I also find if someone calls names for didn't get to meet that in a way says to maybe best not have meet. Also if in future place another ad and see them reply that I be inclined to not reply for insulted me. I didn't intend to overlook but they would have been more out of way to stop by. Also not recall if shared address or if have to wait to share address. Also if cellphone coverage spotty or internet for some reason not connecting that I have limited options in basically have to wait till back online. I try to treat others fair in let know if not interested to let know, that maybe later, or not work due to timing or location. However find if get too many replies that may not right away reply. I find to try not to take personal in if one can't meet, travel or host maybe another time or move on to next individual. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Another similar ran into on app is ask about who with back in high school. I don't know reason ask this. I guess some may think if have bwc that use often. However I saw question as not know how to reply. Also seems the message tells me individual not likely to be interested in meeting if just seemed to want to talk about all partners had. I guess maybe they like to hear but could just have some think of stretch the numbers of who with or sound better than was. I ended up not replying for find not want to talk about, and even if did I be thinking individual needs words to rub one out, when could read erotic stories if what looking for. Another that seemed maybe a possibility was going well until individual bring up a underwear fetish. I get some be into. However I had my own choices. If was big issue for them, then I guess buy and have individual wear. I decided not to meet up. Similar to the one that wish give warning what into for like to prepare myself if into say bdsm. Seems this individual just went into without giving warning. Seems bottom line apps and websites only at best work 10% and 90% or higher is flakes, fakes, or those waste time when want pictures, past partners history and not want to meet. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had one on app ask some questions found annoying. This had to do with who I fuck. I don't know why ask if I fuck women. To me I find is individual own personal business if with women, men or trans and I not ask. They if want to share is their choice but I not ask. I would be thinking about where can meet and what want to do. I would add not sure why wanted to know who I am fucking. I told them I don't ask you who you with. Really ruined thought about meeting for see if want to fuck or not. Or just want to know who all been with as try to keep track as a personal sexual scorecard or something. Truth is some I have trouble remembering who been with. Others can remember, some in category of wasted time in just decide not Interested when one is at location. At least if share a picture can eliminate problem of time wasted. However, I think some get a kick in have one at door to just decide not interested. I think is why sometimes not interested in traveling more than a mile or two, to just find one not serious. -
What annoys you most about gay porn.
Bwccummer replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
In broad terms seems the filming can be similar rather straight, gay, LGBTQ, bi, trans, etc. Some can have really bad music, poor storyline if have, scenes can be predictable. I think about what is a amateur. For can seem broad if feature one as a amateur if been in dozens of films. -
What annoys you most about gay porn.
Bwccummer replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
In broad terms seems the filming can be similar rather straight, gay, bi, trans. Some can have really bad music, poor storyline if have, scenes can predictable. I think abo -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I recall one on a app had me thinking was to do something, when later just wanted to cuddle. I wish put in profile just wanted to cuddle. Seems much harder to find someone ranging from neither party individuals can't host or either party can't or won't travel. Then to make annoying when seems not able to meet one ask for a picture. Sadly, I think some enjoy playing games where not have any interest in meeting, but still seem to just want a picture. Also find for frame of mind to have where set so not keep seeing profile. Otherwise likely keep seeing profile, when say know just want to cuddle or not work to meet. A few seem to play games in give time to get ready, while one seemed to give hours to be ready still not ready. Find just get easier to travel on way home and not make a stop in those not ready, even though see want right now. Then if place a ad, noticed some don't read ad carefully for if request reply with age that not put age. Or if ask age get upset, I take view if one went to adult bookstore that have to show card to make sure over 18 or 21 if attend a bar. If not want to share age or get upset over then don't reply to ad. I just am wanting to make sure one legal age or older. Also noticed seems some make comment about individual that is unnecessary. A simple not interested works. Seems to sum up almost seems like some want one to go where there at so can play video games or whatever doing. When sometimes one may need to travel. Seems almost too much work and if a top no happy ending. If a bottom no happy ending from a top. Then either if versatile of no happy ending either. -
What turned you into a bare pig?
Bwccummer replied to germancumbear's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Being at a gloryhole where thought the guy was to just suck me. In a separate post wrote about gloryhole experience. I will say that bareback felt incredible. Also at the time not know if would've been hard enough to top. Later use condoms and gradually bareback. However I did get on prep so can fuck without relying on if the guy was actually on prep or just saying he was. -
A option is look into prep. However is not foolproof as may catch something but reduce risk of Hiv and aids.
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