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Amazing. I just read this thread and it seems that 4 tablespoons a day of chia seeds is the amount? Any other advice from guys in the know? Thanks.

11 hours ago, HardOneLA said:

I am totally in sync with you bud - once I learned what my true role is, then serving any and all cocks that desire a hole to breed is my duty.  Amen

And to be proud about it! Once I accepted myself as a cum dump bottom and was PROUD about it, I loved it so much more and my confidence attracted more Alpha tops. It feels emotionally amazing to serve top men!

6 minutes ago, ALPHAboy said:

We Alpha's realize how precious our sperm is. I worship my own sperm and that of other Alphas as well. We know we have balls to fertilize beta bttms. thats our sole purpose. 

Very cool sir!  Glad you realize it.  Nothing better than carrying around an ALPHA’s sperm inside me! Amazing how that makes me feel all day!

This is great @DarkroomTaker you do a great job!!! A gift!  Give us more soon!

1 minute ago, ALPHAboy said:

Tops like me exist to accommodate bttms with sperm. It feels like a betrayal to my purpose and existence if my precious seed is not being absorbed by a bttm. 

Yes SIR! Cum dumps like me agree that we must serve to pleasure tops like u, serve u, and I’m not sure how many Alpha tops realize it, but it’s an amazing feeling to be given a top’s DNA. I hold it inside me until it’s absorbed!

On 6/2/2019 at 2:10 PM, ALPHAboy said:

Rhetorical question 

Haha..definitely rhetorical.  A top should never waste their sperm on the outside of a bottom. If the top chooses the bottom to give it too then his DNA should go into the bottom and absorbed into the bottoms body. For total bottoms there is nothing better!

Agree so much of what is said here.   Me, as a total cum dump who has accepted my place to serve top men. As a cum dump I accept that I NEVER REFUSE A TOPMAN.  Once I’ve offered my ass or a top indicates he wants my ass. I must give it up to the top who wants it!  It’s my role and since I’ve accepted that, I’ve never been happier and sex for me has never been more satisfying to give pleasure to top men.

15 minutes ago, subsam1512 said:

I do not cum before, during or after sex.  It is my role and duty to focus completely on my Breeder which is why i am a sub in chastity. The only pleasure I deserve is  knowing that I'm pleasuring the one fucking me.  Therefore a personal orgasm is of little concern and intentionally cumming in front of an Alpha male might be considered  offensive or rude...and to be avoided.

Agree with @subsam1512 I try never to cum with my top and most of my tops don’t care. If I’m taking a particularly big long cock , my cum may start to ooze and spill out, but I do t care.  I do usually jerk off and cum later when I’m alone or in the presence of other bottom friends, but never with the top!!

4 minutes ago, subsam1512 said:

It is a huge disappointment to simply get fucked without his DNA planted deep in my cunt.  Whats the point otherwise?  Sure he gets off which is really important but a bottoms ass is designed to be bred/inseminated and a tops sperm has the right and dignity of being pumped into an eager hole.  

Agree, once we have reached the stage to accept ourselves as total cum dump bottoms who never refuse any top men, we want to be bred. If the top wants only to fuck, I will accept that and give him that pleasure, but ultimately I want to be inseminated with his sperm. 

11 minutes ago, ALPHAboy said:

I have my balls for a reason...

I always prefer to be bred by my top as it’s my reward for pleasuring him.  If I just get fucked; OK but I will feel like I did not do my best, but I also get that many tops want to keep hard and try out multiple holes. Nothing wrong with that, but my goal is always to be the bottom to milk your load from you!

6 minutes ago, ALPHAboy said:

Thats exactly how its naturally supposed to work ❤️ Its so evident that men are supposed to breed and use our sex organs to accommodate each other. Makes me proud if men know this. 

Thank you Sir! Agree with you! 

1 minute ago, ALPHAboy said:

Very much true! I've noticed though that if a bottom is well stimulated the bttm becomes a better milker, his cunt reacts to the stimulation and there's so much more cunt juice being secreted. 

That is true for me! If a top is really enjoying and pumping and having fun, my pussy reacts and I can control some of the reactions and contractions.  I believe the more I squeeze and contract my cunt, so as to squeeze the top’s cock, the wetter I become and the more pleasure the top gets from my pussy.  I luv giving him that pleasure!

2 minutes ago, ALPHAboy said:

A pleasured, well stimulated bottom is a better milker. So... that's your answer

A cum dump bottoms role is to take the top’s manhood and pleasure the top...period! If my top is enjoying himself then I get pleasure from that....it’s amazing.

2 minutes ago, alwaysready said:

I learned way late in my cocktail lounge life that if you want someone you have to go over and talk to him. twice a guy had been eyeing me and vice versa. just as I was walking over another guy--in BOTH cases--arrived and blocked me. in both cases they went off together.  this was true at the baths as well, and in cruise sites. you have to take the initiative.

Exactly right @alwaysready!! You are so right!  My older gay uncle taught me early, when I started going out, to be assertive and that guys (anyone really) are attracted to confidence. If you sit and wait most are unlikely to choose you, even when you do interact, some won’t be interested, but be OK with some saying “not interested.” My experience has been more guys say “yes”than “no.” My self esteem is solid and being turned down is not a big deal. 

 I had a pretty great sex life early on because my gay uncle taught me confidence!

Just now, DannyBoyCMH said:

Agreed.  If the subtle hints don't work, be more overt like giving them a better peek at your goods.

Haha yes, subtle it is not, but if the top is horny, it’s like dogs sniffing.  If they like what they see, they ARE BREEDING it! For me the direct approach has been very successful. 

Like others above, once a top has selected me to be mounted by him and hopefully be bred, he can call me whatever he wants and I like it and makes me happy.  This realization came to me after I finally accepted myself as a total cum dum whore! I refuse no cocks and tops and it makes me really happy! 

Agree with @DannyBoyCMH , eye contact, crotch, look down, but I also like to have my shorts riding low on my ass.  If I’m in the gym locker room, I turn so my ass is facing them, bend over and pull my shorts down as if I’m changing, but slow enough so they get a good look. More than once they come over to say “hi.” 

I pre-lube with a glob of Vaseline up in my hole. I’m good for several hours. My body heat melts it down and I’m ready to take a good sized cock any time, even several hours after I put it up my hole. I can just drop my jeans and take a cock and never need lube. After the first load it’s all just nature’s lube. 

Girth is priority! Stretch me open! Length is my second. If I have a Big 9” and 10” Top, I will do anything to please him. Well, I’ll do anything to please any top, really!!!

I have lots of “wants” and “wishes,” but truth told, if I’m honored enough to be chosen by a top to be mounted and eventually bred by him, I accept however he wants to give it to me; rough or gentle. It about his pleasure. As a Cum Dump bottom, it’s my responsibility to be prepared; lube and/or stretching. If it hurts, I just bite down and bare it!  I have only recently, in last 2 years come to this realization and I’ve never been happier or more fulfilled.

Just now, ronnie4u said:

O.M.G. !   You are so right - Never Refuse a Raw / Poz dick - invite his Father , and Brothers - you are Open to ALL - Obeying !   

So well said!  I feel it!

NEVER would I turn it down! My preference is to take them after I’m opened up a bit, but sometimes you just have take it when it’s offered! Recently had a “holy shit” huge cock first of the night. I tried stretching and lubing myself up before he showed up.  He went slow at first and fucked me hard until he bred me, but I was in pain and biting the sheets the whole time. But afterwards I loved the very sore, wet, gaping feeling he left me with!  I will never say no!

4 hours ago, hornybrownbottom said:

As a bottom it is my firm belief that ANY Alpha Top hat demands my ass owns it.

Agree, once I’ve offered my ass, I must give it up to any top who wants it!  It’s my role and since I’ve accepted that, I’ve never been happier!

I agree with so much said in here. The main thread through all of it is that the wife wants less sex and the man wants it regularly. Gay bottoms give great regular access and tight hole to breed. 

My experience is that the married guys I’ve been with don’t care much about cock, except their own. Gay bottoms provide a valuable service to wives who don’t want to have sex with their husbands. We won’t take them (don’t want them) and give them a great outlet to release their sexual energy. I say, “ your welcome” from all us bottoms to all those wives!

On 5/31/2019 at 10:12 AM, dreamsofblue said:

Hawks. Steam will tell you to wrap it if they see you go bare. Hawks rarely has guys to use condoms though there are a few.

Oh really... can’t imagine not going bare.  So I guess I’m off to hawks on Tuesday night!  Dark room sounds fun!