i might be talking a bit out of self interest here but just want to second that opinion. for a boy who fully embraces his role as a bottom and is serious about learning how to satisfy a top beyond the normal range and into the outer realms, it's an absolute must to find a reliable, experienced daddy to serve. not just to develop the technical oral and anal skills that i think more and more tops (especially in larger cities) now take for granted in a bottom. i can tell you that as a very active top in nyc for 15 years, the skill level in younger bottoms now is just at a totally different level. whereas before i would run into guys even in their early 30s who were technically unskilled as bottoms (condoms, lots of breaks, dirty accidents), i've found now with guys in their 20s is almost understood that it will be raw, poppered up and a totally clean experience through and through and that it's a big no-no to ask for a bottom to ask for breaks until it's offered. so at least in nyc and la (maybe sf), you need to get the skill level up to almost expert levels at a very young age to get a call back for another session with most tops. beyond the physical aspects, daddies can also to nurture the spiritual side - especially to get you to accept and celebrate the state of hungry submission that i find is the core nature of the very best bottoms.