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I voted for random because the original question was about “hotter”. And honestly a fresh meat always offers more excitement. But I love regulars, because they are (more or less) trustworthy. If you text them you can except (I must repeat, more or less) they will reply, if you fix a date they will come or host you. And you know each other, so you hardly can meet inconvenient surprises, like “sorry but I’m in only top/bottom mood”, “I’m only bottom but I can’t prepare myself for fuck and I can do it inly home, so only oral please”, etc. These examples are not from my fantasy, I brought them from the real life. I believe in balance. Enough regular and always randoms. And as someone wrote above,, a perfect match with a random can lead to have a new regular. Finally, I always have efforts to have more regular, because if there’s no option to go to sauna or cruising bar or places (some days don’t work) it’s better to meet a regular than spend unsuccessful hours on apps. I know most of the US cities are different but in Europe, especially in Hungary it’s a big issue.

I guess it happened only few times that I didn’t have opportunity to explore the gay night life during a business trip. Last time Paris I couldn’t visit L’Impact Bar which was very upsetting. My stomach wasn’t on the top, I didn’t have enough time, furthermore, I couldn’t change the shower rose with my douche tool (even though I stayed in the same hotel as in Spring and then it was easy. I also didn’t have the opportunity in South Africa, I spent a week in the middle of nowhere and it was strictly not suggested to leave the campus because of safety reasons. And within the place I couldn’t find anyone. I openly offered myself to a colleague but he didn’t catch the sign. (He always asked me to go to the bathroom together but when I came out he started to talk about his happy marriage and his three kids. And in Belgium, I also failed (in Brussel I stayed at old friends’ apartment with them and no opportunities to sneak out and back. In Leuven, there’s nothing even gay people who hunt for a fuck. I every other places, if I couldn’t find cruising areas, or bars or saunas, I explored the local guys. This try’s success depends always on the local guys’ attitudes. And in Europe, especially going to east (Austria, Hungary, Bulgare) the attitude is a disaster. Endless chats without any success. Germany is different. I visited Hannover last year. I couldn’t say that it’s a steamy city. However, I spent there one night and a local came up to my hotel room and deposited his loads three times. 🐷

Three comments; First, Gran Canary is amazing, it has been made for sex trips. It’s a must. Second, I usually do sex trips. Folsom Europe in Berlin was one of them, although I go to GC because I felt in love with this place and I visit my love but in the same time it’s a sex trip; however, my all business trip is o sex trip in the same time because I always explore the local gay places, cruising areas or go back to my favourite places. Third, if any of you plan to visit Central Europe and to go to Budapest, feel free to text me. I can share my experience with you and can give advices. Furthermore, I can offer my piggy me 😈🐷😜

DC offers a good opportunity but there is nothing better than 321 Slammer in Fort Lauderdale. I also try to attend a conference in Chicago in March. Let me know if you also go to there in March. It would be a huge fun to go to the same 😈

I love piss fuck on both sides. I mostly give (but only because my tops not as pig as I am but my bottoms lol Normally it happens in bed but sometimes in the bathroom because of safety reasons in terms of keeping the bedsheets dry Last time was memorable. It happened in the Biohazard Party in Berlin this September (Folsom Europe). Fifty something poz (it was unclear if he was undetectable or toxic) fucked me more times with his huge PA cock and finally bred me. After breeding he kept his dick inside and asked me if I wanted his poz piss too. I nodded and got a huge amount of warm poz piss. It was a bit inconvenient because later I had to let it go wich also meant a washing out. I hoped that previous cums had already absorbed.

And what happened afterwards? Or the wives knew their husbands’ “hobby”?

I think it’s a very complex thing. It’s rather psychological than biological. And the socialisation also has a huge impact on it. There are plenty of research articles about the effects of the influence of the environment around us, which overemphasise the artificial beauty. Women with long legs, blond hair, flat stomach or men with muscles, huge dick, etc. People suppose that a person with this above described body is a guarantee of good sex. As time goes on people can understand that it’s not true. On the other hand, there are some factors of appearance that can affect biologically. If someone is out of the limit somehow the dick wont be hard and work. Let me add a personal experience. A guy texted me. He visited Budapest with his husband. They were in an open relationship without sex. The guy was sexy and horny and needed a breeding. I was horny and needed a hole. Somehow I didn’t check his additional photos, I focused only on his face, ass and dick pics. We couldn’t meet in the hotel because of his husband. I offered to take him with my car to my apartment. It was a bit weird how he sat in. In my apartment he asked if he could undress in the bedroom. Including his shoes. It was weirder but I was polite and he was my guest. He already sat on my bed when I realised that he had an artificial left leg. I can’t say that it wasn’t a bit confused when he took off his leg. Not his condition made me confused but I had never have sex with guys like him. I didn’t know how to behave naturally but not that naturally which seemed artificially natural. Furthermore I didn’t know which positions would work. Finally I decided to focus on his ass and just had sex with anybody. I supposed he would know what was comfortable for him. It was a great duck and I bred him. It was embarrassing only not to inform me beforehand. Later I checked his profile again and there was an obvious photo. However I can imagine that people want to avoid situations where they don’t know how to behave and the inconvenience which can appear with this.

Yes. Six years ago in summer I regularly visited a guy, who had a wife and son. When I went to take a shower his wife’s bras were around the bathtub. When we fucked in their matrimonial bed we were surrounded by their wedding photos, etc. Once, when he fucked me, his son called him from the summer camp and he had a 10-15 minutes long conversation with his son while he was pounding me. So the possibility of being caught was in the air. And once , when he was fucking me his wife called him and said she left something at home and she turned back and she was on her way home. We had to immediately finish our fuck and I had only time for dressing up and leaving. I was always asked not to park my car in the street so I was walking to the first corner where my car stayed. I just sat in it when I saw a pretty fast car turning into the guy’s street. It was a woman. I was almost sure that it was his wife. Later he said I was lucky to avoid to be caught because his wife was an avenger type. 😂😂😂

This week became unexpectedly busy. It was busy with work, but it’s my life. But normally I’m happy with one adventure on weekdays. On Wednesday, I worked a lot, and didn’t plan to play. However, I was horny af and started to scroll twitter to find good jerk off materials. Once I saw one of my fuckbuddies’ post that his hole was hungry and ready for play. I immediately texted him and I was on my way. I fucked him for hours in several positions, when he came under himself to the bed. I asked him if I could continue and said fuck yes. I fucked him further for one more hour, until I came. On Thursday, it was planned to play with a guy we were chatting on Telegram. As it already happened more times that we planned but he disappeared (we have never met) I didn’t count on him. I had a business in the city and I had to work later. The first business ended earlier than I expected, so I had an hour gap. I didn’t want to go to the next place just to sit on the corridor. Luckily, the gay sauna was in the next corner, so I jumped in. It was 2 pm, but surprisingly not really empty. I saw a younger bearded guy, we caught our sights, he grabbed his bulge under the towel. I always keep my towel on my neck, leaving free my ass and hardon. We started to play and went to a cubicle. He said he was there for being fucked. He sucked me for a while then I started to push my cock inside. Condom?-he asked. I never use -my reply came. Are you healthy? I’m on Prep. Okay fuck me hard. Funny dumb bisexuals 😂 His ass was quite good, but he was constantly speaking and in a good way. He continuously asked if I came. After a while my cock became soft, couldn’t stand this pressure. We stoped and I went to my next rounds. It was maybe the second round when I felt a hand on my ass. I turned back, it was a fifty something well-shaped silver fox with pretty huge dick. We went to another cubicle and I was immediately on my knees. I started to suck him, but he took the control on me. He was a professional throat fucker, keeping my neck tight. After a while he pulled me up and navigated me to the bed. Are you married or do you have a girlfriend - he asked me. I replied automatically and unconsciously that no, I was a real gay. Then he shoved his cock into my hole. He fucked me hard and mercilessly until he blowed his load in me. When he pushed down to clean his cock he said: oops we(!) forgot the condom, but I’m healthy. I lifted my sight up to him and said I never used condom. I went to my next turn. We met the bearded guy again. I started to fuck him when he said he could bring a condom. I started to laugh at him. Do you really think that it matters after I fucked for twenty minutes bareback? Oh okay - he replied. Unfortunately he started again this annoying monologue with asking me if I came and I became soft again. he left and I went further. I realised that I had to leave to work soon. I stopped at a corner where a video was going. It was a hot club inferno dungeon ff porn. I sat onto the bench and stated to jerk off. I was close when a mature man stopped at me. I offered my cock to him and he gave me an extremely beautiful blowjob. I came into his mouth soon. Friday was also a busy day, I worked until 8 pm. I felt tired and decided to go to sleep early. However I started to look for some dates. Long conversations without any results. Meanwhile I got a message from another fuckbuddy (one of my favourite, hot as fuck with big dick) if I had any adventure. Then I replied that nothing. The time was running, it was already 1.15 am and I was already in my bed when this guy texted me if I wanted to fuck him. I gave a positive response and he arrived within 15 minutes. I texted my mate that I had a catch so he could join. The guy arrived and aksked if I would be embarrassed if he sniffed M and I wanted to join him. I said he could of course but I wouldn’t because it killed my hardon. I started to eat his ass when my mate texted me that he was on his way. He lives close to me, 8 minutes walk. I started to fuck the guy’s hole. We just reached the first break when my mate arrived. We went back to my bedroom and the guy immediately was on his knees and gave us a mutual blowjob. We started our session with spitroasted him. First I fucked him while he was sucking my mate. Then we changed and it lasted until my mate bred him. When my mate went to his back I cleaned his cock. I didn’t stop until he became hard again. I planned to have him in my hole but my guest was faster and sat on him and rode his cock. My mate became soft and after a while left. I fucked the bottom for another hour but I was exhausted. I asked him to suck me and lick my hole which brought me close to shoot, and finally I came onto my chest. I decided to sleep as much as possible but woke up after six hours. I checked my Grindr because I got messages while I was sleeping. Then another guy texted me. A sexy handsome Asian guy wanted me to fick him. He was close to me in a hotel. I jumped in my car and was there fast. He started with a super exciting blowjob. Unfortunately, he didn’t prefer either rimming or doggy style. He rode for a food half an hour, until he came onto my chest. He wanted me breed him but I couldn’t (I never can when the bottom is on me). Fina I came onto my chest while he was kissing me and fingering my hole.

It’s a funny story. I was around 18. I don’t remember if it was before I realised that I was gay or after it. It was the nineties and we were just 3-5 years after the regime change and we could watch satellite televisions. Among them German broadcastings. On one of them, on every Monday at 11 pm an adult magazine was broadcasted: M. I can say it was between erotic and sex but it also was mixed with sexy, erotic documentaries. Of course all content was straight. Somehow once they presented two punks who made gay porn (very soft anyway). However, I saw the first time two men having sex with each other on screen. Before it I met gay sex still my high school (gymnasium) years. Probably when I was 16-17 years old My school mate showed me a paper magazine, which he found on the street. It was visible used and full of suspicious patterns. He didn’t mentioned that although it was straight it was an article with the title: “The incest should stay in the family “ and was about a folk dancer brothers who had sex with each other. It was illustrated by more explicit pictures than I could see in the above mentioned documentary. Ass, dicks, holes, and penetration. It turned me on and jerked off.

It also can be because after the second time I started to feel like arriving at not a tourist destination but home. Maspalomas is my third home even if I can be there only for few a short time and only once or twice a year. 😍😍😍

Thank you for sharing these thoughts. It is an important issue, not for the locals but for all tourists who think the same but always must feel ashamed because of other tourists and tty to demonstrate that he doesn’t belong to them. Anyway I also understand it from a local’s point of view. Even though my home city is a capital and one of the busiest tourist destinations in Europe, we suffer from the same, here in the inner city. This area is famous because of its so-called ruined pubs. Before covid the unofficial parties were all over the streets all night. After them the neighbourhood was almost literally destroyed. After covid the district municipality had to strictly regulate the alcohol consumption because it would have been a disaster if it would start again.

I was in a huge shopping mall in Budapest. Although I checked the certain bathroom which was then a cruising spot but nothing happened. I went to shop to several stores when I got a message from an Asian guy in Grindr. He wanted to fuck me, but I wasn’t prepared. We agreed to meet in the bathroom beside the cinema area. In the daytime it’s quite abandoned. So we didn’t go to the cruising spot. We met at the urinals, then he ordered me to the disability cubicle. He pushed me down and literally fucked my face and throat. He was very aggressive in a kinky way, a positive way. Finally he deposited his huge amount of load deep in my throat. I felt sorry for not being clean for fuck. The other is a bit different because it happened in a sex party. I fisted two extremely hot guys. Other partners came and left, but I stayed long. Once they became very happy because one of their mates confirmed that he would join us. If these two were hot, I can’t find words to describe the new one. Poor people’s Harry Cavill. 😂 I was sure that these three would play with each other and I would stay alone. However, the guy was interested in me and we played together. We were having rest I got a message from the third guy. He asked me if we could go to his place together, he wanted to continue it with only me. I said yes and we went to his place and he fucked me for long hours.

I was hesitant, after it I was planning it for long years but finally I got my nipple piercing today. I’m extremely happy. It’s quite okay. Please keep your fingers crossed for me not to have any complications.

There is the amount of poppers that can help me to receive as many as I can. I don’t the answer because I never reached my limit. So far I received 20-25 cocks in one night (321 Slammer, Fort Lauderdale). This was the biggest number in one night, but the party ended before I felt this was enough. Of course, not all of 20-25 fucks were long or finished with breeding. Some top fucked me only for minutes, others longer. My time limit has stronger influence on my achievement. I usually start to feel that my ass is sore, after approximately 10 hours (of course with short breaks and rests).

I don’t know much about IBS, but I’m sure that there are more opportunities. I also have gastrointestinal problems and I can solve it I can’t say that never happened something embarrassing but everything is okay mostly. I think the key to have a break between the last meal and the using douche. I know, people with IBS must have diet if it’s not enough, try to avoid tough and spicy foods. I hope will be somebody here who can help you with more experience or expertise.

So… I can accept if someone believes in monogamy but in this case he’s not my man. I don’t believe in monogamy, it simply doesn’t work for me. And I agree with @Baralvr26, love is love, sex is sex. Sex is a biological need. I know it’s simplification but it’s a bit similar to eating. Is it cheating to have a lunch with anyone else? Of course not. But if this lunch is more than just meeting a biological need, there is something emotional plus, it’s cheating in my eyes. However, I agree with @PollaDeMiel, the key is the honesty. I always share my principles with the guys I date with (it’s not too often) but they are surprised and not supportive. LoL Even though I know many couples who live in deep love, harmony and open relationships. My desire to find someone with I can have a strong bond, pure love and romantic relationship. My ideal Saturday with him would start with a hot passionate sex, after that breakfast together, we would go to excursion or an exhibition, maybe theatre, then dinner together. At night we would go together to a cruising bar orgy, having sex with as many guys as possible. Doing it together and separately. Enjoying the view of each other’s sex with others. Finally we go home, and have a passionate love making with many kisses and hugs. A perfect combination of romance and pure sexual pleasure. I’m afraid it stays only a dream. At least in Hungary.

And here comes my mate on the same wavelength.

Mine is too. This is how I imagane the ideal relationship 😈🐷😍

Not too many. For example , Cheesy cock is total disgusting to me even though I love dirty play (I mean hard editions xd). Also, dirty underwear or jocks (ie., not just dirty but seriously, like when a white uw looks brown). Sounding is still questionable. I never tried it, but I’m unsure if I won’t never.

Basically I do. However, I can't say one hundred percent, because once or twice in the last 5-6 years it happened that my hole was so hungry and I was so eager to get laid that I had to give up my principles because not a single orphan bb top was available. Another exception was when I needed to be fucked a guy with an enormous huge dick and I accepted his conditions. Although it’s a bit off topic, I should note that I always refuse bottoms that insist on condoms. As a top never use condom and I don’t make exceptions.

You mean, you attender Biohazard now in Berlin?

Yes. We worked for the same university but different faculty. But we knew each other. I saw him in the bathhouse but didn’t meet face to face. Later I saw him and a very sexy guy stepped in the dark room. I followed them but it’s needless to say I could hardly see anything. Two guys were playing inside. I didn’t know but supposed that they were those. I joined them and we sucked each other. After all of us came, they disappeared. Later we met again at the lockers. He was shocked. We talked a lot and he relieved. Later we met there a couple of times and happened some light things . Another story,, just the opposite We chatted for a while, changed pictures including xxx pictures we were close to have a date when we mentioned our work. He told that he was right in the middle of changing work. And it became clear, that he was coming to us . Unfortunately because of this he didn’t want to have anything . The third happened during Covid. Sex hungry 40 years old bi daddy. We met twice, once he bred me, second I deposited my load in his hole. As we started to chat after fucking, it was clarified that he was a colleague of another faculty . But it was funnier that months later I attended the ceremony of fresh doctors and he was there.. Traditionally we greet every newbi with handshake. When he stepped to me it vis clear that he thought on the same like me: our incredible fucks. Later we met more, mostly in official meetings (without sex) but once in the cruising bar, where bred each other again.

Yesss with @NordicBtm who is a really cool guy with an amazing ass😈

* I read this again and I realised that I had to correct the last sentence (but hopefully everyone could understand it): In this, this site has a crucial role, what for I can’t be grateful enough .