leatherpunk16

Been there, done that - bathhouse every week does not give you that. Fulfilling sex life needs more emotion that frequency, quality over quantity. Kinks included - do what gives you pleasure and satisfaction rather than mileage. Hopefully with someone who can carry a conversation without eyeing the door.

I don't think that route is the way to a fulfilling sex life... it's just a means of scratching and itch. It's certainly a way to get a lot of action but it's really quantity over quality. I know you have spoken in the past about having lost your partner and I feel that it's intimacy that you're searching for. On line sites are really just for hook up sex with no commitment. I'm not saying the sex is purely mechanical but men are just looking for a release. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if all you want to do is sublimate your carnal cravings or feel another man's touch and the heat of his body for a couple of hours.

In all honesty, most of us are here for the opportunity to meet up with men. It's not about intimacy... it's more about the opportunity to explore our kinks and fetishes. There will be men here  in relationships but their partners don't share their more extreme kinks and fetishes. They are prepared to let their partner explore their darker sides.

Some guys are hell bent on chasing until they become positive, others for the thrill of the risk that they take with each anonymous load. It's no different to men who smoke or those who race motorcycles. It's about taking calculated risks and the excitement of spinning that wheel of chance.  Will they regret the outcome? That I can't answer.. but if it's purely a thrill that you're looking for, there's nothing more exciting than taking a load from a man who has the capacity to change your life forever. It's certainly an extreme bod mod.

Is this the right path for you?... Only you can decide. No one here has the right to make that choice for you. It will be interesting to read what other guys think