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Update on my "newly" poz ex.
His conversion wasn't as recent as I thought. He converted a few months after we broke up in 2016, so while I was getting to know my late husband, the ex was taking a raw poz load. What is disconcerting is that after my man died, I went back to the ex. He never said one word about his health, and resumed breeding me. You know what that means?
I was taking his medicated poz loads in 2018 and never knew it! He just assumed that I knew.
He was kinda horrified when I told him I am a bugchaser. But he says he feels no different from before - no extra desire to breed or spread or anything like the rest of us get. Even his conversion was super mild, no flu at all. It's so weird.
I got a load from him this morning. Didn't feel any different than any other I've earned.
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I am probably overly cautious here. It sounds like there is some repressed emotion - he was horrified but continues to do the same thing and says he still feels the same as before. I don't recall if you ever offered your current opinion on this guy elsewhere. So probably it's difficult to expect this to go long term, and you're still processing too. If that's the case, ongoing developments may quickly become unpredictable in ways you're not looking at, regardless of his health affairs which he again may not comment on.
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It won't be long term. We're not getting back together. Too incompatible. It just nice that we can be friends. I probably won't see him again since I'm moving in nine days. But I know him to be an honest and trustworthy guy, so I'm not concerned about whatever else he might be keeping from me.
When I asked him why he didn't tell me his status in 2018, he said that was undetectable then, so it was not an issue worth discussing. Wouldn't change anything.
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I guess he;s right. Undetectable=Untransmissible. I suppose though one would expect an ex to transmit that kind of news. It's a major event. I guess maybe you should be glad he was on meds. I don't think you wished to be converted by him and now you can continue to hunt for the right poz guy.
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