bttmboy4daddy
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Hey there,
I'm in Hyannis. If you're on BBRT and currently in Aus, we have already chatted and plan on meeting. If not, feel free to send me a message and lets chat!
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losing control when getting plowed
bttmboy4daddy replied to bbjockload's topic in General Discussion
Never pissed myself, but I've had a few embarassing fuck-farts (usually when the top pulls out after a rough fucking). Really nothing you can do but laugh and move on. -
I think wealth brings more options when it comes to sexual partners, which can improve the sex lives of rich men. Plus they can afford toys, fetish gear, drugs, etc to enhance the experience. Are rich guys better in bed as far as performance goes? No, they aren't any better or worse than the average Joe. (I had a couple of wealthy sugar-daddies in my younger days, so I am speaking from experience.) Intelligent people tend to be better educated (but not always). For most men, arousal is mostly mental, so a partner who is smart, attentive, and a bit creative will be better in bed. So it's not the college degree (or the money it brings) that makes a guy a better fuck, it's the brain that helped him get the degree that makes him a better fuck. Successful guys tend to be more driven/passionate, and a bit adventurous. That can mean better sex. So to answer your question, no, wealth/success/education don't (in themselves) make sex better. However, some of the traits that help bring about wealth/success/education can make a man better in bed.
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A thank you to the bottoms out there
bttmboy4daddy replied to Deepanalnut's topic in General Discussion
A quick rinse doesn't always work for me. I'm not sure if it's due to me having a very high metabolism (I am naturally thin but eat about twice as much as most people I know) or due to something entirely unrelated, but food seems to move rapidly through my system, so a rinse that would keep another bottom clean for an evening just doesn't cut it for me. I usually take about 3 hours to clean out (I like to get squeaky, ass to mouth clean, and know I will stay that way for several hours). I go in the shower, use the hose, rinse out as deep as I can several times over like 20 minutes, take like a 30 to 40 minute break, then repeat the process. Usually the first rinse cycle gets rid of about 90% of what's in my bowels, the 2nd cycle gets rid of the remainder (water usually starts running totally clear halfway through the 2nd cycle), and the 3rd cycle is just me making 100% sure I am clean. Sometimes a 4th cycle is required if anything comes out in the 3rd cycle. If my system is upset, I just don't play that night. I did like 5 cycles once when I was going to be getting barebacked live on webcam, even though I knew I was clean, I was nervous so I did an extra couple of cycles. I've had guys tell me I'm crazy and cleaning out doesn't take more than 15 minutes or whatever. Several of these guys have bottomed for me (or had me use dildos on them), and they turned out to not be clean at all, so it's pretty clear they had no fucking clue what they were talking about. For me, cleaning out takes time and effort. If a top doesn't accept that, they are free to go fuck another bottom and risk getting shit-cock. There's more bottoms than tops, but for every one top that sneers at me for taking hours to clean out, there are 2 more who respect and appreciate the time I put into making sure my hole is clean and ready for them to bareback. So even if some guys laugh at me for it, I'll keep cleaning my way, thanks. -
Tall, thin, white bottom, mid 20s. Looking for a guy (or couple) with a medium to large sized male dog. I'd like to come over to your place, maybe smoke some weed, and get fucked by the dog (would love to try taking the knot too) while you watch. I am okay with a small group watching, or even having it filmed (I would wear a mask). If you want to bareback my ass beforehand to get it opened up for the dog, even better. Anywhere in MA or nearby New England is possible, but the closer to Plymouth/Cape Cod area, the better.
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do you like to get dick slapped or to dick slap a guy?
bttmboy4daddy replied to barefootbob's topic in General Discussion
I like a top to slap his cock on my face while I suck his balls, especially if he gets verbal. Let's you know right away that once he gets in your ass, you're in trouble. Love it! -
Poppers tend to give me severe migraines almost as soon as I smell the fumes. I can't play with a guy who uses them. I usually get sick to my stomach as well. However, I don't think they cause nosebleeds. Maximum Impact can be good. I've used it a lot and never got a headache. I've found it heightens both the pleasure and the pain/discomfort of bottoming, but the overall effect is that the sex becomes incredible (assuming the top is even halfway decent). I would be very careful to not to use more than you can handle, especially when you first use it. I got freakishly dizzy and sick to my stomach once when I used too much of it, to the point that my boyfriend almost took me to the ER (I was really, really fucked up on the stuff, and hadn't been drinking or doing any other drugs, just the Maximum Impact). Honestly though, I prefer pot to Maximum Impact. With poppers/MI, the buzz comes on strong and then fades, so you keep having to stop and take more, and it's very up-down-up-down-up-down, which can ruin the mood. Weed? Buzz is constant. Plus, you don't get dizzy, sick to your stomach, or hung-over on pot like you do other drugs. I don't know why, but smoking pot always makes my ass crave cock and helps me take a much rougher fucking. Just my 2 cents.
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Dirtysouth: I hate that as well. A lot of the bareback tops I talk to (the ones who don't flake out), start talking about dating immediately after we've hooked up (sometimes even before!). I've had guys talk about how they are looking for an LTR, when we met on a hookup site and our only interaction has been me sucking them off a few times. One guy I hooked up with recently tried to get me to go on a cruise with him for two weeks (and pretty much flat out said he wanted to date); this was after he bred my ass ONCE. When I tried to decline politely (I said I couldn't afford it), he offered to pay my way. The conversation got really fucking awkward, and I don't know why he pushed the issue instead of taking the hint. I get guys can get lonely and want more than a fuck, but damn, if you're wanting a relationship, go to a dating site and not a meat-market site. I prefer to be actual friends with my fuck-buddies, so I'm fine with guys who want to hang out a bit (as friends). But guys who think "I came inside of you, so now we're a couple" irritate me to no end.
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This is one of the reasons I don't top; pretty much every guy who has bottomed for me has sworn up and down he was clean when he wasn't. Total turn off. It's fucking awful for an uncut guy like me, because the shit gets up under my foreskin and can be a bitch to clean. (It's sort of like how getting dirt up under your fingernail is so much worse than just getting it on your finger.) An accident can happen, but they should be pretty damn rare if you have the faintest idea of how to clean out properly. (Also, an accident would be a little bit of mess, usually barely noticeable; a shit covered cock means he didn't rinse out at all). I don't understand it, but some bottoms think that taking a shower (or even just taking a dump and wiping) is enough to get clean. Also, some guys say they are "clean" but are talking about HIV/STD status. So it doesn't hurt to flat out ask if they've rinsed out, rather than ask "are you clean?".
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I've never played at a gym myself, but I've been cruised plenty of times and have seen other guys messing around (just oral and groping, never saw any anal). From what I can tell, the steam room (and area right in front of the steam room) is the unofficial play area, though that might not be the case everywhere. Generally, guys wanting to just work out will only be in the locker room to change, and only be naked in order to shower. So if you cruise the locker room and showers, you're more likely to encounter a guy just there to work out, and therefore more likely to get reported to management. You can usually tell the guys just wanting to work out, because they seem to be in a hurry to get in and get out, with the guys looking for sex just kind of loitering. Guys who want to play will usually hang out in the steam room, or right in front of it (however, some guys cruise the locker room, and go to the steam room to play). Whether in the steam room or the locker room, guys wanting to play will usually be hanging out naked, or wearing a towel but constantly adjusting it (really just doing it to expose themselves, though this isn't always obvious right off the bat), or sitting down with their cock in plain sight. Whether clothed, in a towel, or naked, if a guy touches his cock (other than adjusting himself after getting dressed), he is probably looking to play. And it's almost a sure thing, that anyone lingering around any area of the gym (even out in the workout area) is looking for sex. Once you think you've found a guy who wants to play, either look at him and nod your head towards the steam room, or (without drawing attention from every other guy in the area), give your cock a quick rub/grope and see how he responds. Good luck and have fun!
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There's less risk than if he shoots his load in you, but there's still risk. You can get pozzed if he drips any precum at all. You can get pozzed if he has a tiny scratch or cut on his penis. Also, even if he fully intends on pulling out (and a lot of guys lie), he might not be able to until he's already shot some of his load in you.
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Part things that make me not want to hook up, part things I hate about hookup sites in general. 1: Guys who don't read your profile, or ignore what you've written. 2: Guys who claim they are a top, then want to bottom after they come over. I don't get this at all. Why not just go find a god damn top? Why waste your time and mine?!?! 3: Guys who attack other guys for not being the epitome of what they personally consider attractive. I don't get upset over being rejected, but there's no reason to be a complete asshole when telling someone you're not into them. 4: Guys who send nasty comments out of the blue (meaning you've never talked to this person before, usually never even viewed their profile before). Guys who do #3 are jerks and need an attitude adjustment. Guys who do #4 should just be killed because they are a fucking waste of life and the world would be better off without them. 5: Guys who get bitchy when I mention barebacking. Not into it? Understandable. But spare me the lectures and insults. I'm an adult, I can smoke if I want, drink if I want, and yeah, even take cum up my ass from a complete stranger if I want. You're not my fucking babysitter, so shut the fuck up. 6: Guys who flake out or stand you up. Special mention goes to the guys who flake out/stand you up, then later try to hook up with you again (usually coming up with some bullshit excuse for why they never showed up and couldn't call or email you about it till several days later).
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Anybody with a PREFERENCE for no-recip encounters?
bttmboy4daddy replied to Deaner's topic in General Discussion
I like to cum, but I HATE it when a top worries about making me cum. During sex I like us both to be focused on the top's pleasure, and after he cums, then I can jack off. A top worrying about making the bottom cum is a major turn off.
