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Hey guys... i'm new to the site and I'm already pleased with the diversity of experiences and outlooks on bareback, something that is not common where I live, so I appreciate it. Having said that, I feel like most people in general like bareback because there are no strings attached, no connection; just plain, raw sex. But in my case, I like bareback because it actually allows me to connect deeply with my subs, and I don't mean that in a romantic kind of way. You could also develop strong relationships with fellow breeders. That's why I've been thinking a lot about having a closed group of breeders (all tops, no versatile shit) and cumdumps. I'm thinking three or four tops, no more, and each one bringing two of their best subs to share. The general idea would be to get together (the three or four tops with the six or eight bottoms) and get to know each other and make a pact to fuck each other exclusively. I know that right away the idea sounds crazy because most of us are promiscuous motherfuckers, especially if you're into barebacking, as it's our case, but if you ever had the need of a deeper connection in sex without stopping from being obsessed with fucking raw and having options of ass and cock, it sounds like a good deal to me. By the way, I'm talking about Dominant-submissive relationships here. The tops would be able to choose from six or eight holes, one or more at a time, fuck alongside the other tops, make orgies with the whole group, train one slut at a time, share one hole with the other tops during the same day, etc... I have many ideas, some more detailed, but I wanted to know what you think about this. Is it too structured for barebackers? Would you trust the other participants to keep the group closed and to not hookup outside of it? Would you make any changes? I would make this pact last for a whole year, or maybe six months if you're just too slutty haha, but with commitment. Besides, no one would get STDs this way, and would still get raw asses and cocks. And the best part to me? Knowing you're training and breeding sluts with your friends.

I fucking HATE STDs because not being able to fuck whenever I want is the worst. Almost two weeks without being able to fuck without transmitting any shit is just too much time. Besides, taking care of the problem is expensive. And whenever you get something, the symptoms are with you all day everyday until you solve it. It drives me nuts. And it's true that STDs are getting more difficult to treat each year, because many people abuse antibiotics, don't use them correctly, or don't even get treated. And the ever more common use of PreP is making it all worse, you guys have to admit that. Now after my rant... I love getting sucked, and especially fuck bareback. But I'm definitely avoiding express hookups now: I'd rather make an effort and repress myself for a moment and then be able to fuck one of my bottoms the day after than try a new ass and then get something and not being able to fuck again in days. Forget it.

I just found out this today as well. It's a shame, because the best porn content was there, and I don't think there's any other website like it. I hope we get something similar soon.

Hey, I was just coming here to make a thread about this... A friend of mine is a young top who happens to jerk a lot, and I want to use his cum to fuck one of my subs. A few years ago I saved some cum of mine in a container and put it in the freezer, but then I had to move and never got to use it. So my QUESTION is: once you've collected everything you wanted, how do you use it? How do you unfreeze it? Once it's melted, is it possible to use it in room temperature, or is it always cold afterwards?

You crazy motherfuckers..... Your boyfriend will definitely notice your sore ass when he fucks you again. So you like adrenaline, eh? hah

I know what you mean, sometimes the chemistry between two guys can be so strong that a simple fuck turns into something more like love-making (which I like from time to time as well). Just by looking at your profile picture I can tell that you're subtle and seductive, so you DEFINITELY must be giving romantic (as in "expressions of love") signals, BUT we are all adults looking for sex so if a guy gets confused and insists on it, he just didn't get it. It's his problem, not yours. And don't feel pressured to give your phone number, you shouldn't if you don't want to. Just try to find ways to say no (explicitly). No one can fight honesty.

Once I was well into a fuck when the guy told me he was feeling weird, like wanting to pee, so he asked me if I could stop, so I did... Just to take him to the bathtub (I never took my cock out of him) and keep fucking him until he started peeing. He was nervous and ashamed, but I made sure he continued and kept eye contact with me. It was amazing.

To me subs should offer themselves at first, get our attention once or twice with a short but clear and straight forward message and some pictures and that's it. Then if we're interested, we'll continue and control the conversation. If you're a sub at heart, you'll know when a man is truly in charge. But for the most part, bottoms tend to insist and even direct the conversations towards what they want (do not feed us lines!), in the hopes that the guy on the other side will like what you propose and jump on board, and that's probably the most common mistake because we alphas always have the initiative. You only need to make yourself be seen and heard (we all know it's full of bottoms), in case we haven't found you already, and we'll pick what we want and do the rest. And if you approach an alpha and he replies but lacks direction and decition, or isn't clear about what he wants and how he wants it, then step back and keep looking because he just isn't one. PS: I had to search and start LOTS of conversations until I found this top with the sub, but I was adamant to get what I wanted.

Through social media, by exchanging lots of messages with the top (I never talked directly to the sub at first, and I loved that). We chatted for almost a year, on and off at the beginning, before actually meeting. Thing is we're both alphas so we tend to fight a lot. I know it sounds childish, and it probably is or was at some point, but we had truly never met another "equal" before, so it was a challenge and I think we learned something from it. But anyways, it's not like this other top was direct and had a clear proposal, we kind of arrange it between the two of us, so that was good for me because I had a lot of input in the arrangement (as all tops should), but at the same time it shows how difficult it is to find bareback relationships of this sort...

If we're talking about breeding, I don't think the size of the cock should matter. But in my case, I do feel like I fucking own my sluts by thrusting and cumming really deep inside them. And if I'm sharing a hole with other breeders, it's definitely important to fight to leave my cum as deep as I can. There's a difference between simply ejaculating inside an ass and voluntarily injecting your semen inside a cunt.

Anyways, going back to the topic of this thread but keeping in mind what we just discussed, maybe that's why it's so hard for me to have an honest conversation about barebacking in my local gay community, let alone about sharing one cumdump with other breeders (whether in a triad or an exclusive group). It's like we don't allow to be and act different within our own community. Sometimes I feel like "straight" people are more open than us, and maybe that's why so many subs go to them to get bred.

Thanks for sharing that, I wouldn't know if you didn't tell me. I was actually going to say in my previous post that Buenos Aires is promoted as a "gay friendly" city, which might be true in terms of some specifics services aimed at the gay community, but all that revolves only around a very small area of the city and doesn't even translate to people's general mindset, which is basically what you just said about Miami. I feel like whenever we hear the word "gay friendly" in relation to a city or place, it's just another way of saying "this is a park for gays... until supplies or demands last."

To me there's no real throat fucking unless there's throwing up, but not because I like seeing that shit come out but because it means the sub is at his limit and I absolutely love getting to that point. I train my sluts to take it, throw up on a side if they need to, and keep going.

Whatever I tell you will obviously be an over-generalization and a view from personal experience, of course, but if you want a quick answer: yes, Argentinians are quite homophobic. The place where I study (a language faculty from a national university) is full of LGBTQ+ people, and they are nice and open-minded, as anyone would expect, but for the most part being gay is still an easy joke, and femicides are quite common in my country, so gay people are definitely not oblivious to or unaffected by that. But what really shocked me, and this was recent, was this same toxic environment in a BDSM context, where one imagines there won't be any taboos or prejudice, but there was. I was opening discussions about fucking bareback in consensual and healthy relationships, and I was treated like a filthy unconscious whore. There was no room for the idea or possibility of open and responsible bareback sessions in those minds. When I mentioned wanting to share a cumdump with another men (gay, bisexual, even straight), these potential men thought that I wanted to hook up with them... which is so juvenile. And when I talked about gangbangs (one woman and many men), feminists attacked me like there was no tomorrow, and everybody jumped at it/me. I guess that community is simply fucked up in the head... But my point is: that forum was a sample of, basically, what I also hear on the streets of my country (I live in a famous province in the interior of Argentina, NOT in Buenos Aires, but it's still quite big and populous) and what I read on the local social media. You can see some gay couples holding hands on the streets downtown, but you would still hear comments or see some looks at one point or another. That pretty much sums it all.

Thank you so much for all your replies, it was refreshing to read. I started this same discussion some months ago on a BDSM forum from my country (Argentina) and the responses were absolutely stupid, narrow-minded, fear-inducing, full of doubts, and with no personal testimonies or advice. Here I just read a positive personal experience, a cautious comment, and some advice. I know this sounds crazy or hard to believe, and I guess there's no way to prove any person to be 100% faithful (nor it would be good for our mental health to try to prove it in the first place), but with this couple our triad arrangement worked perfectly to me, for at least a year. I garnered A LOT of experience in that time, and it was amazing. Like I said, two full breeders and one absolute submissive. Me and a closed couple. I bred other sluts around that time too (I chose them wisely, they were three), and the couple was aware of that, but they trusted my judgement (that's the craziest part, but we'd been talking for almost a year before making this arrangement so I was no stranger to them, and I'm an honest guy). Anyways... The experience of sharing a cumdump with another breeder is fantastic. If you're a top and really love fucking, pumping an asshole that has already been used feels amazing, and it's even better when you can use another man's cum to do so. Besides, the feeling of having a hole to breed whenever and however you want with a partner that you know and feel like a brother has no equal. I wish we would be wiser as men an arrange our society in a way that this kind of relationship were more common, at least among our community. My experience finally ended because I needed more than one hole, and this other top didn't want to breed with me other bottoms, so I had this idea of expanding our triad to incorporate other sluts but my partner wouldn't allow it, and so I started seeing them less and that weakened the trust, because in this kind of relationship fluid and honest communication is BASIC.

Hey guys, I did a quick search on the forums and haven't found this topic yet. I'm very insterested in the experience of sharing a cumdump with another breeder. I feel like in this community this may be quite normal when it comes to bareback orgies and saunas and shit like that, but I mean really sharing one particular slut with another top, like in a threesome relationship. For example, I've developed a relationship with a top from my city, who is hung and dominant like me and lives with his submissive partner. I know you probably won't believe this part, but they are actually a monogamous couple (I've known them closely for more than three or four years now and I can atest to that), but the top enjoys sharing him with another hung top, so that's where I come in. At first it was extremely difficult to see eye to eye with the guy because we're not only tops but also alphas, so it was a mess and full of discussions, both before, during and after sex. Until we finally kind of got out shit together and I planned a special breeding session in which my friend couldn't breed his own boyfriend 24 hs prior nor afterwards, and since then he's been my bitch too. Since then, our relationship changed a bit and now things go smoother. We have other issues now, because all three of us are pretty bussy and I fucking hate it when my new cumdump is not available to take a load (he travels a lot), but I still would like to talk about similar experiences with other breeders, because I can't find tops with similar experiences in my cities. Btw, we all three are neg and plan on staying that way. So either I can't find neg breeders, or if they are they are super possessive (like most of us tops are) and just won't share a hole bareback with another guy, Do you have similar stories to share?