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Bad dubbing. Sorry, but I just want to laugh when I hear “Yeah… yeah… oh yeah! Give it to me…” “You want that…?” “Yeah… (moan)…” when it’s clearly been overlaid onto the visuals. 

11 hours ago, Marlin said:

One of the hottest videos I've watched. Both beautiful men, especially the black man with incredible body and of course a huge cock. The best part is their passion. Watching the top rim, kiss and fuck and it ends with internal breeding. No staged pullout.  

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/70192/bbc-fuck-amp-breed-white-bottom/

I totally agree. The obvious connection between them elevates it to a whole different level. 

I’ve reached the age when all I require is that he can stand unaided and has all his own teeth.*
 

* Negotiable.

Just now, TaKinGDeePanal said:

As a fellow non-American, I leave a minimum of 20%. Depending on the cost of the bill - and depending upon the service provided - I'll go up to 35% (plus rounding up to the nearest dollar if I don't want to carry excess change).

I always adopt a “when in Rome” attitude while I’m in the States. I probably err on the side of caution and tip a bit too generously, to be honest. 😂

8 hours ago, AirmaxUK said:

Because of the 70 who signed up on BBRT:

• 20 Have a sick pet that needs to be taken to the vet urgently
• 12 Have an elderly relative that needs help 
• 15 Have a sudden cold / food poisoning/ tummy bug / other illness
• 10 Had a flat battery on their phone and left their charger at home
• 7 Had a water leak or other domestic emergency
• 3 Partied too much and now can't get hard
• 2 Turned up but fancy the guy in the room up the corridor more.
• 1 Guy who's only up for proving he's more of a bottom than you are.  

(Maybe I'm just too jaded and cynical for this anymore 😜)

Look, my great-great-aunt really did fall off her skateboard that day and had to be rushed to hospital. You do believe me, don’t you…? 

 I think those of us not from the States are already bemused by the tipping culture without an added complication. I love the States  and adore New York - I’m back there in a few weeks - but visits are usually tinged with a worry about tipping: is it enough? What’s 20% of that bill? Should it be more…? 😬

Seriously, I’m not sure what to advise though I’m minded to think I’d probably handle it the same way and not tip if I felt it was unfair or gratuitous. 

6 hours ago, TaKinGDeePanal said:

Blackpool has been on the decline for a long time. I stayed there in March 2011 (Kings Hotel - now Kings Boutique Hotel). The guy who owned it used to be Stanley Matthews' milkman (and to the wider world, that is NOT a euphemism). Apparently, though, the hotel has now changed hands and is a lot better.

It’s very sad to see how much Blackpool has declined. That said, the PA (Prince Albert) Hotel is well worth a visit… 

6 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

I use NordVPN  - just checked it and I it still works - I logged out, connected to VPN (UK Server #1918) and was able to log in and use BBRT without issue.  I tried again with other servers and it worked fine.  Probably logging out before connecting to the VPN might be a good idea.  Likely also keeping in the same country helps too.  I note that Microsoft locks me out of my online accounts and makes me re-verify them  if my IP address changes country, which is a pain when travelling. Some VPN providers and servers are banned because they attract misuse. NordVPN seems to be fine for me. 

I’ve just started using Surfshark VPN and it’s working fine for me, too. 

1 hour ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

Check out the following websites for upcoming events and see if anything takes your fancy:

jamiehp.co.uk (SBN on Sunday afternoons is the biggest weekly naked event in London and is consistently good)

undergroundclublondon.co.uk (various fetish themed events held in a smallish venue near Kings Cross)

bunkerbar.co.uk (decent cruise bar in Hoxton with various regular events)

You should also check out the Vault (Vault139) near Warren Street, which is currently London’s most popular cruise bar. Best nights are naked nights (Mondays and Thursdays), but your dates don’t seem to align with that…

Other than the above, you have the saunas, of which Sweatbox and Pleasuredrome are the best. Sadly it’s the wrong time of year for outdoor cruising at Hempstead Heath!

Is Sailors still there? I used to spend a lot of time in East London back in the day but haven’t been for ages. The Pride of Stepney was also great back then. The Fort, too, also no longer with us, alas… 

1 hour ago, SlampaBay said:

 

Most films shown on airliners are edited for both content and length. Does anyone know how this one was altered? 

I saw it first on a Transatlantic flight, too. Then again, some months later. I can’t honestly say if they were different versions, although it didn’t really hold my attention the second time and I wasn’t fully concentrating. 

More cock. Less booze. 

Second thoughts, forget the last one…

8 minutes ago, AirmaxAndy said:

I went to Sheffield in early 2023 for CumUnion and it was not worth the journey - the sauna did nothing to promote it as a CumUnion event and it seemed like just a regular evening. They didn't make any effort to play bareback porn on the TVs and people I spoke to there didn't know about CumUnion.  Similar experience in Northwich - the CumUnion event coincided with their naked event and they were pushing that and there was no mention of CumUnion at the venue.  I've not been since as it's not worth the drive up anymore. 

That’s really interesting about Sheffield because pre-2020 they really were worth the journey. But it was actually promoted back then. Times change, I guess. 

1 hour ago, WiltsCumDump said:

There were some great places in London before CumUnion came along. 
The few times CumUnion was on it was great. CumUnion London has not been around for AGES… which is a shame. Went to CumUnion in Brighton/Hove and it was very cliquey and not enjoyable… have not been back. CumUnion served its purpose to help make

breedIng more mainstream. Now there are so many alternatives to cumUnion. 

They tried it twice in Manchester and both times it was a flaccid affair. In contrast, the Sheffield ones (just over the Pennines) were great. At least, pre-Covid - I haven’t been since.

Of course, Manchester was notoriously pretty much bareback city before it became more mainstream, so that might explain the failure. When your unique selling point isn’t unique, it’s a pretty uphill battle to make a success. 

They don’t mention this as one of the perks of Prime membership. 

13 hours ago, vpt1992 said:

It's Fooocus. Search on YouTube for how to start: fireship ai influencer

Be prepared to have some strong PC (least 16 GB RAM, 20 GB disk storage, and good GPU). Mine is a gaming PC so it's not much of a problem.

Thank you. That’s very helpful. 

1 hour ago, vpt1992 said:

Bonus based on the original Eric AI created last year (first picture)

Which app or site did you use to create those? They are excellent. I’ve been using Bing and getting some good results, but they’re a bit stern on the censorship front. 

There are bathroom signs you can buy that read: “Stand closer. It’s shorter than you think.”

There’s many a truth told in jest…

43 minutes ago, muscmtl said:

I remember cruising before the internet where you scored just by going out with your clothes on, in a bar or on the street. And score I did, a lot

But now with the apps, now that the gays have the right to reduce the entire me to the size of my dick, well it's over.

I quite agree. Too many guys on the apps now think the definition of a man is "a life support machine for a penis".

Cumberland (pie).

In addition to what I've already posted, I'd tell him  "Go to New York much, much earlier than I did because the city will get under your skin in a way no other city ever will and you'll fall in love with it."

An interesting post, especially as I’ve just watched the new documentary about Rock Hudson today (which is brilliant, by the way). The crisis galvanised me. I refused to be cowed and became quite active in fundraising and raiding awareness. As I was never “in” (friends joke I was cruising the doctor as I came out of the womb), going into the closet that I’d never been in wasn’t on my agenda. But I understand why some guys felt they had to. The media in the UK in the early days was pretty horrific. 

8 minutes ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Here's a thought: maybe some people are misrepresenting themselves by using older pics or having some (to put it mildly) artistic license with their stats. That's likely why a lot of people ghost - because they would otherwise be found out to be different from what they claimed.

It seems a common behaviour - so I ask what motivates that? My answer is that advertising, porn, and gay culture shows us images that are not a reflection of how many of us really are  Do people then try to live up to these images and expectations by exaggerating aspects of their profiles? This further perpetuates that 'image' and it becomes a vicious circle.   

Images are beginning to change but I think it's an 80/20 thing where 80% of us aren't like the images we see in the gay media. And yet 80% of gay media is pushing that image.

It's not healthy and I think what we see with people's behaviour in the apps is just a symptom of that. 

You make interesting points. I guess we’ve probably all been guilty at some point in not updating profile pictures. I know I have. I don’t believe I’ve ever misrepresented how I look, though, and I’ve been very fortunate not to change much in the last 15 years - except perhaps I’m slimmer and more muscular than I was then. 

This idea of secret codes always reminds me of my mother’s friend who moved to a new neighbourhood in the 70s. She and her husband were unaware that the cul-de-sac they’d moved too had an active swingers scene. Back then, car keys were the, er, key to hooking up. The men would all put their car keys in a bowl and the women would pick out the keys belonging to the guy they intended to shag.

My mum’s friend was blissfully unaware of this. So, when a man who clearly wanted her to pick his keys up, sauntered past and “casually” dropped his keys in front of her before walking away, she plucked them up and shouted out, “Oi, you’ve just dropped your bloody car keys, you daft sod.”

I believe they were not invited again. 

20 hours ago, topblkmale said:

Usually hotels near airports are fair game. Hop on Sniffies. I love to open my Grindr app and drive past the airport. I get so many hits and have met guys on overnight layovers heading to Europe or flight attendants.

You’re absolutely right. Airport hotels - or even hotels mainly used by cabin crew in a city - are fertile ground. Open Grindr around Heathrow and you’re knee deep in cock. 

51 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

My participation in that business never was work. It simply was a kink of mine.

I participated in both sides. I didn’t need the money, but it turned me on that a guy was willing to pay me to fuck with him. And I’ve never needed to pay to get laid, but I thought it was hot to shell out some cash to have someone get into my bed. 

I think I’ve told the story on here before of a guy I hooked up with in Greenwich, London. It was the days of telephone ads and pre-apps. After our first meeting, he put some money in my hand - about £80, which was a lot back then. Thinking he’d misunderstood the terms of our meeting, I told him I didn’t expect anything in return, but he insisted I take it. It dawned on me that he got off in treating me like a paid whore. I was conflicted about it at first but rationalised it wasn’t for me to judge. I saw him a few times after that, not for the money but because he was fit. And each time the £80 was handed over. I put it to the massive phone bill I’d run up on the chat lines!