LOL with @ErosWired! 🙂 I think also that everyone became much more transactional online during the pandemic--in terms of teleworking, ordering groceries, everything. Some of that attitude could have 'bled over' to hookup apps--either they leave them on too long, or make a connection, don't tell the other guy, or just chicken out. Agree completely that men who have balls should use them--to share seed and to say, "Sorry, I can't host you."
Maybe we need to recruit ghosters for BZ--great convo streams, photos, stories, chat, etc. They'll see what a community exists for them--and that we have holes, meet, and semen to share as well!