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Bimarried001

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  1. I am a married dl bottom that shares a primary physician with my wife. I’ve been having pain in my rectum and the last time I got fucked I had a lot of bleeding. Would like to discuss with a doctor who may have a better understanding of gay life. Anyone has any suggestions?
  2. My first time bareback was just called sex. Back in the 70s and 80s condom was not a normal practice for gay sex. HIV/AIDS changed that.
  3. I was raped repeatedly from age 7 to 12 by my uncle and his wife. It did not have a bad effect on me. Not sure why. But it was something that happened, I know it happened and I manage to move on. Sorry to hear from those that had problems dealing with it.
  4. how about just saying, asking what you want.
  5. Yeah, I don’t mind guys sucking my cock but I don’t want to fuck them. I love sucking girls cock so I’m sure you get a good share of head.
  6. Interesting to read this. I’m from NYC and I cannot believe that there is one adult that go to the gay theater I go to that does not know the risks. Now, they may not know about undetectable and all the different std/sti but they know the risk of sticking their cock in raw ass. Especially random guys. I’m not lucky enough to run in to those high school kids but even they should know the risk.
  7. Well said and sorry your sister had to go through that. But that isn’t the case with everyone. I’m still married. We do not have a typical marriage but we are both very happy. She has no clue I’m bi after all these years (even after me getting pozzed and infecting her). Think of it this way. Straight married men cheat with other women and we don’t go (as) crazy. Bi married men cheat the same way, just with men. Your brother-in-law was obviously just using her the hide his gay life. That not what most of us do.
  8. As a cumdump I do not worry about if one of the guys fucking me will get hiv. We are all adults. If you are fucking raw and you are negative you should know there’s always that risk. I get fucked raw by random guys and I’m not responsible for their protection. You must know the risk. If not do not participate in cumdumps.
  9. I am married going on 40 years. I have 2 daughters (21 and 18). I have been sucking and getting fucked through out our marriage and before. There is no need to get divorced just because you fuck with men. Yes, I do not have the freedom to fuck guys whenever I want but I still get to fuck with other guys. Being married is an advantage to getting fucked as I get older. Guys that would not usually fuck older guys would still fuck me for the thrill of breeding a married man. No divorce for me….unless she finds out.
  10. I hope I’m not giving the wrong impression of what I’m saying. Yes, medicine is the reason the the drop in deaths. Yes medicine is expensive. Yes some people in parts of the world does not have access. Im not advocating for anyone to get infected because we have medicine. What I’m saying is because of medicine it’s no longer a death sentence for the majority of us.
  11. Well said but I wasn’t implying that absolutely no one will die of aids ever again. We say Covid is behind us though there are still hundreds of people dying from it every day. When I got aids in the late 80s I thought I would die because just about everyone that got it was died. People aren’t dying of aids in droves these days.
  12. Not me. I have the opposite problem. I’m tight and need that first thrust to get me opened up.
  13. So nice to know there are other married men like this out there. Thanks
  14. I used to try to hide the fact that I was married when looking for sex with men. But then I realized it was a big turn on to most guys. Especially since I bottom for tops. A married bottom is very enticing to men. They love sending me home to my wife and daughters with their load in me. And love jumping in bed and cuddling with my wife with a nice load in me.
  15. So true. I enhances the sex.
  16. Love that. When I topped I use to love sloppy seconds (and 3rd, 4th…). As a bottom I love taking back to back loads. Haven’t had that in some time. You’re a lucky man.
  17. I do not try to convince anyone to go raw. I settle that before we decide to meet. If he insist on using condom I just move on. I respect guys that want to be safe but there are more than enough barebackers for me to try to convince one guy not to use a condom.
  18. You can Thank you an injector. Inject a small amount of lube. That stays there until the tip goes in.
  19. Understood. Right you are hearing that the Covid crisis is over but we still have small percentage of people dying from Covid. Obviously we can never say never.
  20. Not sure what you mean and what you think I meant. But back in the 80s aids was like Covid in 2020. People were getting in and dying in high numbers. I can’t remember the last time I heard of someone dying of aids. Not saying it doesn’t happen but it’s not anywhere near the rate of the 80s. Now if you get hiv you can get on meds and never have to worry.
  21. All I can add is that I was poz before I had a chance to debate all of this. I believe that if I had a chance to avoid getting hiv I would’ve avoided it. Especially because around the time I got infected hiv was more of a death sentence. I can more understand guys today chasing because it’s no longer a death sentence. But even today with it no longer being a death sentence I would not be a chaser. Now, getting pozzed when I did freed my mind. I no longer had to worry about getting it. I remember my position. I didn’t want to pass it on (intentionally) but assumed that anyone fucking me raw was already poz. Today I assume they are poz or on prep. I am poz for almost 40 years and my health is where I believe it would be had I not been poz.
  22. I’m sure he was turned on by it as well. In my case I know we both were.
  23. Good luck. It sure is hot when you get that chance.
  24. So true. I had a weekend last year where my family was away. 3 nights he fucked me in my house. One night fucking me in my 2 daughters bed and the last night in me and my wife’s bed.
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