What to do with "generous" guys?

[seaguy]

I would evaluate why they are offering money. If they are obese and your totally not attracted to them then they are probably offering money because they cannot find anyone who will do it for free. But if the guy is good looking and your attracted then it xcould be he just wants to make sure that yoou do not flake because he wants the load and feels offering a little $$ will make it a sure thing, after being flaked on by others?

I know I have always had this fantasy of winning the lottery and then hiring all the porn guys who escort that I have wanted to have sex with and offering them enough so they would do it bareback. Did not win powerball so it is still a fantasy. But it all goes with the saying "money talks and shit heads walk".

[fuckboy20]

Hehehe another one..

I remember when I was 18 or something in an online chatroom a man said he'd pay me $100 if he could blow me. I turned it down because I thought it was degrading. At a book store in the past at least 2 guys have told me they would give me their ticket inside if I go to their car and blow them. When I was in NC at one point a daddy I spent the week with offered to buy me groceries and stuff at Sam's Club. I almost let him because I was a college student, no job, barely any money and it would have helped. But I turned it down because I did not want to feel like I owe him or like he's my sugar daddy. I wanted to be independent.

I would never let guys pay for food or drinks for me either because I wanted to be independent.

I used to joke sometimes though about just selling my body to pay things off and got scolded. Ironic that I'm an escort now. I'll admit when I was a safer bottom I used to get annoyed and somewhat offended being called a slut. But I started to get over that a little before I started barebacking.

A guy I met once was a bit away from me so he told me he'd give me gas money. Afterwards he handed me..I'd say a bit more then gas money. It surprised me. A little later I responded to an ad on craigslist about a generous daddy looking for a boy for flex. Did not know any better then but I got cut from a huge project at my work and my overtime and hours were gone. I was pissed and decided I might as well try being this man's whore for the weekend. It was alright but the amount I got..if I knew better then.

Then a few weeks later I then responded to a bb gen top looking for a neg bottom post on craigslist. I never felt bad after the sex. We had a hot time, pissed up my ass, came in me multiple times, and got fucked in his sling. Of course I never focused on the generous part but after he asked how much. Had no idea how much to say so he gave me an amount (perfect amount).

But it wasn't until going into town I saw an ad for a free month on an escorting site and I went for it. I had a great first official client. Clients after that were pretty good but I messed up with one coke head once..NEVER AGAIN WITH THE DRUGS.

Skip forward to today I am a whore and a slut. So does that mean I don't have any self worth and that my mind is altered and can't differentiate between sex for pleasure and sex for time? Does it mean that I feel like my body isn't mine anymore. No. Because I choose to do this. I don't have to. I'm not broke or homeless or on the streets. There are a lot of things I want to do and places and people I want to see. The job I have right now is for crap and a little extra side money doesn't hurt. But I will admit there has been one or two clients who I really felt iffy about being with but did it anyways. But 90% of my clients aren't ugly trolls or creeps. They are actually very attractive looking and I am sexually attracted to. Pretty much everyone who tops me has bbed me. Most without asking or even thinking about it. Some wanted safe sex in advance but changed their mind when they get to my ass.

I actually hooked up with a really fun guy tonight and had a great time. Wasn't a client just a hook up. Able to still play with my friend's too. I do strongly think that escorts who feel guilty or ashamed about escorting or having sex for money do it for the wrong reasons or don't have a choice in it. Most clients don't want to fuck or get real kinky or rough either. A lot just want body contact, company, and to talk. I still hook up with guys because I love hooking up with different guys, making friends, and having hot sex. If anything I am stronger about who I hook up with. I used to kind of do it with almost anyone but with my actual job taking up time and escorting too. Time becomes something more valuable and meaningful. And guys I used to think, "Well I'll just get him off" or "Crap I'll just stay for a while to get it over with" or "Eh I guess I'll do this" don't apply anymore. If a guy doesn't look like his picture, we don't have chemistry, or he has split personality I'm gone. I have other things I can be doing with my time and I have others I can play with.

..The most important thing for an escort though is friends. I have people who know I do what I do. They support me, I can let them know where I am and know that someone knows and I can come to them for advice and some even have let me host at their place or stay with them before or after. And they understand I'm busy but I still try to make time for them. I don't think this is something I'll do forever but right now I need a boost in just about everything so I can make my own path in life. I am actually going to improve myself physically and mentally a lot more beginning of January and boost my sex appeal, charisma, looks, and attitude.

I will say though this hesitation that some guys have about escorting. I do have about porn. Because I get stage anxiety. I don't think I could have a director tell me to get my dick hard instantly, or cum at this time, and things like that. My dick gets hard by excitement and horniness not command..well that's not entirely true

But I've been called a slut, whore, bitch, tramp, cunt, faggot, cocksucker, pig, and etc. when having sex sometimes. I guess the difference is that all of those probably actually apply to me. But I accept those insults and slurs (they turn me on) also because there is a hell of a lot more to me then just escorting, hooking up, and etc.

But yeah I don't have a problem with generous guys. Unless It's just something about them I really really don't like then I wouldn't do it. All depends on where you cast your net too. I don't use places like craigslists/backpage. That's where the stupid flake retard coke man came from. And every decent client I've had hasn't been from those two.

[arsebangingballs]

Thanks for sharing your insights fuckboy.

[pigskintop]

I've escorted many times over the years and there is nothing wrong with it.

Congrats. Let's just have a good time.

[barefckrsc]

God I could use the money! Probably could'nt make a dime now if i tried

[fuckboy20]

God I could use the money! Probably could'nt make a dime now if i tried

Not true Sir. First off versatile top is a good thing. Second you a bearish. Not everyone wants a hung twink or a muscle god. Everyone has different tastes. I've known a guy who was a bit bearish but was a top bb escort. Also I don't know if it's true or not but I've heard that some men pay to get pozzed. So if you are poz then you could even use that to your advantage.

So give it a shot. Lots of places give out free trials if you pick up a gay publication and they have codes to get a month free trial. Especially if you could use the money. That is sort of why I did it. Diddn't just do it for shits and giggles

[Pig Bottom]

If you know who you are you can't sell your dignity but you sure can rent it out for a while. If you don't need or want the money don't do it. I did massage/escort when I was younger. Basically most of us are all hookers. We go someplace where we don't want to go for 8 hours and do things we don't want to do. Aint no shame in my game. If I was offered money now to have sex I would jump at the chance and I would top. Why work a job to earn in two days what you can make in an hour?

I had always fantasized about being paid. Before the internet I even tried to hook up in Manhattan with older guys with money. They must have not liked me or I didn't know how to get money from them so it was a meeting without sex.

The first time I was in a gay porn theater in Manhattan in a bathroom stall. An older heavy guy slid a $50 bill into the door and that was when I found him attractive.

Edited December 4, 2012 by Pig Bottom

[KYcumdump68]

I've escorted many times over the years and there is nothing wrong with it.

Congrats. Let's just have a good time.

same here, still do mostly long time regulars

[CreamDream]

I ignore them. I cannot imagine someone offering cash is going to be a good lay.

[CalMark]

I ignore them. I cannot imagine someone offering cash is going to be a good lay.

And I can't imagine being so narrow-minded about it.

I was a total slut when I was in my 20s, and I loved nearly every minute of it. I made a living sucking dicks and getting fucked. There was nothing else I would have wanted to do for money. Yes, some of the guys were unattractive, but looks never mattered a lot to me. I was much more interested in getting guys off and being submissive to them. If they were fat or ugly, I didn't care! The most important thing was that they could get hard. If they got off - and 99% of them did - then I felt like I had done a good job.

[TheBreeder]

I ignore them. I cannot imagine someone offering cash is going to be a good lay.

You'd be incorrect. A lot of them are excellent lays, and a lot of them are very hot men.

Guys offer cash for sex for a number of reasons, and not all of them involve desperation, unattractiveness, or an inability to attract men through other means. Some men imagine that the money gives them power over the one taking it. Others get an illicit thrill out of paying for sex that enhances the experience for them in a way that freely-given sex doesn't. Still others do it because they feel their time is valuable, and the cash is worth shelling out to get exactly what they want without having to spend a lot of time hunting for it.

I'm constantly surprised when I'm offered money for sex at my advanced age. What doesn't surprise me is how truly desirable are most of the guys who want to pay for it. To assume they're all slobby trolls is simply incorrect.

Any shame or loss of dignity one feels about accepting cash in exchange for sex is sheerly in one's own head. It's just a transaction. Treating someone cruelly or with disrespect, now—that lowers one's dignity.

[toxiclover]

Great reply, TheBreeder.

[xxww]

lol if anyone whats to give me money for sex im all for it i wouldnt cry if someone wants to fill my hole and pockets thats just me

[publiccumdump]

would definitely take the money. why not? u didn't ask he offered its rude not to accept! 

 

side note if your pro-prostitution there's a petition to legalize it.

https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/legalize-prostitution/1RyTlrRV

[Pig Bottom]

If you find a generous guy send him my way.