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[mike258]

I've got a question and maybe you guys can help. This is not something I'd feel comfortable talking to anyone I know about, so I figure an anonymous board is the way to go.

I recently got out of the military and a three-year relationship with my girlfriend. Yes, I'm straight, or at least I am for the most part. I've had a fantasy about hooking up with a guy for a long time. I don't know why, because I'm totally not interested in a relationship with a man, but I've been curious about it for awhile. I would've loved to have had a 3-way with my girlfriend and another guy and seen them both go down on me at the same time, but that unfortunately didn't happen.

What did happen over the weekend was that I hooked up with a guy I met on CL. That was my first time ever hooking up with a guy, but it was all at once incredibly satisfying and terrifying. He was staying at a hotel, so he gave me his room number. I told him before we met that I would wear a condom and that he would swallow my load after I was done and that I wanted to be rough and for him to be totally submissive. He said he was okay with that, that his door would be cracked and he'd be on his knees, ass up in the air. When I got there, I made him get on his knees, put his hands behind his back, and I jammed by cock down his throat. Then I made him get up on the bed with his ass up in the air while I put on a condom. He asked me was it my first time with a man and I told him to shut the fuck up, that I didn't tell him he could fucking talk. He just said "yes, sir" and waited until I put my condom on. I spit in his hole and then jammed my cock in and it felt incredible. I only lasted like three minutes before I came in my condom, which I took off and emptied into his mouth. I told him to get up and lay on his back and spread his hole open. He did and I stuck two fingers in and he said "my pussy's still hungry, man", so I stuck my raw cock back in his hole and fucked him till I came inside of him. It felt so much better raw and when I came inside of him, it felt like I had a full-body orgasm.

Ever since, I've been obsessed with it. I haven't done it again, but I can't stop thinking about it. I masturbate 2-3 times a day to it. I figure since this board is full of mostly gay men who like BB sex, have you guys (specifically bottoms) encountered other straight guys like this? I know it's not exactly normal, but I wonder is it more common than a lot of people think.

[barehole4use]

Most of the bi guys that fuck me always fuck me bare given the chance, They know that pussy feels better without a rubber on & the same applies to a hot ass that is craving a real mans load.

[Pig Bottom]

Seems you are bi. Some guys just like guys for sex and don't see themselves in a loving relationship with another guy for whatever reason. Straight men don't want to have sex with men any more than gay men want to have sex with women. I'm thinking at least half of all men would do something with another guy if the situation was right.

[NastyRigPig]

Whatca lot of men (straigh as well) appreciate about having sex with other men is how totally uninhibited you can be.

[FatFuckPigMA]

You always remember losing your virginity, which ou did in a way. The fact that you at jerking off to the memory means you did it right.

[simocat]

Why bother giving it a label - just enjoy it. I like it when a guy owns me by shooting his seed in my ass, but it doesn't mean I love him.

[Jimmy1212]

Whatca lot of men (straigh as well) appreciate about having sex with other men is how totally uninhibited you can be.

Yup, if I feel like trying something different with a dude, i just do it. No need to beat around the bush or ease them into it like there is with most females. Also the ease of hooking up can't be beat. As a married guy who doesn't get enough at home, it's dead simple to find a willing dude to take my load when I need to get off. No strings, no clingyness. Hell, most of the time no names. When I was younger I knew a few chicks like that, but they seem few and far between these days. The last time I was getting it on with a woman on the side, she got too into it and started demanding that I leave my wife. That shit never happens with dudes.

[vesrhungatl]

Like simocat said, don't worry about labels do what you want and enjoy. Took me a while of fucking with dudes until I realized I was actually gay (not saying you are actually gay)

[guy2x]

there's nothing wrong with wanting to fuck a guy. it just gives you more options.

[TigerMilner]

This is not that uncommon. Especially on CL. I get straight and married men alot. LOVE it.

[bjbottom]

It sounds like you enjoyed yourself, and want to do it again. I suggest you stop trying to label it, stop wondering it is normal, and just ask yourself if you enjoyed it and want to do it again. If you did, go for it! Meanwhile, continue to jerk off to the memory until you decide if it is something you enjoy, want, and are comfortable with!!!!!!

[Inception]

I figure since this board is full of mostly gay men who like BB sex, have you guys (specifically bottoms) encountered other straight guys like this? I know it's not exactly normal, but I wonder is it more common than a lot of people think.

Yes, it is very common. There are plenty of straight guys who like the ease of getting laid with gay bottoms. For some it is like straight guys who pay whores to do things their wives won't do like anal or blowjobs. But, gay bottoms are cheaper than prostitutes - and perhaps more enthusiaistic, so some otherwise straight guys will do guys. Some straight guys will only do trannys or cross dressers. Most straight guys who do walk on the wild side would never tell anyone.

There are many many gay bottoms who are only interested in guys like you, who are generally known as "rough trade." Most gay bottoms will promise you that they will be discrete - which means that when we see you at the mall or grocery store with your wife and kids we aren't going to sashay up and say hello. Most know to play it cool, so don't freak out because your acting weird will put up more signals to you family that something is strange than anything your bottom would ever do. We just want to keep your cock happy. But, you maybe should not interpret "discrete" as meaning that they won't brag about you to other fags.

[mike258]

Yup, if I feel like trying something different with a dude, i just do it. No need to beat around the bush or ease them into it like there is with most females. Also the ease of hooking up can't be beat. As a married guy who doesn't get enough at home, it's dead simple to find a willing dude to take my load when I need to get off. No strings, no clingyness. Hell, most of the time no names. When I was younger I knew a few chicks like that, but they seem few and far between these days. The last time I was getting it on with a woman on the side, she got too into it and started demanding that I leave my wife. That shit never happens with dudes.

So wait, you're married and you regularly hook up with guys? Wow. Not judging or anything, but have you ever asked a similar question about yourself? Do you consider yourself straight or bi? I'm curious.

Thank you for your responses. I still think about my encounter on a daily basis. Can't wait to try it again.

[Jimmy1212]

So wait, you're married and you regularly hook up with guys? Wow. Not judging or anything, but ha Do you consider yourself straight or bi? I'm curious.

Because I've been doing it since I was a teenager, I don't worry too much about labels. But judging by the number of dudes I've fucked, most people would say I was bi. Even so, I'm not really attracted to men ... more to the quick and dirty sex they're willing to provide. I'm 100% top--no desire to do anything but dump a load in a mouth or ass--and I'm completely female-oriented when it comes to romance or relationships. Sex with the wife is always good, but there's just not enough of it.

If you hang out in places where guys go to hook up with trade like me, you'll realize there's a lot more of us out there than most people imagine.

[bizaruk]

Wasn't it Woody Allen who said "the best thing about being bisexual is it doubles your chances of a date on Saturday night" ?