Age

[HungLatinDom]

My bf is 63 now, and he stills fucks and gets fucked by at least 4 guys every week. Most are fuckbuddies, but many are new guys. Of course, he keeps in good shape, but he still gets to fuck very young guys.

[UKpwrbottom]

I tend to get loads fairly easy being 23. Not sure what its like for older guys.

[bearbandit]

I was recently disappointed to have to cancel a weekend with a guy of 67 because I found out my FB had set up a "surprise" play party for my 56th...

[Ingulphus]

I used to feel marginalized for being poz, even in my hot-bear 30s. Turning 50 I thought I had a double strike against me. Then I discovered that guys want me as a daddy. Totally opened my eyes and I love exploring that new side of me and the guys it attracts. And obviously now there's a culture out there that no longer fears but understands, even covets, being poz. I'm more turned on now by mature guys who can deal with the real world and real men, and it makes for a deeper connection I think, even for a quick fuck. I don't pursue younger 20- or 30-somethings and don't bother with them on online sites,but if they want a daddy and a poz one at that -- and they're out there, believe me -- they got one here. Oh, and a dad type can be a hot bottom as well as top.

Amen to that, brother! I'm having more sex in my middle 50s than I had as a young man; there are plenty of men in the S.F. Bay Area who love daddies, especially one who smokes a pipe or a cigar. With the help of Chinese knock-off Viagra or trimix, I've been able to be truly versatile, and being poz allows me to fuck the way I was brought up to, either as a pitcher or catcher. Having a couple of collared boys is nice, too.

[vrsbbltn]

Life is not over at 60, but it's definitely much harder to find guys to fuck or get fucked by. I agree ageism is a gay thing, at least in developed countries it is, where a number determines if a guy wants to have sex with another one, not his looks, nor his sexual skills.

I think that we have made such stupidity grow bigger and bigger, why? because everyone wants to only fuck and get fucked by barely legal guys, 18-21 yo ones. A 43 yo man is not interested in a 41 yo one, he wants to play daddy-son. A 62 yo man doesn't want to have sex with a 58 yo one, he wants to play grandpa-grandson. So, those in their 40s, 50s, 60s+ depend on younger guys with such fantasies/fetishes in order to get laid. If they were cool having sex with contemporary ones, they'd have sex every single time they want to, not having to wait weeks for that boi who is interested in his daddy/grandpa.

I feel life is about stages, when we are wayyy older than 18-low 20s, why insisting in hunting for them? I know they are hotter, more energy, etc. but what, we are no longer the same as them, life in our 40s and 50s+ is more about experiences, intensity, passion, the time of looks, attitudes, "look at me, I'm the hottest one around" is over. Nevertheless, if a young man and an old one are cool with a relationship, why not, go ahead, be happy. But, I feel most older guys take advantage of youngsters confusion, as I guess most 18 yo guys don't feel comfortable having sex, and going out with a 48+ yo man.

When I was younger I preferred guys in their late 20s to lows 30s. now I prefer them on my same age range and I am sure that it will be like that once I turn 40, 50, etc., if I get there. So, I wont be one of those bitter 40 yo+ men writing about how stupid, bitch, ignorant, etc. gays are just because I can't find a 18 yo one to fuck with.