Seems impossible to get loaded...

[wanttobeseeded]

Hey, guys. I might be alone in this, but does anyone else have a really hard time getting bred or even having sex at all? Since starting to fuck bare two months ago, I've received only three loads. The few guys I talk to online seem to just be flakes and don't meet up, or they see that I'm hung and only want to be fucked. And a few times I have met with guys for bare sex and they have used condoms or can't cum inside from fucking. Is it bad to want loads as much as I want the sex? Is anyone else in a similar position?

[KinkySideofMe]

Recognising we all have our preferences, I think some stick to them a little bit too much. I mean, does it really matter if they are perfect if it is just a hook-up? For the tops, an ass is an ass while for bottoms, a cock is a cock. I would like to think that if you are barebacking, there wouldn't be so many hang-ups. But unfortunately, even if you are going to be just a piece of meat for someone to get off in, they feel they need to find perfection to have a good time. I would be lying if I didn't have some limitations and preferences, but I try to keep an open mind. Beside, it is their loss. Hope things get better and you have loads of fun this year.

[not_sure_bb]

as a piece of meat tops get off in, I have no problem finding guys to fuck me. (almost daily)

[slowfuck]

No, you're not alone. Best places to get bred are bath-house darkrooms over here in the UK, or at BBRT parties if they're not all tweaking...! The downside of the bath-house is that they may fuck you bare but keep the load for 'later'.

My take on what's happening with the hook-up sites is that the chocolate-box nature of online cruising gives people to ability to pick their favorite fantasy sex buddy to explore the idea of raw sex and squirting their hot loads inside hot asses with, but it's largely that - fantasy play, never quite important enough or safe enough to actually follow through. When they do meet some seem to cover up or pull out to avoid the risk of someone having post-breeding regrets and throwing a tantrum or worse. One guy told me - I want you to cum inside me even though I tell you not to. Hmmmm, thanks for the reassurance, bud!

The online sites also seem to reinforce the fear of rejection since its so easy to feel inferior with all this hot stud big cock worship - and indeed they could be avoiding you as they fear you'll reject them too - and online rejections don't usually get done gently so people are very wary.

Those who can't cum can be trying too hard to deliver the cum load that they tense up and never cum - more fear of disapproval at work. These porn and cruise sites have their down sides it seems.

But occasionally there comes along a good one who does it all right and makes it all worthwhile. I hope you meet plenty of those this year!

[kwhotboi]

It is all about location. I can get loads anytime I want because where I live is a vacation destination for hrony tops.

[not_sure_bb]

OP, I just came across for CL ad tonight. I see nothing wrong with the ad, no reason why you wouldnt find a few guys to bang your ass.especially in your town. BTW, Club columbus is always an easy place to get fucked

[AgentColby]

Hey, guys. I might be alone in this, but does anyone else have a really hard time getting bred or even having sex at all? Since starting to fuck bare two months ago, I've received only three loads. The few guys I talk to online seem to just be flakes and don't meet up, or they see that I'm hung and only want to be fucked. And a few times I have met with guys for bare sex and they have used condoms or can't cum inside from fucking. Is it bad to want loads as much as I want the sex? Is anyone else in a similar position?

There are a lot of variables in answering that Q.

I can speak for myself in saying that in some places, I have difficulties getting sex. For ex: I am young black male and that can work against me in some places.

When I lived in DC, I couldn't get my ass fucked b/c DC is a pretty racist place. A lot of white guys in that area stick to their own kind and if they are open to other races, those guys are mostly bttm. That is a dilemma for me b/c I am mostly bttm. If I top, then I have no issue.

I live in NYC now and I do not have any problems getting guys. Only thing that makes it difficult is that a lot of guys online are flakes. This is why I do not spend too much time online looking.

I also find location can play a role in your ability to BB. When I travel to Ft. Lauderdale, I have absolutely no probems whatsoever finding guys who BB and very little issues finding white tops, black tops. Flip side, a few months ago, I went to PA for a couple days (not philly) and despite going online, could not find any guy who wanted to BB.

So the answer to your question is, it all depends.

[vrsbbltn]

Also, keep in mind that there are very few total tops. A few hours earlier I went to a park, I spent about an hour cleaning out my ass, and guess what, I only got my dick sucked by a guy, and got to fuck another one, sadly, he asked for a condom. That guy I fucked was totally masculine, fit, tall, a 7 inches long dick and thick, very handsome, so I said to myself "what a great night, this guy is gonna fuck the hell out of me", then he suddenly asked for the condom, I had one in my pocket, gave it to him, and he said, take it, fuck me! I was like WTF. Anyway, as he was extremely hot, I enjoyed it a lot regardless I went out home looking to get fucked.

Anyway, I feel that the easiest place to get bred is at cruising sites, but they are dangerous in many ways. At those places, many times guys make quick stops. There are many closeted ones, married ones, bisex, and gays altogether looking to breed or get bred and keep going to their homes, jobs, or whatever. No time for chit-chat, posing, bitchy attitude like at bathhouses, which I think are the worst to have sex, by far!

[NiceHard1]

I have always known Columbus to be a pretty gay friendly scene, though I can see that it might be a little conservative.

Keep putting yourself out there...be confident..say what you're looking for without sounding desperate for it, and good things will cum.

Post quick connect ads on BBRT so people will see you there and be available.

you'll do fine1

[Pig Bottom]

I think gay guys in general get so much sex that it makes it hard for them to cum from sex, both fucking and especially blowjobs. Some guys like to save it for the guy who they think will be their husband who they just met. I find in dark rooms that less guys are even cumming from fucking and they are fucking less. The only thing that might make the top cum is if he sikes himself out to breed an ass.