If you can't clean your ass out leave your nasty ass home.

[Fickloch]

Oh, please. You're fucking an ass. Yeah, I don't want it packed with shit or spewing diarrhea, but if you fuck ass, sometimes your dick is gonna get shit on it, and if you get fucked, it's sometimes going to surprise you by not being 100% clean. tI can't stand all the drama over a little harmless shit. Totally ridiculous.

Maybe, but don't be surprised when a top stops fucking you and moves on to a bottom who knows how to clean his hole.

[hungry_hole]

I can't stand all the drama over a little harmless shit. Totally ridiculous.

In theory, what you're saying makes a lot of sense. But for me shit anywhere is a complete turn-off, my own shit and definitely someone else's shit. And I would say that most men are turned-off by shit.

I've had long-term fuck buddies who have been coming over to fuck me for years (10+) and I attribute that to the fact that I worry about being clean, no unpleasant surprises.

[Hornyone]

I always clean out my ass before heading to the sauna or anytime I plan on getting fucked. I bought an enema kit about 4 months ago and I give myself three good rinses before heading out for the evening, have not had a complaint yet and I enjoy ass to mouth so I want my ass clean!!

It's hard work being a good bottom, but a nice big juicy cock is well worth it !!

[pigpozdad]

@spike: I agree -- it's an ass, and if the bttm is spun and at a BB party, taking a lotta loads, then something may loosen up. And yeah, I've shit-fisted dudes before and it was fine (both were packed and not runny). Just get over it. Not everyone stinks

[verycurious]

After discussing this with both gay and straight friends, I've found that straight people love it dirty; girls don't douche and many times they don't plan on getting ass-fucked but then it happens. And the guys seem to -really- get a kick out of literally fucking the shit out of the girls. One friend get mad horny when he takes it out with shit and then the girl proceeds to suck him off then fuck again, etc.

The consensus among gay guys is very different. I, as a total top get turned off by the sight and smell of shit. But I have been most of the time lucky and I only hook up with power bottoms as they're obviously so pro about they role. I am too.

But then the unexpected hookup at the metro might be really hot even if it's messy but we both know we didn't plan it.

I would have to ask men who fuck men but are not gay but those are rare. As I understand it, they don't plan either.

I haven't started to actively fuck raw, and that is why I'm here, I'd like to know more. Having used condoms most of the time (unless I'm exclusive with someone) if a little dirt is on the condom when you pull out, you just take it off and put a clean one. Easy.

Who is turned on by the mud here?

[slutalex]

@verycurious interesting info here... personally as a bottom i always clean out... sometimes i spend up to 2 hours getting ready. i did have several "unexpected" encounters when i was not prepared. somehow it didnt stop the top from fucking me or turned him off. he would still finish and fill me up... recently i've been more and more being a top... fucked one guy once his hole was not cleaned out and i could see some shit on my cock after i pulled out. that didnt turn me off at all... i sort of actually liked the idea of a "natural fuck". however i dont think it works with just about anyone... its all about chemystry.. if you are really into the guy you're fucking with then i think its a minor thing, but if not (just a fuck) then you can be picky... thats how i see it. but personally it even turns me on a little knowing that the guy is not cleaned out and has a smelly butt... theres something wrong about it yet so natural and kinky that it can be fun. i guess i am becoming a pig

[PhoenixGeoff]

If you're planning ahead (heading out to the bath or a sex party or whatever), then yeah, I agree with you.

If you're going to be getting into a FF or scene with multiple tops (which is almost certainly planned out in advance), then yeah, I agree with you.

On the other hand, sometimes opportunities for sex pop up now and then. Maybe you get that stray invite for a quickie while browsing BBRT. Maybe you're at the bar without any intention of hooking up and somehow end up in the men's room or alley. Maybe you plan on topping but quite by chance discover the guy you're with is more versatile than you expected.

You can usually feel if you need to take a shit or not. If you don't and you feel reasonably confident, I'd say go for it. Once in a while, I've hooked up with a bottom for a quick, random hookup and ended up with a little bit of shit on my dick.

You know what? Shit happens. Wipe yourself clean and shower when you get home.

You're sticking your cock into a guy's asshole. It's not reasonable to expect, especially if you're into random hookups, that everything's always going to turn out like it does in the pornos.

And please, for the love of Dog, don't be one of those prissy queens who throws a shit-fit if things don't come out pristine. Sometimes, despite his best efforts, a bottom isn't always as ready as he thinks he is. I guarantee he's already embarrassed enough without you adding to it.