Bottoms who don't get hard

[bnabottom]

A good example of this concept in action--new (non BB) movie Rio Blatinos from Alexander Pictures. In two of the scenes the bottoms wear a jockstrap and we ever never even see their dicks...the are totally irrelevant to what's going on

[Deaner]

I think that's hot as hell... LOVE porn (though it's rare lately) where the bottom's dick is just totally ignored. My favorites are the hardcore scenes where the bottom's dick is visibly soft, and just swings and dangles as he's getting pounded. It's almost mesmerizing to see it spin around, flaccid and ignored as he's getting pounded good!!! A close second is jockstrap scenes like you mentioned, where we never even see the sub's dick (though, I must admit, it can be an instant boner-killer when the scene gets JUST to its hottest point, and then the jockstrap gets pulled to the side and the camera starts focusing on that instead of the fuck)

I kinda think it's interesting that this is a 'new' topic. I was going through some classic pre-condom porn a while back, and was surprised to discover that a majority of it is VERY top-centric. The subs are just there to enjoy the top's cock, and the scene fades out before the bottom's dick is ever acknowledged. Makes me wonder what happened during the 80s and the condom revolution that made porn producers start to care SO much about whether the bottom gets hard or gets off...

[NCPOZTOP]

I don't care if a bottom gets hard or not, but it can get distracting if they are furiously jerking off while I'm trying to fuck them.

[submissivefaggot]

Which begs the question as to whether bottoms should be allowed to wank whilst being fucked?

[Deaner]

Absolutely not! It's distracting, irritating and completely disrespectful. Needless to say, there is *NO* excuse for bottoms who get themselves off before the top does, and then whine because they've 'lost interest'. I prefer guys who stay flaccid, don't terribly mind the ones who get hard... but when they start jerking off while getting fucked or sucking cock... they may as well get dressed and go home!! Nothing good ever comes out of that situation.

If a sub NEEDS something to do with his hands, use them for something productive. Hold back your legs, plays with the top's nips, spread your cheeks wide open... but do not jerk your dick off unless he tells you to!!

[Guest]

i usually don't get hard .. i don't always cum either .. i'm concentrating on the guy who is fucking me .. and besides, i figure the blood isn't rushing to my dick, cuz it's rushing to my ass/hole and it's feelin fuckin good!

[Bear4Breeding]

As a guy who has toppd and bottomed. Getting hard and/or staying hard as a bottom isn't a big issue for me. I usually don't cum anyway so if Im hard or not doesn't matter. I have been hard getting fucked and its usually because the top has seriously turned me on somehow or I am really into him.

As a top, if the bottom stays hard while fucking him it is a definit sign he's enjoying it but if he isn't hard you can still tell if he's enjoying.

My biggest issue is actually shooting a load. I have always been this way but I never cum with anyone new. It takes me a long time to shoot, I can shoot in minutes jerking off. Go figure. I still enjoy the fuck though either top or bottom.

[BC_Bottom]

As a bottom, I always get hard. Nothing makes me harder than a hung top raw fucking my hole.

If I happen to cum first, the top is encouraged to keep right on fucking my hole.

The fuck isn't over until I get that load.

[hungry_hole]

I'm also usually hard when I'm getting plowed, but I very rarely cum. And just like BC_Bottom, the fuck isn't over until I get my hole creamed. Actually, if a guy fucks me but doesn't cum I still enjoy it but I don't tally it.

[Pig Bottom]

When I am getting fucked I don't care about cumming. I have trouble cumming with another guy anyway. I mostly fuck in dark rooms so I am bent over and not hard. Sometimes a guy will fuck me so good that I will get hard. Recently there was a guy sitting on the floor in a dark room and he started eating my ass he liked it so much he stuck his finger inside and licked it, (it was clean and probably cummy from a guy who shot his load in me earlier) . He got me so hard that I stuck my dick in his mouth. Sometimes a guy fucks me so good that I get hard and need to fuck other guys too. If I am in a one on one situation at home or at a bath house I will get hard.

[sdbarehunter]

I typically don't stay hard when I'm getting fucked unless I'm actively stroking myself. I've heard it's natural to stay soft when your butt muscles are being actively worked. It doesn't prevent me at all from enjoying the session or from my cock from leaking tons of pre cum.

[Pig Bottom]

I typically don't stay hard when I'm getting fucked unless I'm actively stroking myself. I've heard it's natural to stay soft when your butt muscles are being actively worked. It doesn't prevent me at all from enjoying the session or from my cock from leaking tons of pre cum.

Me too. I wear a jock sock when I go out to get fucked and I leak loads of precum.

[kinkydawg]

i don't care about my dick when I'm getting fucked. The top usually fucks a load out of my half hard cock anyway

[Bear4Breeding]

i don't care about my dick when I'm getting fucked. The top usually fucks a load out of my half hard cock anyway

I wish a top would fuck a load out of me. That has Never happend to me.

[Bottom4allTops]

I'm a Bottom and the past few years I only get semi-hard or not at all. And when I JO with a semi-hard cock, I have the feeling of cumming but I don't cum anymore, just a small amount of precum sometimes. When all this started I felt it was due to my blood pressure meds, or because my prostate had enlarged and I was taking meds to shrink my prostate, or maybe both. I've got a doctor's appointment the first week in December, so I'm planning to ask questions about ED and not being able to ejackulate and see what he says.

Anyway, I get my enjoyment sexually pleasing my partners, and by doing so the oral sex I give and the anal sex I receive is that much more enjoyable and feels that much better to me. And I love having sex and as often as I can.