Is the experience of taking a monster cock worth the pain?

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

Gotta try them all once. The fun ones twice.

Seriously though, not trying and always wondering will haunt you. I think back to some offers in my life I turned down before seeing the light and wish I could go back.

[Hungryforbbc]

On 7/19/2014 at 4:03 PM, travelingbutthole said:

Holy shit yes.

The intensity of that first pop followed by the surge as it all slithers in is amazing.

Personally I find bigger cocks easier as you can actually get some motion going instead of just a head poking about just inside.

For what its worth here is my list of suggestions.

1. Clean out a lot, wait a few hours then do it again.

2. Wear a plug for at least two hours before the session, a medium one at most so you retain tightness but also allow access.

3. A lot of lube and get it deep. In fact if you think you have put on enough you are wrong so use some more.

4. relax and go with you flow as the only thing that will stop this from working is tension on your part.

Good luck

Total co-sign. This is the wisdom of an expert.

[HunterCox]

FUCK YEA, AS LONG AS I HAVE TIME TO GET STRECHED OPEN AND DEEPLY DOUCHED OUT, I LEARNED LOOSE IS BEST

[Hungryforbbc]

The deeper the stroke, the more pleasure you can experience. The fatter ones and those with wicked curves can be even more likely to give you an indescribable feeling of fullness - you know that’s “hole” that exists in all of us or at least seems to? The one everyone tries to fill with things and money and drugs? Monster dick - delivered by a talented, experienced top who understands the dynamics and physicalities involved- is the best drug to treat it.
 

You will feel full and free and open and the nerve endings will be sending pleasure signals in waves that roll through your entire body but it all depends on your preparation, your enthusiasm about doing it, your ability to relax, and following the steps so perfectly outlined above. Remember to push OUT. Knowing that you’re totally clean should give you the confidence that makes it easier to do that and once you get a taste you’re gonna be hooked.

Pre lube with Vaseline and use lots of silicon or water based lube before and during the session. Then LEAN INTO any discomfort or anxiety you have about it- it will actually make the experience even hotter.

Edited February 22 by Hungryforbbc

[Pozguyinchi]

On 4/27/2019 at 7:36 AM, Pozguyinchi said:

Yes of course. The best part is feeling all stretched out and used after.

Both of my long term relationships were with 9 and 10” men.  They used to tell me that there are a lot of bottoms or want to be bottoms that would get to the point of no return and back out. They were afraid to take them. They said I was different because I loved taking them. It is uncomfortable at first but well worth it when you feel them cum in you. Knowing you got them off with your sex organ. 

[Hungryforbbc]

16 minutes ago, Pozguyinchi said:

Both of my long term relationships were with 9 and 10” men.  They used to tell me that there are a lot of bottoms or want to be bottoms that would get to the point of no return and back out. They were afraid to take them. They said I was different because I loved taking them. It is uncomfortable at first but well worth it when you feel them cum in you. Knowing you got them off with your sex organ. 

Exactly. The excitement anxiety and fear add to the experience but there’s so many bottoms who bail or tap out that if you don’t, you will be receiving regular dick deliveries! Tops with huge pipes have problems finding bottoms who can actually satisfy them and take all that dick like a true whore - if you can, you will have many options even if you’re not the cutest or youngest option available. Nobody wants to be left hanging and boned up with blue balls lol the sure thing is always the popular choice.

[hexfet]

As a top with a decidedly untalented hole, and very shallow deep ring - still always had a weakness for thick cocks.  And sometimes that girth comes with length too... lol.   There is *always* struggle for sure, and tops seem to love that look on my face - but with that struggle comes pleasure and a moment that is absolutely glorious.  The beauty of the top enjoying rearranging my insides, the feeling of his manhood working deep, the look on his face as he finally mounts balls deep[ya takes a bit but so worth it] ... swoon...

I wished I was more talented in the bottom department - mostly a rare treat - but absolutely delightful.

...and makes me wanna top even more after 🙂

 

[RandyCubby]

Nothing's worth pain, in my opinion. It's fun or it's not. If it's not, don't do it. That said, big dicks feel good. Get cleaned out so you can relax and slowly sit down on it. (As I do so, I like to think about how some guy once told me that sitting on it was the sluttiest looking position.) If it doesn't feel good, don't do it. I'd ride it like a pogo stick, but I'm an old slut. 

[hairyone]

There is responsibility of both the bottom AND top to be educated, trained, and ready for anal sex with large penises. That includes physically AND mentally.

I have the privilege of having a friend and fuck-buddy with a true 12"x8" cock. And he knows how to use his cock properly. He shared a story with me that when he had begun topping, the bottoms had trouble taking him. He finally had a older, wise bottom who explained that he, as the top, needs to understand the workings of the bottom. That bottom told him to read the book "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Dr. Morin. Once he understood the physiology, he was able to adjust his technique and work WITH bottoms. Even though I hadn't read it, yet, he talked me through what to do. He was able to tell with his cock when he was at certain points in my anatomy and would pause or pull back or change angle and tell me how to relax and what was going on. 

I, too, read the book and finally understood my own anatomy. As bottoms we are lucky that we can practice with dildos and I learned the depth of my "second hole" and how the sensations are surprisingly different beyond that. At first, my body would react that it is pain, but as I learned that no damage was being done (when it is done correctly), I was able to even relax further and enjoy that different sensation. I know that at a certain point, a specific angle is best to get past that. I'm still working with my body to adjust to the "other" angle. I'm not going to call it the "wrong" angle because I just need to teach myself how to relax and stretch that particular angle. Those are involuntary muscles that we can learn to voluntarily control with practice and training. It's not like relaxing your skeletal muscles but learning how to relax your internal muscles. It took a lot of time and patience for me to learn that. Many tops may not have the patience in the heat of the moment, so practicing on your own with a dildo is a great option. For me, the only way to learn how to relax those muscles is to "touch" that muscle with a dildo; gently at first so my brain can figure out how to relax it.

Mentally, you have to be able to trust the top AND yourself. And when that moment past the "second hole" when the sensations change, not to panic but to continue to relax and trust yourself and the top. 

BTW, my friend has moved across country. We keep in touch but I do miss him. When I know he may be visiting, I step up my training and bring out the bigger dildos! 

[It's also helped me be a better top, too. Even though I'm bigger than average, I'm not a monster cock. But, I do come across bottoms with second holes that are not very deep, or a bottom that is not experienced. So, I know what they are experiencing and I can pace myself accordingly and talk them through it.]

Edited February 25 by hairyone

[YVRbugchaser]

12" x 8"?  #lifegoals  #readyanytime

[Alwaz4fun]

definitely once your loose it is soooo worth it

[jXsluT]

Fuck yes it is. Get over it and u would instantly be the most sought after slut 

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

On 7/17/2014 at 4:24 AM, luvblack77 said:

First of all, I love to be a bottom and have had the experience many times. However, the biggest cock I have ever taken is about 8 inches and have to say I felt a lot of pain taking it followed by amazing pleasure. However, I had a burning sensation for a couple of days after the experience. Average or smaller than average cock sizes feel good but are not memorable. I have always had the fantasy of taking a monster cock, 11 thick inches or more. I was once with a transsexual who had a 12 inch cock and had promised to top me, but at the end she turned out to be a non-functional bottom. Last week I saw on CL in a city a few hours away from my home an ad for a top with a 12 inch cock. I contacted him and he showed pictures proving he really is that big, very thick and also very good looking. We agreed I would travel to meet him in two weeks. He mentioned most people have trouble taking him and asked me if I would really be willing and ready, I not only gave him permission to use as much force as needed to make it happen, but we also agreed he would not to stop no matter what. My question to the forum is: Am I putting myself in danger of a terrible and painful experience? Can people who have tried monster cocks tell me if the pain will be such I should just stick with smaller cocks?

Just train your hole so it becomes more flexible and you will be save to take monster cock easy. You will be skipping the pain and start enjoying right away when the monster enters your hole. I started training my hole 20 years ago and got into fisting. I started getting more and more regulars because of my easy to enter fuckhole. After that something changed in me and became more of a throat slut. It is so much more practical to have your fuckhole on your face serving men at rest areas. 

Please stay safe and don't get split in half 😉 

[pozpopperpig]

Yes, most definitely it is.  No pain, no gain, as they say.  The key is relaxing and taking it slow with plenty of lube.  Once stretched and all the way in.  Then the hard pounding, fucking and breeding can commence.  Nothing like the feeling of a well fucked, stretched out and bred hole.

[jd13]

The biggest cock I ever took was 11 inches. A skinny-as-fuck Eastern European guy with basically a third leg. We were in a public area of Sweatbox in London, kissing and putting on a bit of a show, when he said he wanted to fuck me. "But" he said "it's big, no one can ever really take the whole of me" - or words to that effect. And I thought...

Challenge Accepted!

Especially in front of that audience. I'll be honest: it was hard work. We did it doggy style so I had a bit of control how deep he went. It took quite a few minutes to work my hole right down to the hilt - he was quite patient with me because he knew I would try my hardest to accomodate him fully - and when it did go right down until I could feel my ass against his  abs, it opened me right up and felt FUCKING GOOD. Until he started fucking me.

Now I had a few loads inside me to help lube the situation up, and he was fucking me bareback, so I knew if I could hold on, I'd get his load so deep inside me I'd be spitting it out. But fuck me, once he got into a rhythm it just fucking hurt. I bit down, determined. Held onto my cock and balls because even they were hurting as he started to work it.

Good thing was, all the appreciative noises he was making, like "wow, can't believe you've taken it all", "fuck yeah feels so good" and so on. That's all I was really in for now, to make him feel good and to make him cum. At one point he asked if I was hurting him, and I just grunted "That's my problem. Not yours. Don;t fucking stop." Because if he had stopped, I would have pulled him out of me and got out of there.

Luckily for me, he didn't take that long to cum. Maybe he really never had had many guys take his cock fully like this but whatever, the last 30 seconds of crescendo pounding were agonising. He shot his load so deep into me, and with such an animal howl, that a wave of relief hit me - my animal howls too.

Well, the truth is that I pretty much did it to say that I had done it... and yeah to be able to sit here and type this right now. I've taken 10.5 inches since then, with much the same result, but well... was it worth it?

For taking yet another stranger's load deeper into my ass than ever before? Yes

For the story and bragging rights? Fuck yes

For the sense that I bit down and got used hard? Fuck fuck yes

But the actual fuck itself, I gotta be honest: it was an endurance ride pretty much from start to finish, very little pleasure for me, and it pretty much wiped me out for the rest of the night. Once we were done, I found a private cabin, crashed and slept for an hour. Fairly sure I might have got a minor anal fissure from it too.

But am I happy I did it? Fuck yeah!

Do I still jack off about it six years later? Fuck fuck yeah

Would I do it again if I got the chance, even though I know it'd be fucking agony? FUCK FUCK FUCK YEAH!

Edited Friday at 11:10 AM by jd13