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I've had a few anal orgasms over the years but they've been more frequent over the past few years. During covid lockdown, I purchased a fuck machine and was able to learn how to take bigger dildos into my ass. Once I started becoming comfortable with having my second hole penetrated, I started having anal orgasms and it seemed it was caused by a spot about 9 - 10 inches deep, right past the second hole. They don't last minutes for me but I can get several over a short time period. It's not like a regular, ejaculatory orgasm (which is still better for me) but I still love the anal orgasms! I haven't gotten the same intensity from getting fucked by a man. But I think my body is starting to learn. Just the other day, I was using smaller dildos with my fuck machine (6.5" long and 7.5" long) and I started having anal orgasms pretty quickly! Part of it is because I'm learning what it feels like when I start getting that... "tickle" inside (not sure how to describe it). But then it builds until my eyes roll back in my head, and the muscles deep in my ass start spasming sending waves of pleasure through me. When I use the bigger dildos and start to have an anal orgasm, my muscle spasms push out the big dildo and it kinda distracts or shortens the orgasm. But, when I was using the shorter ones the other day (which didn't go past the second hole and they are a bit firmer), I didn't push it out and had some pretty intense orgasms without ejaculating. I don't get that "post ejaculation let down" after an anal orgasm. I can definitely have more. I usually don't have a hardon. That could be because I'm really focused on my ass or that I'm getting a bit older. I've always had a lot of precum but I get a LOT more with a session on my fuck machine. After playing for awhile (up to a few hours) on my fuck machine, I can still have a regular ejaculation orgasm. Other times I'm satisfied with just the anal orgasms.

It's a very smart way to launder money from churches to his personal coffers. There will be entire congregations that will buy it.

You're 28 in a sexless relationship!? 😦 Dude, you deserve better. Have a chat with her and tell her your needs. Figure it out before you are bitter and old. If you continue bb sex with men, you need prep. You don't want HIV. Yeah, it's treatable but there is no cure and life on treatment sucks. If you do get HIV, get on the meds and take care of yourself.

I love the Edge 2 by Lovense. [think before following links] https://www.lovense.com/adjustable-prostate-massager It has two very strong motors which massage inside as well as outside (along the taint). Some of the pre-programmed sessions are incredible.

I have a thick dick and sliding into a pre-lubed and pre-fucked hole is usually so much easier. It's an amazing, loose, warm, silky feel. But what really gets me going is when I can hear the bottoms guts sloshing around with the cum of many men while I'm fucking him. Then I know I'm with a talented and well-used cumdump. I understand that feeling and switch between feeling a bit jealous and a bit thankful to share a talented hole with other men knowing they have had their pleasure in him as I am about to.

The manufacturer has a co-pay assistance program that could cover most of that. Call them. [think before following links] https://hcp.epclusa.com/access-and-support#:~:text=The EPCLUSA Co-pay Coupon,co-pay for their medicine. Good luck, man.

Living in Washington, DC, and running in to sex workers occasionally, I have heard stories of escorts officially signing NDA's for some of their clients. They are paid handsomely for it. But it's the classic case of those who have much to lose, go to great lengths to ensure that discretion. Not real sure if those NDA's can be enforced but it could take a ton of money in legal fees to defend breaking an NDA. And any rentboy who blabs isn't going to stay in business long. And I'm sure those NDA's are written in a way that keeps any hint of prostitution out of it. (NDA = Non-Disclosure Agreement. Legal way to keep someone's mouth shut or they can face severe consequences, $$$$$.)

Sex is easy to get (particularly for a top). Discretion is not. Many customers are not necessarily paying for sex. They are paying for silence. Good rentboys keep every hole open for their client during their meeting and keep their mouth shut after the appointment.

Sex without intimacy is one of the most basic biological and physiological needs of humans. And those most basic needs have to be met before we desire intimacy. Sexual intimacy is part of a love and belongingness need of humans. And these needs can only be addressed after the biological needs are met and even after the needs for safety is met. Check out "Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs" where he discusses the levels of human needs for fulfillment. [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs There are different levels of intimacy (think of levels of intimacy from "acquaintance" through "long-term spouse"). You could consider learning someone's name as low-level part of intimacy. Of course, when great sex and great intimacy combine into one experience, THAT's powerful!

Is there a video of someone putting this on? Honestly, I'm just not seeing how it all goes together. 😕

I love fucking and breeding in many positions. But my favorite is with the bottom on his stomach, flat on the bed, legs slightly apart so I can mount him with my legs on the outside of his thighs. In this position, I can get in deep and grind around in all directions depending how high or low I'm entering his pussy. Moving up a little, my dick pushes down harder onto his prostate and love his response when I punch it just right with my cock. I can also get up on my knees and enjoy the view of his back (especially if hairy and/or tattooed! WOOF!) and his submissive position. Or I can lay fully on his back to hold him down (again, if his back is hairy, my hairy chest rubbing his hairy back drives me wild!); lick or chew his ears and neck (even easily grab his hair if I want). I can grab his hips and hold him on my dick the way I want. I really enjoy finally grabbing his shoulders (under or over) and pull him onto my cock as I unleash my load into him. There's a combination of closeness and submission that gets me off. There is also an option for him to easily suck off another guy sitting on the bed at his head and THAT gives me an awesome view. Hell, I can even help! LOL Damn. I'm hard again!

I had my nipples pierced and loved them. It took way less than a year to heal (just don't play with it until it does!! LOL). However, as time went on, I had a few periods of high stress in my life. I noticed during those times, the piercing migrated a bit. It looked like my body was trying to push them out. So, I took them out when it got noticeable to let them heal and get them re-pierced. It was a little tougher to pierce them because of the scar tissue. On the third (and last) time, I almost came off the table when he pierced them. By then I had lost a lot of sensitivity. I didn't mind if they were still played with, but it just didn't do much anymore. When they started to migrate after that third piercing, I took them out and left them out. So, I had them probably 15-20 years. It took many years for the sensitivity to come back. Now it turns me on again to have them played with. They are bigger and I don't know if it was from the piercing or just from playing with them over the years; probably a combination. I'd recommend piercing one to see how you react with it. You can always get the other one done later.

Thanks for the update. Sorry to hear about the diagnosis. But, glad to hear you are getting it figured out. Take your meds and get rest. You'll be better soon.

You're doing fine. It sounds like your whole body is under general stress from flu, or minor infection, or just plain worn out (too many holiday parties?). Get some rest and take some extra care of yourself for a couple of weeks. I apologize. I did the cd4/cd8 calculation backwards. This should be at least 1.0. Your immune system is under stress. It's probably a normal blip due to many possible normal things. First, relax. You are working with your doctors and you will be ok. Remember, the HIV meds are not a cure. It is only to "help" you manage a lifelong, chronic disease from a virus that is trying to kill you. The rest is up to you. You need to take some time out to take care of yourself. Reduce stress, eat right, get rest, avoid drugs and alcohol. You don't have to cut out those things forever; everything in moderation. But, right now, you need to be extra careful until your body recovers from whatever it is fighting.

When I was doing research for a fuck machine, I too wanted to be able to control depth as it was operating. The only good one I found was WAY over my budget! But it looks amazing! [think before following links] https://www.shockspot.net/

This conversation is confusing. Is it "incest" (sex between close relatives) or "pedophilia" (psychiatric disorder of sex between an adult and minor)? They are not the same thing. If it is pedophilia with a relative (incestuous pedophilia), the term pedophilia takes precedence because of the seriousness of the psychiatric illness. THAT needs medical intervention at a minimum. Incest between adults is not necessarily a psychiatric disorder and can be a very interesting dialogue. I'd be interested in reading more if the thread goes in this direction.

If you have the room, the extension rod is nice but not truly necessary (yeah, ya gotta navigate your feet). I still got the extension rod. I got the spring, too, and I don't use it anymore. I like longer dildos with a little bend (dual density, or any of the "skin like" material) so they already have a "give". I like to move to different angles so the dildos hit different spots and the spring was just too much "give". I also got a couple of the "Adapter For Vac-U-Lock Dildo With KlicLok Connector" because I picked up a couple of other dildos that already had a hole in the base for the adapter (apparently, it's a standard!). I joined a Discord channel for HiSmith where guys (and gals) offer control. I've controlled a few. I had a friend control mine through the internet. Had a "blast"! 😈

You're doing fine. It sounds like your whole body is under general stress from flu, or minor infection, or just plain worn out (too many holiday parties?). Get some rest and take some extra care of yourself for a couple of weeks.

CD4 counts can vary for many reasons. Regular infections (flu, etc) will also impact other parts of your immune system, in particular the CD8 counts. However, CD4 and CD8 will lower or increase together. So, your bloodwork may also have a percentage report on the CD4/CD8 ratio. 40% ratio is ideal but anywhere from 30-60% is "fine". My CD4 counts can vary by several hundred points but the ratio with CD8 is always around 40%. That means I'm fine.

I have the HiSmith Premium Sex Machine. [think before following links] https://www.hismith.com/en/hismith-brands/356-hismith-premium-sex-machine-app-control-with-wireless-remote.html I LOVE it. It has variable speed and bluetooth control. You can adjust the thrust length but not while it's in operation. I did see another machine that you can control thrust length while in operation but the price jump was VERY big and just couldn't afford it. The stability is very good. There have been a couple of times during an anal orgasm that the machine moved a bit and I squeezed out the dildo. But those were some pretty intense orgasmic moments. You asked for a machine that would fully pull out and then re-enter. I don't think that is a realistic requirement. It would depend on the stiffness of the dildo and the looseness of your ass and the perfect angle of the machine with your ass. Yeah, I think it would be possible but I prefer my dildos a little flexible so that would not work for my specific set of dildos. (Plus I'm always shifting my angle a bit to poke those different places deep in me and with the flexible dildos, there enough "leeway" to handle that and still continue to operate with issue.) The bluetooth app is great. There are tons of pre-programmed sessions. Several of them do give me anal orgasms. You can also give control to someone else through the internet. I see on their website they have some new versions. Overall I think it is a good combination of size, weight, usability, and ecstasy. Some people are put off by the price and it is on the pricier side. I've had it for almost 4 years (bought during pandemic when the world shut down) and never had a problem. So, you probably get what you pay for. With this machine, I learned more about anal orgasms. I've had very few anal orgasms before HiSmith. But this machine gives me the opportunity to explore that. Happy to answer any further questions. If you do decide to get a HiSmith, I can provide you with a discount through their "Referral Program". Reach out to me privately since I would need your email address.

I have some minor enlarged prostate issues. My experience was that sometimes it would be difficult to start to pee or have a bit of pain while peeing. It seemed to be more pronounced after getting fucked. Since it wasn't severe, my doctor prescribed Cialis (5mg) which has a side-effect of reducing prostate swelling. It works for me! Funny thing, I wasn't needing Cialis for any ED issues but after taking Cialis, my hardon was noticeably better. I remember saying to myself, "Hello old friend!" 😁 I'm trying to figure out how often to take it. I was taking it daily which is not a problem at that low dose. But after time, I noticed my erections wouldn't get quite as hard as that first few weeks (still hard enough to get the job done, though! LOL). There *might* be an issue of developing a resistance or it just loses potency (or just the normal progression of ED). I don't want to start increasing my dosage so I'm taking it every other day now with my doctor's knowledge and support. YMMV. Good luck!

Hey OP, @pozsewerpig, I see you posted that you have AIDS now, too. How long did it take you to progress this far?

Thanks for volunteering to be in the vaccine trial, @cosmaz. I'm sorry it didn't work out. Glad to hear the meds are working for you.

The owners of large cocks need to know what they are doing. Sure there are some sluts on here that can take just about anything with the first thrust. But many of us need to be worked up to it. And the top needs to know a little about the male anatomy to understand the muscles and turns/bends of the bottom's ass. For the few tops that didn't know what they were doing, I have to tell them to stop and let me ride it so I can work up to it. So, I've never refused a big one, we just have to negotiate. Of course, once I'm opened with the particular dick, the top can take me as he wants.

I've seen websites and discussions about multiple male orgasms. It's essentially an orgasm without ejaculating. When a man doesn't ejaculate when orgasming, he may be able to maintain an erection and keep going. I played around with it a little but I love ejaculating too much! LOL Here's one site that talks about it. I'm not sure how realistic this is. But experimenting with orgasms can't be all bad! LOL. [think before following links] https://www.nateliason.com/blog/multiple-orgasms-men