Is the experience of taking a monster cock worth the pain?

[BarebackedBear]

General wisdom around bottoming is "if it hurts, the top is doing it wrong." If you're inexperienced in taking a huge cock and the pain isn't part of the pleasure for you, he should be fucking you accordingly. Start slow, loosen you up with a tongue, some fingers, a toy, etc., lots of lube, find a position that helps you get and stay relaxed (for me, on my back and legs up with feet in stirrups does it as it takes the strain off those lower body muscles but everyone is different).

If you've got a regular who's well endowed you can help keep yourself ready to take him by using toys on your own to train yourself to relax faster and easier. You need to learn how to read your body. Once you do that, "hole control" becomes second nature.

That being said, back to your original question: yes it is, but also for some (myself included), the pain is part of the pleasure. I have two regulars who are what I'd consider well endowed, one about 6" but literally beer can fat, one about 9" and just a little under the first one's girth. Both of them are willing to indulge my pain / rape fetish: force themselves in me with minimal lube, jackhammer my hole right from the start, jerk their cocks out of me and slam them back in, etc., all while I grit my teeth and at times am in visible pain. Basically all the things a "good top" won't do.

Not sure I've ever had a guy who would qualify as having a "monster cock" but I've never told a guy no because he was too big.

[1hornyjohn]

I found it was girth not length that caused me a problem.  

Only cock I said "no" to was quite a few years ago in Greenhouse sauna in Luton.  It was too thick as well as long. I couldn't open my hole wide enough to take it even with plenty of play beforehand and lots of lube. The top it was attached to was a lovely chap who had had problems with fucking other bottoms before.

My eyes were bigger than my hole!

Taking a larger top needs a bit of preparation with fingers, toys, buttplugs, lube, etc. and then the sex is really worthwhile. 

[VersGuyAnon]

10 hours ago, jd13 said:

The biggest cock I ever took was 11 inches. A skinny-as-fuck Eastern European guy with basically a third leg. We were in a public area of Sweatbox in London, kissing and putting on a bit of a show, when he said he wanted to fuck me. "But" he said "it's big, no one can ever really take the whole of me" - or words to that effect. And I thought...

Challenge Accepted!

Especially in front of that audience. I'll be honest: it was hard work. We did it doggy style so I had a bit of control how deep he went. It took quite a few minutes to work my hole right down to the hilt - he was quite patient with me because he knew I would try my hardest to accomodate him fully - and when it did go right down until I could feel my ass against his  abs, it opened me right up and felt FUCKING GOOD. Until he started fucking me.

Now I had a few loads inside me to help lube the situation up, and he was fucking me bareback, so I knew if I could hold on, I'd get his load so deep inside me I'd be spitting it out. But fuck me, once he got into a rhythm it just fucking hurt. I bit down, determined. Held onto my cock and balls because even they were hurting as he started to work it.

Good thing was, all the appreciative noises he was making, like "wow, can't believe you've taken it all", "fuck yeah feels so good" and so on. That's all I was really in for now, to make him feel good and to make him cum. At one point he asked if I was hurting him, and I just grunted "That's my problem. Not yours. Don;t fucking stop." Because if he had stopped, I would have pulled him out of me and got out of there.

Luckily for me, he didn't take that long to cum. Maybe he really never had had many guys take his cock fully like this but whatever, the last 30 seconds of crescendo pounding were agonising. He shot his load so deep into me, and with such an animal howl, that a wave of relief hit me - my animal howls too.

Well, the truth is that I pretty much did it to say that I had done it... and yeah to be able to sit here and type this right now. I've taken 10.5 inches since then, with much the same result, but well... was it worth it?

For taking yet another stranger's load deeper into my ass than ever before? Yes

For the story and bragging rights? Fuck yes

For the sense that I bit down and got used hard? Fuck fuck yes

But the actual fuck itself, I gotta be honest: it was an endurance ride pretty much from start to finish, very little pleasure for me, and it pretty much wiped me out for the rest of the night. Once we were done, I found a private cabin, crashed and slept for an hour. Fairly sure I might have got a minor anal fissure from it too.

But am I happy I did it? Fuck yeah!

Do I still jack off about it six years later? Fuck fuck yeah

Would I do it again if I got the chance, even though I know it'd be fucking agony? FUCK FUCK FUCK YEAH!

That moment a huge cock starts to hurt, but you know you're seriously loving it and at the same time just want him to unload ... it's fucking great. 

[ffabbian]

Pain and pleasure combined is a satisfying whereas pain with no pleasure is just plainfull and cuts the the play shorts. I've never felt pain from a monster cock myself even when I've been double fucked by 2 monster cocks. I have felt pain when I man shoved his fist inside my ass. He was apologetic  and  thought he should pull out but I told him not to and keep it in there which is the best thing to do. Pulling out would have added to the pain but within a couple minutes  I recovered and  we had a great fisting session. The same  would apply to anything entering your hole with sudden impact

[Westlonlad]

Yes, it is.

As bottoms we have plenty of tools and methods at our disposal to enable us to take big cocks. It's our own fault if we struggle to take them.

[barebackbro]

I suspect most of us are slutty enough that we struggle to recall plenty of our sexual adventures. But who has forgotten the true monster cocks they’ve taken?

[KneelerForDoms]

Um yes, and even the pain is worth the pain. 

[barefucker44]

3 hours ago, Westlonlad said:

Yes, it is.

As bottoms we have plenty of tools and methods at our disposal to enable us to take big cocks. It's our own fault if we struggle to take them.

A good top will always find a way to work his cock in so he can eventually get a good rythym goin.

[Erik62]

2 hours ago, barebackbro said:

I suspect most of us are slutty enough that we struggle to recall plenty of our sexual adventures. But who has forgotten the true monster cocks they’ve taken?

And the (dribbling down our legs) monster loads that we hoped for & REGULARLY GOT. 

PIGS🐷RULE!!! 

[BBBxCumDumpster]

To recap, douche thoroughly, relax, but most of all desire it. I've taken my share of 11 inch dick and loved every minute. And the next day, I found the soreness to be painfully delicious. Didn't really want it to go away. 🐖

[Berdell]

If I am taking a real big Cock I like to do some clouds to make it a lot easier. Being spun does help to relax your hole and let him slide in.