Diff standards tops/bottoms

[cam1972]

In all my years I have never seen a sub-culture where a guy who fucks other guys is called straight.

Maybe sub-culture was the wrong term. But I've seen an increasing number of blogs on tumblr where the specific words used for the tops are "straight guys". The bottom is referred to as the gay or faggot and the top is the straight guy. These blogs are not referring to the "gay for pay" guys. These are regular gay porn actors. In any case, they are just as gay as the bottom.

[evilqueerpig]

There are NO straight men.....only men who haven't had sex with me!

[Guest bbbearlover1]

It's an unfortunate double standard.  Hell, I don't even like the fact that slut is used as a pejorative.  Enjoying sex shouldn't ever be seen as a bad thing, and having lots of sex shouldn't be considered bad behavior.  Think of the number of people who would be better off, if they embraced their sluttiness (a positive term).

[cumslut23]

Being a slut myself, I can see why some distinguish between bottoms (sluts) and tops (players). A top only deposits his seed in you. He doesn't "take" anything with you eg not collecting. We, sister, collect and that from many different sources. We are sloppy seconds or thirds and so on... 

 

So yes, I can see a difference there...

[bbcunthole]

ive always thought of myself as inadequate n worthless n wonder why people would want to kno me , prob cause of my tiny cock , cause i get off on being used for sex by sadistic hung men. i see top men as my superior without a doubt

[ErosWired]

On 8/1/2014 at 3:10 PM, skeptik73 said:

Bottoms are a sort of willing brainwashees. For the cause.

You can tell my brain hasn’t been washed - it’s too smutty.

On 8/1/2014 at 3:10 PM, skeptik73 said:

Hopefully, over time, an increasing flood FTMs will make bottoming obsolete.

Never going to happen. Nope.

[Guest]

I don't mind the different standards.  I'm a bottom whore for tops, I own it.  I see tops as masculine Alphas too, even if they have more sex than I do.  It's who I am and who they are.

[Jojoto]

I might be able to chime in:
I'm a bottom. Normally I would see my self as straight, guys don't turn me on at all.. However their dicks does. I understand this probobly makes it Bi but in my line of though a bi guy might acctually fancy a man while I simply want the sex. If that makes sence.

[Davidc]

I’m a top but most bottoms work hard to be called Slag , Ho , Cumdump and they see it as a hard earned badge of honour!

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I’m happy to be known as a fag. I AM a fag in the submissive sense. And I’m ok with that. I AM a cumslut too.