When You Let A Guy Bareback You,

[KindaBasic]

On 9/10/2014 at 12:19 PM, bonsaisai said:

do you also implicitly give him the right to come inside your ass?  Or does the right to come in someone's ass have to be negotiated separately and beforehand?  Just like with a blowjob, if you're giving it to somebody, does he have the right to come in your mouth without asking you in advance?  What's the etiquette in these situations?

If we are fucking raw, I am expecting a load. Of course if that was not a clear enough message, me chanting ecstatically “I want your load!” might help them to understand my expectations of outcomes. 

[AlB]

I think that in these post-plague days when PrEP is the norm for those who aren’t chasers or poz that the receiver’s default is in the hole where he is (wasn’t that a Rodgers and Hammerstein tune from Sound of Music?).  The option is always there to negotiate otherwise just as the option is there to tell a guy he can’t top you unless he wears a bunny suit.  🤣

Edited June 25 by AlB

[jXsluT]

if the top don't load me up i would get mad like any junkie who is denied a fix

[barefucker44]

2 minutes ago, jXsluT said:

if the top don't load me up i would get mad like any junkie who is denied a fix

You should.  A tops job is to breed, a btms job is to take his tops seed.

[jXsluT]

Just now, barefucker44 said:

You should.  A tops job is to breed, a btms job is to take his tops seed.

Exactly. i do my job and expect the same

[barefucker44]

5 minutes ago, jXsluT said:

Exactly. i do my job and expect the same

I always breed my boy at least once

[will_zeis23]

As a rule yes I expect and would gladly dump a load inside. It's a must for bareback. And even if for some reason it doesn't happen I want it on my hole and then pushed back in. 

[wetbred]

I don't "let" a guy bareback me. If we're in a situation where fucking is even a remote possibility it means I've pre-consented to his breeding. Natural born Top does what will come naturally and I don't really have a say in it.

[Chuckybb]

I am there to serve the top.  It is his right to unload in me and it is my duty to accept it unreservedly.  At a sex club I was once being fucked on a fuck bench.  I never saw the faces of any of the tops who unloaded in me.  At one point I tried to turn around to look at who was fucking me and the top said "turn the fuck around, it's none of your business who is fucking you.  You are a hole".  And that, sums up how I feel. 

[barefucker44]

On 6/27/2024 at 6:04 PM, Chuckybb said:

I am there to serve the top.  It is his right to unload in me and it is my duty to accept it unreservedly.  At a sex club I was once being fucked on a fuck bench.  I never saw the faces of any of the tops who unloaded in me.  At one point I tried to turn around to look at who was fucking me and the top said "turn the fuck around, it's none of your business who is fucking you.  You are a hole".  And that, sums up how I feel. 

Yuo know your responsibility as a btm!!

[barewoof]

If anyone wants to cum or piss inside me they can just do it. No matter if mouth or ass

[shortstackhole]

kinda implied when theyre fucking raw. like youve already got precum inside me why not shoot your load too?

[miticax]

The last time I went to a bathhouse, there was this top that I hooked up with and I just presented my ass, no talks of condoms or anything.

[KindaBasic]

I have long been of the opinion that, unless something was said, if you have invited me to fuck you raw, you are expecting me to breed you. But then, if you are fucking me, since I said nothing in advance, that you get that consent is implied. Because of that, I am always surprised when someone who has not said anything gets upset when I shoot my load up his ass. 

Edited July 18 by KindaBasic

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I figure unless we agreed otherwise once the cock goes in bare there is no expectation of him pulling out when he cums.