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[melbournekid]

Hey guys - In the last few months i've become more ad more aware that I'm attracted to men, and since then all I want to do is get with a guy and try it all out - I'm curious as hell!

 

But there's a few hiccups, and I know a lot of people on Phone App's (Hornet, Grindr etc) don't care but, I am 17 years old (legal for sexual activity in Australia) and the second thing is, I have social anxiety.

 

I've spoken to so many attractive guys on those apps and I want to meet up with them badddd, but my social anxiety kicks ins and it ruins it all. 

 

So I guess i'm just asking, when did you lose you virginity? we're you younger then 18? what was it like? and should I feel ashamed for craving to be with a guy this young?

 

Cheers.

 

 

[AlwaysOpen]

Hey Virgin- I lost my cherry at 15 to an old man ( the town postmaster) and while his cock was not functional at his age ( pre Viagra generation) I was fucked by green plantains and cigar tubes as he flopped his soft cock about and smoked a gar- he was certainly not the ideal vision of sexuality- but he opened the door  for me--and from that experience, I went on to play with thousands of  other men over the last 40+ years, even settled down with one for 19 years. You say you have social anxiety-- I think you  might just need to overcome that hurdle and settle into  enjoying the fun and endorphine release of man to man sex. And, since it is legal in your country at your age, there is nothing holding you back, other than yourself. 

[cumslut23]

Relax buddy. It depends on what you want. If you want a romantic first time, take it easy, go out to clubs etc

 

If you just want to get your hole pounded, grindr helps. Maybe use a dildo or similar first though

 

I lost my virginity when I was 18 in headquarters in Sydney being fucked by a random. Not particularly romantic but I didn't care...

[fuckrogerbb]

I regret not getting started earlier, so face your fears and go for it. Make sure you find someone who you think will be kind. Tell them it's your first time and ask them to go slow. Most people will understand that. If you want to get fucked right off the bat make sure you clean out well. Get a dildo and get used to something up your ass. Then be brave and go for it. Breathe! Have fun and just relax and enjoy!

[evilqueerpig]

I knew I was QUEER at the age of 5.  One morning when I was 17, I awoke and decided I was ready to act on my desires.  Taking the bull by the horns, so to speak, I hit the local gay/nude beach and the rest is SLUTTY history.

[nastybottom]

I've spoken to so many attractive guys on those apps and I want to meet up with them badddd, but my social anxiety kicks ins and it ruins it all.

Arrange to meet them at a gloryhole, or under a restroom stall wall. It's easier if you don't have to look them in the eye or talk.

So I guess i'm just asking, when did you lose you virginity? we're you younger then 18? what was it like? and should I feel ashamed for craving to be with a guy this young?

I lost my gay virginity at 25, but wish it was way earlier. It was pretty fun...I got 2 loads shot in my mouth at an adult bookstore arcade. As for feeling ashamed, hell no, you shouldn't!

[bberik]

I lost my virginity when I was about 19, I think, but had been playing with guys since I was about 13. My first one was a guy I got to know through a magazine ad. I've never been ashamed about anything, but it wasn't anything I was talking to my family or friends about.

 

Don't know how you react with your anxiety, but maybe it's easier if you get to know people for just talking at first, no sex involved, and let things just happen when you feel more comfortable being around them? I hope it'll work out for you.