When Did You First Hear About Barebacking And How Did You React?

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

For as long as I've been getting fucking, I've been fucking bareback.

[Guest Pwrfkme06]

when a priest took my virginity and I was young I knew I was gay so I used my ass to protect other young boys

[chie]

Always barebacked. There was no actual discovery. Once you have taken raw cock in the ass there is nothing to compare to it.

[Bottom Jim]

I really never used the word bareback. My first time was with a swim team mate when I was 15. He used some baby location and shoved his bare dick in my ass. We fucked till he came in me. I always fucked this way. Only when I was asked if I barebacked did I become familiar with the term only once did a guy use a condom. It actually tore my ass

[cam1972]

This may be a little off topic but... Hell.. I'm gonna post it anyway. There is a guy on tumblr (whose name I will not disclose) who posts pics and gifs of guys barebacking. Then below he gives a PSA about how everyone should always protect themselves and play safe.... Isn't that kind of like showing porn to a 12 year old and then telling him or her to wait until they are of age to have sex? I said in my other post that I was introduced to the word barebacking when I was first fucked bareback. But the seed of desire for barebacking was planted long before then when I saw porn with guys barebacking. Those images built a desire in me like none other I've ever had.  Like others, I just didn't know there was a term for it.

[barefckrsc]

In 2002 when I became poz. I discovered a poz chat room in gay.com. There I made a friend who talked me into barebacking. I met a local guy who was poz and hooked up with him. When I fucked it felt incredible. That was 12 years ago. I never used a condom since,

[Guest Bearman]

First time I was fucked it was bareback.Never thought of it as anything other than taking my lovers cock the natural way.Only when Aids hit did I first come across the term bareback.

[Jamesbgck]

I started fucking guys in the early 90s.. All sex was with condoms then. I'd heard of barebacking, but it seemed like only something suicidal, deranged guys would do. I saw some pre-condom porn and was intrigued by it, but the vids and the guys seemed like something from a time capsule and just not real.

In about 2001, I saw Paul Morris's "Plowed" and was amazed. Here were today's guys having raunchy, real, skin-to-skin sex and they weren't afraid of cum -- they loved it, in their mouths, in their asses, on their bodies. After that, I really started to want it and began hearing more and more about barebacking and watching more and more raw porn. But I still held back, out of fear and stigma.

Finally, in about 2002, I was at Steamworks in Chicago and found myself fucking a hot bottom in his room, with a condom, of course. He was on his back, legs up, and as we fucked, he whispered, "Fuck me raw." And I have no idea why, but I suddenly pulled my dick out, took off the condom, and plunged my hard cock into a warm, wet, raw hole for the first time. It was electric. It felt so good, so warm, so silky smooth, so intimate. It didn't take long at all before I was close to cumming. I leaned over the bottom and grunted, "Can I cum inside you?" He just pulled me close with his legs, putting my raw uncovered dick deep inside his body. And then I exploded,, feeling my cock throb over and over as I unloaded. It was an amazing moment and I stayed inside for a good thirty seconds after I shot. I finally pulled out and looked down at my wet, glistening cock and his raw, wet hole. I felt like I was dreaming.

I still primarily had safe sex after that for a few years, but I mixed in more and more raw fucking with both hookups and regular fuckbuds. In about 2005, I gave condoms up for good, and I would not even consider putting on a condom now. Every time I fuck now, I fuck raw.

But given how I had only condom sex for the first decade of my sexual career, I will always remember that first time when I fucked another man naturally and shot my semen deep inside him, leaving it in his ass after I pulled out. Yes, I was scared afterwards and it took me a while to get over that fear and apprehension. But, wow, it was mindblowingly and life changing.

[Guest Pwrfkme06]

heard about it when I was raped in my teens but i loved the feeling of cock in my ass

[Guest hairybud84]

I had seen porn before that was bareback, but I didn't think much of it until I saw a Treasure Island Media clip from Meat Packing. That's when I got hooked on bareback in all it's glory. I kinda became obsessed with all bareback porn, esp TIM. I wasn't getting fucked bare yet, but I wanted to be a cum slut just like Dawson. TIM got me hooked on bare and piss.

[punaman]

All but 3 of my fucks throughout the years have been with condoms. I was around pre/HIV and learned to fuck bareback.  Condoms just don't get it for me I'm with an undetectable guy and we used condoms once and I said, just fuck me raw.

[chubbybear]

I had seen porn before that was bareback, but I didn't think much of it until I saw a Treasure Island Media clip from Meat Packing. That's when I got hooked on bareback in all it's glory. I kinda became obsessed with all bareback porn, esp TIM. I wasn't getting fucked bare yet, but I wanted to be a cum slut just like Dawson. TIM got me hooked on bare and piss.

 

Same here. Watching TIM productions pushed me over the edge into finally exploring my suppressed desires to be a cumpig bottom. I got off watching guys like Dawson take assloads of cum and wanted to experience it for myself.

 

As someone who came of age and discovered my sexuality in the 80's I was bombarded with the safer sex messages of the time and was terrified of cum -- I didn't want it on me or in me and fully wrapped was the only way I played. In high school sex education class we were essentially told that having gay man-to-man sex was fatal. I also remember a scene from the the movie "Naked Gun" that parodied the fear of unprotected sex with full body condoms. That only reinforced my fear of "natural" or bareback sex.

 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/femail/video-1074741/The-famous-Naked-Gun-safe-sex-love-scene.html

 

Then 20 years later in the early 2000's I started dating a guy who was 14 years younger than me. His generation had an entirely different perspective and was more comfortable with risks involved due to advances in treatment options. I watched my first TIM porno with him and he confessed that he really wanted to cum inside me (he was the top in our relationship and I was the bottom). We took our first step into the world of swapping loads when we swallowed each other's cum in a hot 69 suck session. Wasn't long after that when he came in my ass for the first of many times on an overnight trip when he "forgot" to pack condoms.

 

After we broke up I went back to wrapped up sex for a while but it just wasn't the same. No matter what I did with another guy I just didn't feel satisfied without his cum in my mouth or ass. Eventually I said "fuck it" and started taking all my cocks raw. Haven't looked back since.

Edited August 4, 2016 by chubbybear

[aznbtm2breed]

The first time I heard about barebacking was from a guy who was fucking me in Delaware. I was a freshman in college and he was older. Our first time together, he used a condom and KY (the only lube I was really aware of at the time).

The second time, he brought out a different bottle, Eros. He said it was silicone-based, and felt so smooth compared to KY. He wanted to try it and see if i liked it better. But, he told me, that it would feel even better without a condom to irritate me. 

Being a teen in the late 90s, safe sex was what we were taught in school. Condoms protect against diseases and pregnancy. And then I had this hot, 30-something man telling me he wanted to make me feel as good possible, by fucking me without a condom. It didn’t take long for me to consider. 

He lubed up my tight teen hole, and had me rub some Eros up and down his cock. Then, he pushed me back onto the floor, pulled my legs up, and gently pushed his way into my slicked up hole. He was slow, deliberate, and made sure to ask me if it was feeling good. I told him it felt incredible. 

After a few minutes of allowing my hole to loosen up around his thick cock, he began to pump me faster, harder, and deeper. He kept his eyes on mine and saw I was enjoying it. He asked me what I liked about it, and I told him my hole didn’t feel like it was irritated.

He told me it was because he was fucking me bareback and condoms can make a bottom’s hole hurt. He said he wouldn’t fuck me with a condom anymore and that I should consider letting other tops fuck me without them, too. He called it “barebacking” and said I had a great hole to bareback. Since I didn’t know many guys who did that, he told me that any top I meet who had Eros lube will probably want to fuck me without a condom. And, he said, he was very happy to be the first guy to put his seed inside me. 

Soon after, he shot his load deep inside me. I remember feeling surprised I could feel it his my insides. He came hard and loud. That got my dick harder and I was quickly rubbing out my own cum. 

True to his word, that man didn’t ever fuck me with a condom again. And, for several years afterward, if I met tops who had silicon lube, I always let them fuck me bare. 

Now, everyone who’s wants to fuck me bareback can. I won’t get fucked by anyone who wants to wrap up. I do still think about that first night though when I jerk off. That man helped me to understand the power of raw sex early on. 

[Guest GoneFishing]

On 6/14/2015 at 5:58 AM, Scottyrim said:

This is more for the oldies amongst us I suppose.

At 47 I really had most of my early sex life under the cloud of HIV and the only sort of sex was safe.

I think I knew I hated condoms, but the idea of someone not using them I thought was insane.

Then one day in late 99 I think I saw photos of men in porn not using them. I thought at first they were early 80s photos or touched up, but then I heard about the term bareback and I never could imagine anything else.

I just wondered how some of you guys felt and what you felt?

Ditto. Conversion stories on the web hit me hot for bare. Id shoot by load half way through a story 🐷

[Guest GoneFishing]

On 6/14/2015 at 4:37 PM, evilqueerpig said:

For me, skin on skin was and still is the only way for queer men to fuck.  The term "bareback" came into use when HIV/AIDS reared its head, to differentiate it from socalled safe sex.  I say, "If it ain't bareback, it ain't fuckin...and it ain't happenin!"

I’m with you about the ain’t happening last night at the the tubs a guy slapped a rubber on and asked me if he felt good. When your ass up face down it’s a risk you get a rare guy wanting to you use a silly.  I said no and told him to beat it. He caved and took off the rubber. Slid right back into my cummy hole. No questions asked.