Sharp-edge Posted September 27, 2015 Report Posted September 27, 2015 I've recently become interested in having a slave. Due to my lack of experience, I'm looking for a slave to chat about this at skype. I don't care about distance. Quote
tallslenderguy Posted September 28, 2015 Report Posted September 28, 2015 This is a curious topic for me. I've recently been courted by several different doms (4). There's so many things about a slave relationship that are appealing to me as a sub, but other things not (i don't really wanna wash dishes or lick the bottoms of boots lol). The more I talk to guys about this (both dom and sub), the more I believe this kind of relationship is better for both sides if it is customized vs generic. Out of the 4 doms courting me, 2 are turning into incredible fits on both sides, the other 2 not. One thing I'm finding is 'customization' requires a lot of communication, especially initially, to determine fit. 2 Quote
jankoslave Posted October 5, 2015 Report Posted October 5, 2015 hi happy to talk - jankoslave on skype or ym Quote
shaved_thong_lover Posted October 6, 2015 Report Posted October 6, 2015 hi, was a slave for 3 months two summers ago. it was good and bad. learned a bunch about myself. That I love not knowing who fucks me. mostly I was blindfolded and he would watch as guys fuck me. learned how to enjoy asphyxiation and not be afraid of it. But also learned that the "fantasy" of being a slave disappeared when being gaged and chained and blindfolded in a box or outside for days on end was never ending reality. food and water was rationed to me, not allowed to goto the gym, which sucked because I love that. And basically didn't talk to anyone for 3 months straight which sucked also. Quote
Guest KptNLine Posted October 6, 2015 Report Posted October 6, 2015 This is a curious topic for me. I've recently been courted by several different doms (4). There's so many things about a slave relationship that are appealing to me as a sub, but other things not (i don't really wanna wash dishes or lick the bottoms of boots lol). The more I talk to guys about this (both dom and sub), the more I believe this kind of relationship is better for both sides if it is customized vs generic. Out of the 4 doms courting me, 2 are turning into incredible fits on both sides, the other 2 not. One thing I'm finding is 'customization' requires a lot of communication, especially initially, to determine fit. Absolutely agree with this - communication is essential. Dom/sub is a spectrum of identities, rather than simply two fixed positions. Some would say Master/slave is more fixed just because the language is so absolute. But I think even there, people want and need different things out of these types of relationships. Quote
BBbottom12 Posted October 6, 2015 Report Posted October 6, 2015 I like to be a slave to satisfy my master/Dom , to be under control .....cb on..... Get nude all day long....... Quote
AlwaysOpen Posted October 6, 2015 Report Posted October 6, 2015 May be dragging my fingernails over the chalk board , but I went thru a "slave heart" phase some 16 or so years ago- as a long term partnership was ending and I was hunting a way to escape that . I even spent a few days visiting a Master who ran a S & M slave training facility- curious if I was really a slave or if I was just escaping the hurt of the relationship. HE felt I was indeed a slave at heart, and I returned home, made life changes over the next year ( left the partner, transferred to a new city, and moved in with a "Master" and his boy) What I soon realized, was this guy who wanted a slave was NOT a Master; but a bi polar, paranoid addicted person who needed more guiding than he was providing. After a few "Jerry Springer"type months, I packed up and left his house, and have not been back, and after reporting his stalking, he has stayed away as far as I know. The training facility Master--sold off the property, moved a few times, and is now a Monk up in the Pacific NW, his slave became a Wiccan Priest. So, I guess what I am trying to illustrate- your fantasy is to be a slave, but the reality of it is--too many men may call themselves Masters who are not--play, explore, and live your life-- but do not think you will be able to let go of all that you have become to this point-- I found out quickly I could never become a "Yahs Mahster" robot- esp if the Master was a fucking idiot. I still identify as a sub bottom- but by fuckin god- do something stupid or show no regard for MY care and safety, and your ass ( and cock!) are out the door and off the dance card. "Just because someone TELLS you to do something and you do, you are NOT his slave" Quote
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