Sharp-edge Posted September 27, 2015 Report Share Posted September 27, 2015 I've recently become interested in having a slave. Due to my lack of experience, I'm looking for a slave to chat about this at skype. I don't care about distance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallslenderguy Posted September 28, 2015 Report Share Posted September 28, 2015 This is a curious topic for me. I've recently been courted by several different doms (4). There's so many things about a slave relationship that are appealing to me as a sub, but other things not (i don't really wanna wash dishes or lick the bottoms of boots lol). The more I talk to guys about this (both dom and sub), the more I believe this kind of relationship is better for both sides if it is customized vs generic. Out of the 4 doms courting me, 2 are turning into incredible fits on both sides, the other 2 not. One thing I'm finding is 'customization' requires a lot of communication, especially initially, to determine fit. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jankoslave Posted October 5, 2015 Report Share Posted October 5, 2015 hi happy to talk - jankoslave on skype or ym Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaved_thong_lover Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 hi, was a slave for 3 months two summers ago. it was good and bad. learned a bunch about myself. That I love not knowing who fucks me. mostly I was blindfolded and he would watch as guys fuck me. learned how to enjoy asphyxiation and not be afraid of it. But also learned that the "fantasy" of being a slave disappeared when being gaged and chained and blindfolded in a box or outside for days on end was never ending reality. food and water was rationed to me, not allowed to goto the gym, which sucked because I love that. And basically didn't talk to anyone for 3 months straight which sucked also. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KptNLine Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 This is a curious topic for me. I've recently been courted by several different doms (4). There's so many things about a slave relationship that are appealing to me as a sub, but other things not (i don't really wanna wash dishes or lick the bottoms of boots lol). The more I talk to guys about this (both dom and sub), the more I believe this kind of relationship is better for both sides if it is customized vs generic. Out of the 4 doms courting me, 2 are turning into incredible fits on both sides, the other 2 not. One thing I'm finding is 'customization' requires a lot of communication, especially initially, to determine fit. Absolutely agree with this - communication is essential. Dom/sub is a spectrum of identities, rather than simply two fixed positions. Some would say Master/slave is more fixed just because the language is so absolute. But I think even there, people want and need different things out of these types of relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBbottom12 Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 I like to be a slave to satisfy my master/Dom , to be under control .....cb on..... Get nude all day long....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysOpen Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 May be dragging my fingernails over the chalk board , but I went thru a "slave heart" phase some 16 or so years ago- as a long term partnership was ending and I was hunting a way to escape that . I even spent a few days visiting a Master who ran a S & M slave training facility- curious if I was really a slave or if I was just escaping the hurt of the relationship. HE felt I was indeed a slave at heart, and I returned home, made life changes over the next year ( left the partner, transferred to a new city, and moved in with a "Master" and his boy) What I soon realized, was this guy who wanted a slave was NOT a Master; but a bi polar, paranoid addicted person who needed more guiding than he was providing. After a few "Jerry Springer"type months, I packed up and left his house, and have not been back, and after reporting his stalking, he has stayed away as far as I know. The training facility Master--sold off the property, moved a few times, and is now a Monk up in the Pacific NW, his slave became a Wiccan Priest. So, I guess what I am trying to illustrate- your fantasy is to be a slave, but the reality of it is--too many men may call themselves Masters who are not--play, explore, and live your life-- but do not think you will be able to let go of all that you have become to this point-- I found out quickly I could never become a "Yahs Mahster" robot- esp if the Master was a fucking idiot. I still identify as a sub bottom- but by fuckin god- do something stupid or show no regard for MY care and safety, and your ass ( and cock!) are out the door and off the dance card. "Just because someone TELLS you to do something and you do, you are NOT his slave" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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