Realism: The One Thing A Lot Of Gays Don't Seem To Know About

[bottom_gewillig]

What is it with gay guys and sizes? Is it that hard to admit you don't have a 9-10inch cock, which is by the way completely normal? I regret lots of stories have extremely large dicks in it. For me that is a turn off. I know it's all a matter of fantasy, but I like stories better when they are more realistic. Am I alone in that opinion? Same thing when you enter a gay chat room. They all have huge cocks, even when their webcam shows they have only 5 inches, they still say 9 inches :-( for me that is a turn off in stead of a turn on, and a reason to look for another guy or another story

Edited October 2, 2015 by bottom_gewillig

[lungfucker]

I can only speak for myself.  When I read fiction, I want someone to open the door to a world unlike the one where I actually reside.  I want to experience something by reading that I most likely would not experience in real life.  Personally, I don't care about cock size, but some of the more extreme activities in the fiction stories are what keep me checking for new stories and new chapters.

 

Of course, all perspectives are valid.  I've read many stories that cause me to think, "Boring."  I just make a mental note to avoid that thread in the future.

[bottom_gewillig]

I can enjoy a story with a big cock in it as well, and when I fantasize, they don't have small cocks. But it nearly always is a huge top fucking, which just makes it predictable and boring (and thus sometimes a turn off) to me

[cam1972]

The term "size queens" is out there for a reason. I agree with the OP. It gets old. And, no, I don't have penis envy. I've said it before and I'll say it again: I've had 8.5 that did nothing for me and I've had 5 3/4 that did everything for me. I think the one thing that turns me off is that hung guys think they are everything just because they have a big dick. Not so. Attitude can be a huge turn off. As far as stories where the bottom and top always have big cocks (But the story teller's is just a smidgen bigger than the other...... Every. Damn. Time).... Yeah. Gets old really quick. Yes. I want fantasy. But let's make it fantasy that is somewhat believable.

[fuckrogerbb]

I agree about this fascination with big cocks. Yes, I like to look at them (most of them), but to actually get fucked by one is horrible painful. I've had several anal surgeries and that makes getting fucked by thick cocks painful. There is scar tissue and fissures. Be careful about getting fucked and it results in torn skin inside the anal cavity.No matter how slow they go. Most of the great fucks I have had are with average cocks. Length and thickness. If you are hitting my prostate I am over the moon. As a top I have certainly been turned down because my cock isn't huge and it's ridiculous. Really. I might have given you a top ten fuck since I know how to do it right.

[C10H15N]

Average is nice, big is nice. Knowing how to use what you have is excellent.

Stick both of your hands in my ass then tell me how big your cock is.

Edited October 2, 2015 by C10H15N

[GermanFucker]

For me it's the other way round. My life is kinda like a porn clichee. I'm a 6'5" muscular total top with a an 8 inch dick. I'm extremely sexually adventurous. E.g.: The next four days alone I go to four bareback orgies (all with different guys). And if I have nothing scheduled I meet up with top buddy of mine, we drive around town and pick up 20-year olds off Grindr, tag-team their asses and seed them. Online I'm pretty open about my sex life. Everybody is interested, but very few guys actually believe it.

 

So the reaction I (or we, in case I'm on the prowl with my fuckbuddies) get all the time is:

 

"Oh, my fucking god, you're for real." "Those are 8 inches?.... that must be 10!"... "You actually are just like your profile says".... etc. A guy a top buddy and I worked over a few weeks ago texted: "Wow... just wow... unbelievable... wow" for an hour after we had left. He was a cute one, though.

[PhoenixGeoff]

CSB!

 

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[GermanFucker]

*LOL... couldn't be farther from the truth

 

I'm muscular in the way a contruction worker is, not a like roided-out gym rat. I don't even have perfect definition. And I'm no Joe Manganiello, Matt Bomer or Bratt Pit. I'm certainly not pretty. Maybe somewhat handsome in the same sense as a David Duchovny or a Daniel Craig. Interesting upon close examination, but with a certain weirdness. That's not why I'm able to fuck a dozen guys each week. I just ooze manliness and, more importantly, I actually do enjoy fucking (Why does everybody love Antonio Biaggi? Because he's able to smile during sex, he doesn't make it look like a chore or has his mind somewhere else.). And yeah, that 8 inch dick thing helps a lot, too.

[berlinboi]

Must admit as a bottom I think all cocks are different - was fucked by a much older guy with a four to five yet it felt really intense because he oozed boyish masculinity that made me feel great.

 

It is true that it's not always what you do but how you play to your strengths. 

[cam1972]

*LOL... couldn't be farther from the truth

 

I'm muscular in the way a contruction worker is, not a like roided-out gym rat. I don't even have perfect definition. And I'm no Joe Manganiello, Matt Bomer or Bratt Pit. I'm certainly not pretty. Maybe somewhat handsome in the same sense as a David Duchovny or a Daniel Craig. Interesting upon close examination, but with a certain weirdness. That's not why I'm able to fuck a dozen guys each week. I just ooze manliness and, more importantly, I actually do enjoy fucking (Why does everybody love Antonio Biaggi? Because he's able to smile during sex, he doesn't make it look like a chore or has his mind somewhere else.). And yeah, that 8 inch dick thing helps a lot, too.

Gotta say humility is a bigger turn on than dick size or looks. A great looking guy can be made ugly by a cocky personality. On the flip side, an average looking guy can be made to look fucking amazing by a humble attitude. Nothing turns me off quicker than a guy who has to constantly brag about the size of his cock. If that's how he has to measure his masculinity or his self worth, then there are deeper issues at hand. I've turned down several guys for this very reason. And I'm sure I will turn down more for the same.

[seaguy]

The whole point of fantasizing is to think about things outside of the norm.  Sure fantasizing about hung studs is not realistic because most guys are not 10" but what is the point of fantasizing about average size cocks?  Boring and probably harder to get off too.

 

Straight guys lie about thier dick size too they are just not as vocal cause it is not something they discuss openly like we gays do.

[cam1972]

The whole point of fantasizing is to think about things outside of the norm.  Sure fantasizing about hung studs is not realistic because most guys are not 10" but what is the point of fantasizing about average size cocks?  Boring and probably harder to get off too.

 

Straight guys lie about thier dick size too they are just not as vocal cause it is not something they discuss openly like we gays do.

I know I'm different from most on here when it comes to a lot of things. But my fantasies... I never think about the size of the cock. The shape of the cock? Sure. Thinking how it would look sliding inside me? Fuck. Yes! I think about what the man might look like, how he might sound, and how he would make my hole feel. Poz thoughts are always in my fantasy as well as thinking about how much I would enjoy making him feel good and ultimately making him come. It may sound boring to you, but.... Fuck! My orgasms are intense and I'm weak in the knees when it is over. And I never have an issue getting off. My problem is It's over too soon. Even if I've edged for a couple of hours. But I can honestly say cock size never enters my thoughts. Boring? Never.

[TigerMilner]

*LOL... couldn't be farther from the truth

 

I'm muscular in the way a contruction worker is, not a like roided-out gym rat. I don't even have perfect definition. And I'm no Joe Manganiello, Matt Bomer or Bratt Pit. I'm certainly not pretty. Maybe somewhat handsome in the same sense as a David Duchovny or a Daniel Craig. Interesting upon close examination, but with a certain weirdness. That's not why I'm able to fuck a dozen guys each week. I just ooze manliness and, more importantly, I actually do enjoy fucking (Why does everybody love Antonio Biaggi? Because he's able to smile during sex, he doesn't make it look like a chore or has his mind somewhere else.). And yeah, that 8 inch dick thing helps a lot, too.

You are my kind of man. HOT.

[PhoenixGeoff]

Gotta say humility is a bigger turn on than dick size or looks. A great looking guy can be made ugly by a cocky personality. On the flip side, an average looking guy can be made to look fucking amazing by a humble attitude. Nothing turns me off quicker than a guy who has to constantly brag about the size of his cock. If that's how he has to measure his masculinity or his self worth, then there are deeper issues at hand. I've turned down several guys for this very reason. And I'm sure I will turn down more for the same.

 

There's a difference between confidence and cockiness.  The former is always attractive.  The latter (which tends to measure itself by the number of sex partners or some similar measure of external validation), not so much, except, perhaps, to those with low self-esteem.  Which, come to think of it, is usually the root of the cocky guy's problems too.