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Recruiting? I'm talking about a guy like badboy69er, who's looking for man-to-man action. I would tell him, go to a sauna, fuck, get fucked, etc. But I hesitate because of STDs. Sex with men is too much fun to just let it go after one or two experiences.

 

My bad...I misunderstood (though you did say you thought all men ought to try sex with other men).  There are people out there who would suggest that straight men should get into fucking other guys as an alternative to fucking women for fun, in order to avoid potential emotional entanglements and the potential for pregnancy.  That's the sort of person I think we do well to leave alone in his straightness. 

 

As for men like the OP, regardless of how he identifies, I'd very gently suggest that if he's feeling sexually attracted to other men, then he's not straight.  He may be bi, he may be gay, and he may or may not choose to act on those attractions.  But straight men by definition aren't attracted to other men in that way.

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I was in my 50's and found myself with too much time on my hands for a brief period.  I had been having male on male fantasies and had discovered Craigslist Personals and answered an ad concerning a guy my age who wanted his cock sucked.  That was my first experience.  I sucked his cock once a week or so for a while then got greedy for a while. 

You were asking about how to start, that's how I did after a lifetime of 'straight'.

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I have fucked my first guy ever.. But still haven't been fucked yet which is far more of an interest to me!

How was it? Awkward? Exciting? Nervous?

 

Sounds like everybody on here is giving good advice. And remember that everybody's first experience is different, and it's rarely as fun as it seems in porn (although there are exceptions).

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You and I are in the same boat, I identify as straight, but am quite curious. Problem is I live in Stratford Ontario, a town so small that hooking up with anyone straight or gay is difficult. So I came to this website, haven't had much luck here either though.

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You and I are in the same boat, I identify as straight, but am quite curious. Problem is I live in Stratford Ontario, a town so small that hooking up with anyone straight or gay is difficult. So I came to this website, haven't had much luck here either though.

This website is unlikely to help you hook up unless you live in one of the larger cities in the world. We have fewer than 50000 users spread out all over the world. It's not designed to be a hook up site. 

Try BBRT or Adam4Adam if you want to get laid. 

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