Are You Clean?

[Twinktabu]

Personally, I never ask using the word "clean". I will just ask about sexual health status. If I get asked I never use the words clean unless its referring to if I took a shower or if I've cleaned out.

If I know their intent is to ask about my sexual health status but ask "are you clean" I will answer with what my current sexual health status is and go from there. I don't like dancing around what the intent of the question is. Much prefer disclosure. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Twinktabu

[BarebackedBear]

"Are you clean" / "I'm clean" is a deal breaker for me. It implies people with HIV are "dirty." People asking that don't get a second ride.

I ask

• HIV neg or undetectable?
• Any other diagnosed STIs or communicable / blood stuff I could catch?

Be clear in your intention. And for God's sake ask before he's balls deep in your guts.

[extremsub337]

I am puzzeled why anyone who fucks raw even asks that question.  I assume everyone who fucks me can be infected with something.  Even if I ask the question there is absolutely no way for me to know if what you tell me is true.

Any raw fucking outside of a committed closed relationship, ALWAYS risks becoming infected with something.  Either accept the risk or fuck safe.  You cannot have it both ways.