Sunday 20 March Rambling

[AlwaysOpen]

OK, here is the  thing. I have been giving up 1 day a week at work to make 3 day weekends,Thurs thru Sat, with the intent of getting used more. I was online here ( Ft Lauderdale ) all day Thursday and got zero action--checked in with a vers buddy who is a sex pig too, and he was also getting nothing. Friday I gave up after 3 hours of putting offers out there  and went to a local bookstore near a strip club- it was just about 3p and I assumed the construction workers would be getting off around 330p, and office guys at 5p, it being a Friday and maybe payday, thought the place would be hopping. Well, I did get to suck off 4 men in  3 hours, but at 6p, there were 3 of us in total in the booths-a guy I had already blown, a little bottom boy doing leg stretches <WTF??> and me. Waited an hour, and no one came in, so at 7p I split. At least I got to suck  off 4 guys.  Saturday, some guys were lurking online, but damned few were hooking up - so I ended up heading out to the baths-CumUnion was going to be happening there and I hoped it would have a good vibe and active guys. I was amazed- lots of nipple play last night , a little  cock sucking, but no loads. And, that seems to be the norm at these parties ( well, maybe not the extent of tit  work, but the lack of cum) I guess if you  pay $7 for a porn booth, you  do not mind  dropping your load in 30 minutes or less, but if you  lay out 25 bucks for a locker at the tubs, you hoard your cum shot for the night... maybe I am  over thinking this, but it seems like a "straight" guy has a plan and purpose when he hits the porn store- get what the wife will not give him and get out. Meanwhile the gay men at tubs,bookstores or elsewhere  treat these places as the endless buffet, and  do not want to bust a nut for fear they will lose their drive - or worse- Mr Perfect will come in  2 minutes after the cum flies. O h well, still spring break season here, and Ultra music festival going on in Miami- maybe some of those folk will begin drifting online in the next few days and refill my chute with fast fucks or full on sessions

[tallslenderguy]

I agree about the cumunion parties. I've been to one and will not go to another. Plenty of fucking and no unloading. The one I went to there was a guy who fucked me three times, with a condom on!. When he came back for a fourth round I said "sorry, the condom is irritating me." (what I meant was: "it's pissing me off").  I've gone to this same BH on a Monday or Wednesday and always cum away with at least a half dozen loads in my ass. I got fucked plenty at the comunion party, but only got one load.

 

In defense of the top, I get that once a lot of tops cum, they're done, so I can see how they may want to stretch things out (so to speak), before cumming. 

 

I also agree about the ABS, especially at lunch or quitting time, seems the intent is more focused.  I typically get more action with results at an ABS than I do at a place that's strictly 'gay' venue.

[bootmandc]

Agree 110% re ABS and share the general slowdown in cumloads.  I prefer ABS to anything else these days. Started out at ABS when I was too young to even know the deal, but knew I responded to it.  Yeah, I do baths all over and sometimes get lucky, but as you say when it's busy everyone is waiting for mr. perfect and no one is actually fucking and shooting.  And I agree, baths are damn expensive now.  Most guys aren't going there unless they are dedicated dick pigs like us - so it's more of us than them.  

 

Seems like it's getting harder and harder all over ... maybe because I'm getting older.  But I think too many guys get online, get off, and go to sleep.  Damn shame too.  Hard to find the niche market now ...

[FelchingPisser]

Silly me.  I thought it was about fucking...not the load...guilty fo fucking endlessly and proud of it.

[RawLeather]

Let me tell you it is not any different in Phoenix