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[JimmyWhackers]

I was a fool. I have historically been a total top. I hadn't had sex since my last testing. However, last Saturday I allowed a top with 8" to breed me. I asked him if he was clean beforehand. He said 'yes'.

He fucked me quickly and came as deep as he could-it hurt. I left. After he already came inside of me, I asked more about his status. He said he's an escort, has tons of sex on the side, and gets tested weekly. He is not on prep though. He is a total top, he claims.

I came home and pushed out the load. A few hours later I used the shower to give myself an enema.

 

Ever since then, I can't stop freaking out about having HIV. The top who fucked me is such a man whore that I wasn't even the only guy he bred that night. What do you believe my chances are of being infected?

[Leatherman667]

2 hours ago, JimmyWhackers said:

I was a fool. I have historically been a total top. I hadn't had sex since my last testing. However, last Saturday I allowed a top with 8" to breed me. I asked him if he was clean beforehand. He said 'yes'.

He fucked me quickly and came as deep as he could-it hurt. I left. After he already came inside of me, I asked more about his status. He said he's an escort, has tons of sex on the side, and gets tested weekly. He is not on prep though. He is a total top, he claims.

I came home and pushed out the load. A few hours later I used the shower to give myself an enema.

 

Ever since then, I can't stop freaking out about having HIV. The top who fucked me is such a man whore that I wasn't even the only guy he bred that night. What do you believe my chances are of being infected?

Slim to none I would imagine. If your so worried get on PEP within 72 hours and all will be well.

[1happyhomo]

First, if it was Saturday 6/3---you could still be in the window for PEP (72 hours) if you are so concerned, go to an ER, call your doc or do something that puts you into contact with a source of PEP. If there was an exposure, it has pretty good odds of preventing full on infection if you follow the correct use.

You have no idea if he was infected---for certain. Any testing is just a marker at that point it time---the next day, week or month means nothing if there were other exposures that the most recent test was unable to recognize as an infection. The fact that he test regularly is a good indication he is somewhat legit. A high number of new infections come from partners who do not test or our otherwise unsure of their status.

No doubt you had risky sex. Anal receptive partners in M on M sex have a one in 70 chance of being infected. Still the reality of that risk is different when you get to a single specific dick and and a single specific ass. Luck, genetics, roughness of sex, lenght of sex, size of his cock, cleanliness, amount of lube-----the list of individual variables is huge...so your only answer can come from testing.

It only takes ONE exposure, I know that for a damned fact. The very first cock I rode post taking PrEP knocked my ass up.

One last thing....using the word clean to describe someones HIV (or other STD status) is inappropriate. I am quite clean, I was frequently----I just happen to be POZ too.

[drscorpio]

http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf