Need advice on Homeless guys

[Guest ohyoudo]

I need advice on how to approach homeless guys on breeding me? It's been a fantasy of mine to get fucking by homeless guys I just don't know how to bring it up. Any advice would be appreciated!

[einathens]

don't take them to your place. bring food, including a doggybag.  don't take them to a hotel with a minibar, put your valuables in the room safe, insist on a long hot soapy shower, and make sure they leave the room before you do.

[bbzh]

einathens, I'm cracking up. Have you done this before? Those instructions were awfully specific. LOL.

I'd probably try taking them some food and striking up a conversation with them. Just before leaving, tell them what you want from them and see their reaction. I'd prefer a bathhouse over a hotel (and would never invite the person to my place). Or maybe we could duck in a sex cinema (the only problem is they can't bathe in a cinema) - although the original poster didn't specify that they needed to bathe. Maybe just bending over in an alley and offering them $20 would get the job done. LOL.

True story: I was in San Francisco some years back where there are (unfortunately) many homeless people. This guy asked me for some change, but before I could answer, he said "take me back to your hotel and I will fuck the shit out of you". I clutched my pearls and excused myself. But I won't refuse that offer next time! LOL.

[einathens]

just common sense, not the voice of experience. SRO guys are the extent of my knowledge; my liberal guilt for fetishizing them kicks in afterward. but I have 2 to play with next month when I'm in SF.

[Guest ohyoudo]

Thanks bbzh. I'll give those suggestions a try. Don't care if they bath or not, just want them to know I'm even submissive to them and they can use me whenever.

 

There are a ton around my office building which is right next to the DART stop. 

[Guest Inthewind]

46 minutes ago, ohyoudo said:

Thanks bbzh. I'll give those suggestions a try. Don't care if they bath or not, just want them to know I'm even submissive to them and they can use me whenever.

 

There are a ton around my office building which is right next to the DART stop. 

There around our Amtrack station and they shower at the YMCA housing.   Some really hot times.   The few I met didn't want the burden and some were very well educated and hung.  Just want to dump a load and leave barely any conversation.  

[SpermMyCumhole]

1 hour ago, einathens said:

just common sense, not the voice of experience. SRO guys are the extent of my knowledge; my liberal guilt for fetishizing them kicks in afterward. but I have 2 to play with next month when I'm in SF.

Stop giving into your liberal guilt - the left don't give any more of shit about gay men than the right do...

[Guest btchbyl]

sometimes u meet them by chance. i ran in2 one at a park late nite who was smoking dope. think he was gay tho cause i had no problem getting him 2 do what i wanted him 2 do when i gave him a 20. we went 2 the back of the park in the woods where he dropped his pants and layed down on his back on the ground while i pulled my jeans just below my ass and straddled him. i rode him reverse cowboy but i had 2 ride his nasty dick 4 a long time til he finally shot his load up my ass cause of the dope. i could feel it getting soft a few times as i fucked my ass on it and i would hear him start snoring so i had 2 reach back and wake him up then squeeze my ass on his dick and sometimes pull off and reach between my legs and jerk him off til he was hard again then id sit down on it and ride it again. his dick and between his legs had that ripe unwashed smell and he was dirty and nasty. i rode him reverse cowboy so i woudnt have 2 look at him while i fucked his dick up my ass. after he finally shot his sperm up my ass i milked his dick dry til it went soft and fell out. by that time he fell asleep again so i left him there and went 2 another part of the park where i fingered my sloppy ass and jerked off.

[hunting4anon33]

I have had some experience..  

 

Sometimes all ya need is just be nice to them.  Give a compliment,  be blatant - say "hey dude,  you seem like you're a nice guy,  like you're down on your luck,  & I'd like to help you out.  I think you're hot,  & I'd love to suck your dick,  get fucked,  fuck them,  get a b/j, etc.."  

 

Yeah,  it's not politicallly correct,  but let's face it,  sometimes ya gotta be bold,  or go home.  

 

If they ask for $$$, well,  you have some clear interest.   

 

I've actually dealt with many guys like this - the last guy actually went out of his way to shake my hand & thank me for the compliment.  ( I offered to suck him off,  & he didn't ask for $$.  )

 

I find that guys like those are either religious or just not into guys - but they are respectful.  Mind you,  I have for a number of years in self defense,  so I suppose I don't fear being bashed unless the guy is giving off a dangerous vibe.  Above all,  trust your instincts. If he seems mean,  hostile,  etc,  best to simply recognise you might not be able to handle him..

 

However,  it has been my experience that in some situations,  you can often turn a potentially mean / hostile guy to a liking you..  Talking to him,  asking how he's doing, being nice.  Being a shoulder to lean on verbal - wise.  

 

I've had a few instances of chatting an angry guy up once or twice,  saying that I was on my way to a liquor store, buying some booze after a hard day -  & offering to share or buy him his favourite. Alcohol really does loosen situations.  On the way to the store,  dropping that compliment ( as mentioned above ) to him along the way.  

 

Important note:  Some guys are openly homophobic,  & some respond to gay guys badly.  I've often lied & said I was bi.. ( I'm a platinum star gay guy,  never bothered with cunt in my life - but can pass as str8 due to being able to pass as masculine. ) Sometimes ya gotta lie through your teeth,  say that the g/f is pissing you off & sometimes you crave dick.  Sometimes,  some rough trade just likes to know that they are dealing with a fellow "str8" guy so that their sensibilities aren't offended due to toxic patriarchy..  Use your best judgement. 

 

As for where to hook up - a bath-house or a hotel is a good idea,  if you expect a pump n' dump situation.  Maybe you like the lug,  maybe you want to really blow his mind,  among other body parts.. Best advice in that case is to play it cool.  You need to guage trust.  

 

If you are looking to hook up with him more than once,  hook up with him outside of your home a few times,  guage what he wants from you. Prepare your home as mentioned below.  ( That way,  you are prepared,  & if you do bring him home,  you don't need to keep as close an eye on him if you didn't hide your things. )   

 

If you know you are bringing rough trade home,   best to prepare ahead of time & hide your shit.  Play it off as a bare bones furnishing.  Treat him with respect & dignity.  I know that it's somewhat funny to say that after you pick up a vulnerable guy off the street,  but that extra bit of respect can do wonders..  If he thinks he was set up or treated badly,  he could get angry,  & cause problems. Show some interest in him - offer the use of your shower - you can get a free show if you ask nicely.  Offer a massage,  ( in the shower, etc, )   & with your own place,  you can give him the privacy to indulge his MSM urges without him feeling like his heterosexuality is being threatened.  Some str8 guys whom are potentially interested in MSM activities are often more cautious about their reputations than a puritanical evangelical virgin clutching a sheet.  Sometimes a combination of liberal amounts of compliments,  booze,  & clarification that nobody will find out is enough.

 

Of course,  this is without being said - if you play with rough trade that you aren't 100% comfortable with - you must guage whether it is safe,  & whether you think it's worth the risk.  I myself have met guys that I could have sworn were bad news,  & they turned out to be harmless.  And vice versa.

Best safety related strategy to do is to have a buddy or friend that you send a message to regarding a bare minimum amount of detail pertaining to what you are doing - who, what,  when,  where,  how & why,  etc.  And when the guy leaves,  if you are hosting at home.. 

 

That way,  if something untoward does happen,  say if you are hurt by the rough trade in question - we're hoping not - we're in the CYA ( cover your ass ) stage at this point in the plot, & you can then have some closure knowing that you will have some justice done.  The worst that can happen is that your buddy knows beforehand to mention to the police that you seen a guy you thought was hot,  gave him a compliment,  & you were attacked for being a good samaritan of sorts...  Let's face it, though.. By that point,  you are not gonna care if the guy slanders you,  it will likely be a bad potential situation for you in terms of safety if your buddy needs to be involved with the police..  Finally, it'd end up being your word against the word of the rough trade.. 

 

The whole point of the buddy system is to make sure your ass is covered. This sort of above bad situation can,  & does happen  -  you must be prepared to realize that you run the risk of this scenario,  or different situations - every time that you hook up with rough trade.  That said,  there is nothing inherently wrong with approaching rough trade for sexual activities - you are simply being aware that not all guys will show the same respect to you, that you show them.  If you cannot tolerate this level of awareness & understanding,  then rough trade is not for you. 

 

Hard drugs can really help to smooth things out .  If you don't partake - that can be an issue..  Although,  again,  it comes down to your comfort level,  where you're hooking up,  etc.  Use your best judgement. 

 

So,  I think that about covers what needs to be said in a bad situation...  

 

Talk to the guy like the unique person that he is.  Be confident,  polite,  respectful,  & give him compliments. Be bold. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If he shakes your hand & thanks you while declining,  fuck,  that is a good sign.  He appreciates your attention,  & who knows..  Maybe if he sees you around,  he might point you out to a buddy or two of his that might appreciate your attention.  

 

If he turns you down,  or declines in a rude manner,  just remember,  you have gone out of your way to be nice,  play it off as such. I'll be real with you - will likely face rejection.  Some guys just can't handle compliments. That's their baggage - not yours.  Brush his offense off & be real in the fact that you are just giving the guy a compliment,  & he apparently couldn't take a nice gesture.  Be the typical polite Canadian,  don't take no shit,  but be the bigger man.  Tell 'em to have a good night,  or day,  etc. Then move on.    Most guys down on their luck won't bother with getting involved in a potential confrontation - they usually have enough problems already.  Who knows,  maybe they might see you again down the road,  remember your kindness & apologise,  ( if they were having an exceptionally bad day ) & they might ask if the offer is still valid. 

 

The key to rough trade hookups is to be calm,  easy-going,  & easy to talk to.  You are not better than them,  you are just a fellow regular guy offering to show 'em a good time.    

Edited October 16, 2018 by hunting4anon33
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