cheating straight guy bj question? scenario

[ilbottomguy]

here are the bullet points

*straight dude and my bf used to hook up before we were together

*straight guy plays with other guys but always as a top - except with my bf - straight guy used to text bf constantly for years about hooking up and for bf to fuck him

*caught bf cheating on me...on video (hot!) he had straight guy over, bf ate straight guy's ass -  they didn't fuck

*I got mad, bf agreed to have a 3 way with this guy because he's hot as fuck and I've always wanted to get with him too

*straight guy texts both me and my bf for the last couple weeks about getting together - wants to fuck me (but hasn't really seen my body - I need to lose a few lbs)- wants fucked by bf, dirty talk etc.

*bf is reluctant to follow through so I gave straight guy a bj a couple days ago at his house without telling my bf

*straight guy only lasted a few minutes. I said thanks for the cum, let me know next time you're free and and his response was let me know when you guys all want to have a 3 way

*I don't give bj's very often because I'd rather get fucked so I'm not sure I did a good job - plus straight guy is literally as hot as any porn star so could basically get with ANY guy.  Maybe I scared him off since that's the first time we actually met in person?

*I want straight guy to fuck me so bad but I need to lose a few lbs first.  He is a muscular guy with a big juicy dick, perfect skin, perfect ass, super attractive face...I am very cute, smooth, smallish cock but am not worked out like him....so needless to say, I'm self conscious 

*I've texted a couple times since asking for a repeat and...no response.

Do you guys think I'm just thinking too much into this?  I said I'd be near his house tomorrow for work and he never got back to me.  Do "straight" guys typically not respond for awhile after they get what they want?  Or, do you all think that he mostly just wants to get with my bf and was using me to get closer to him?  Do I wait to text him again for a response?  Or just not text again at all?  I want him to know I'm available to blow him again anytime but I don't want to seem to eager.  I wonder if he was just doing me a favor by letting me blow him so he could get to my bf?  

 

[drscorpio]

Straight guy probably does not care about those few pounds. 

Straight boys tend to only be responsive when their dick is hard. Don't read a lot into it. 

[punaman]

yeah, next time he gets horny and no one else is around, he'll call you for sure. 

 

[ilbottomguy]

I sure hope he does. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Thanks for the reply guys!

[barecubtop]

I agree with the other two.  I have a few extra pounds too, but I've had straight guys that come back for more head after the first time because they're not getting any at home.  It's always them that contact me, though.  Whenever I've tried to contact them, no response...it's only when they're ready.

[ejaculaTe]

You're overthinking the situation. And a few extra pounds won't bother him -- that's the more difficult idea to get into your head given American culture.