hole modification

[tallslenderguy]

I didn't know what else to call this thread, so "hole modification" it is. I had a fb for awhile before i moved who got together with me for once a week for about a year and a half. i loved him, and he me, so it was obviously good chemistry, but not in any traditional sense. He approached me from CL telling me He liked to give massage, and I went for it. What i came to realize over time was "massage", for him, was a method He used to mold and control (on a subtle level).  The whole time we got together, i never saw Him, because He always wanted me waiting for Him face down and naked, usually blindfolded. I realized later, that was just a way He used to enhance other senses. He also talked a lot in a low voice the whole time He was doing His thing, i came to believe that He was using hypnotic technique.

i think His greatest pleasure as a Top was molding His bottom, leaving His signature on him (so to speak).  For me as a bottom, that is the most important distinction of the Top/bottom dynamic. Most of us here, Tops and bottoms, are wild about the idea of breeding and being bred, one aspect that's discussed a lot is the notion of a Top implanting His DNA in a bottom.

For me, it is the overall desire of a Top to make me His by using my hole that fills me with lust for Him. 

There has been discussion on this site about FF doing permanent 'damage,' but i think every Top who has taken me has in some way molded or left His mark on my hole, has modified it. Some more than others. The Top i referenced above probably had the most affect, but then, He was very purposeful about doing so and said so early on in our relationship. By a month into our relationship His "massages" had become more ass focused, and His constant talk was more focused as well. He was the first guy to ever refer to my hole as a "pussy," but He was very tentative about introducing the word until He got me used to it. I think He not only liked the idea of changing how my hole looked, but also changing how i perceived into how He wanted me to perceive it. "Hole modification" took on a different meaning.  After time, the message that He was making my hole into His pussy was a routine message. 

It's been a few years since we were together, but that Top "modified" my hole, and my perception of it was part of that modification.  My hole has never looked the same since Him, it just doesn't. It's more of a slit than a pucker.  Also, my perception of it is changed. I don't call it a "pussy"  on my own as a rule, but that word definitely triggers something in me now when a Top uses it with me. 

[rawsatyr]

I like what you describe as 'modified'! I myself noticed that some guys posing nude and shamelessly showing the fuck-hole seem to be 'conditioned cum-dumpsters'. Instead of the puckered 'virgin hole' theirs are more like you said 'a SLIT' or 'elongated'. Really very fascinating for me! Turns me on to think of all the random cocks that must have rutted that fuck-hole, cocks of all sizes and probably quite a few fat ones! Just seeing an ass like that and having a dude pose while showing his face and boner in the same shot makes me tingle inside! 

One of my more 'seasoned play-mates' when he comes around tells me he wants to play with a 'stretch my hole', get it ready for the 'big league players' whatever that means. 

[tallslenderguy]

14 minutes ago, rawsatyr said:

 

One of my more 'seasoned play-mates' when he comes around tells me he wants to play with a 'stretch my hole', get it ready for the 'big league players' whatever that means. 

fuck yeah, I love Top's who have a developed sense of mind fuck. My legs will spread for any cock, but fucking can be so much more than physical. Your FB sounds kinda like He is grooming you for something more?  Butt i love the attitude He has, that He is using your hole for His pleasure and also prepping it for 'big league players."  a big part of the turn on for me is the presumed ownership. It's not forceful or bullying, it's seductively presumptuous. 

[rawsatyr]

What I like about his 'conditioning of my hole' is this: I am a 'late-convert', and a late-comer to the unapologetic bareback scene, which means in the negative days I only 'poached' on the 'unsafe sex scene' sporadically but then typically felt guilty. So in some ways I'm a NOVICE and my 'ass-master FB' wants to 'bring me up to speed' for the 'BIG BOY GAMES' he said.  When I take it up the ass I NEVER flinch or make the whimpering theatrics many of the porn-bottoms entertain their audience with... but sometimes a big top struggles to get it in or tells me 'to relax'...

I met my man when he was barely 21 and he had played raw in West Hollywood with the stripper crowd. But I never brought up 'testing'. Once I found out my (new bf) and I were suddenly  both poz, instead of getting all gloomy, we 'joined the bb-rodeo'... no saddles, no protection EVER, no shame, no inhibitions, no jealousies, no loads refused! ALL SPORTS! And instead of pushing most aspiring tops away (like I USED TO) I now will let any buck pump his DNA in me...

So my FB (slut-mentor) whom I mention above, doesn't want to OWN me, just be my 'slut-mentor'. He has his own (open) 'relationship' with licence to bruise-and-buck whomever he chooses so he doesn't need to OWN anyone else. He has fucked both my man and me and everybody in the bareback circle of friends I know. His accomplished promiscuity turns me on! He told me I'm still 'way-too-tight' as I guess all the bros (when given the choice)  like to feel a dude is a true slut. Opposite of the mentality of conventional guys' (of my past) who want to OWN, be THE FIRST (that month, year or EVER lol - yeah right) and expect MONOGAMY from their hapless toy-friends. Yet THEY tend to cheat on their bottoms like straight hypocrite men do on their wives. And they dismiss every hottie who is 'TOO LOOSE' for their moderate-sized cocks with talk like 'feels-like-throwing-a-hot-dog-down-a-hallway' and 'I wouldn't touch him - he GETS AROUND!'

So back to my 'slut-mentor': At one of the sex-parties he took me to, he did 'inventory' with me, walking around to see who is there. It was like my second time at a sex-party! No wait 3rd, but only the 2nd truely BB party!!  There were several new ones there, he said he hadn't seen before. There was a tall, skinny young, very photogenic: with a Fauxhawk and leather fetish gear... totally hot EXCEPT - he wore high-heels (big turn-off for me) and besides (he told me later when we chatted) he was looking for 'really young bottoms' (word had it his prey on grindr or whatever is typically is not legal) Well nevermind... my slut-mentor and I spotted a super-hottie, muscle-dude, shaved smooth, I was told he does porn... very hot and intimidating. I would have NEVER approached him! All I could say to my slut-mentor is 'holy shit'...

Next thing I know, my slut mentor has him ready to mount me. Makes me assume position in front of all these guys and the buck is being led up to my hole to breed me without introduction or hello! The fucker tore into it and took his sweet old time, going on, and ON, with no lube just spit and I suspect his ample precum... he put me in a trance... but kept going to where I felt cold sweat-beads on my forehead. But I was determined to hold out, not flinch, not protest not make him withdraw prematurely without making a deposit! Most of all, not let anyone know my relative inexperience and to practice my ass-skills... MILK THE FUCKER'S COCK with my assets, hopefully in sync for maximum customer pleasure. I was determined to get a great YELP review and take his rutting buck's cock to full climax... I did, and walked around all night with a sore ass but a thrilling sensation of keeping his DNA to full absorption!

Well that's what my FB wants me to do... play with my ass, coach me, make me get even better so he can, as he said: "I want to WHORE YOU OUT! You get no choice - I'll line them up for you! And then takes pics of your used, stretched ass and post them on TUMBLR! "

[rawsatyr]

The subject you brought up got me so excited I texted my 'slut mentor' and asked him to come over. Dude is ALWAYS ON TIME! I take pride in 'giving up my hole' now to any player after having played it 'safe' way to long and given it up to very few dude...

My wing-man 'slut-mentor' played with my hole from 4 to 5! Too bad he isn't very verbal. But he told me ( 'post-coitus' ) that the way I TALK (lewd and dirty whatever) while he plays with my ass and breeds me, turns him on! Too bad I had to guess! I could have gotten raunchier! But I don't see his expression when I talk 'dirty' as he makes me lay down flat and does me from behind...

I told him about this conversation WE (you 'tallslenderguy' and I) had on here about 'modifying the hole'. Well he went right to it, after leaving off at the four-finger challenge last time. This time he said: "Damn, have you practiced?"  Well I didn't but my mind may have 'wrapped its head around' being violated the way the hardcore bros sometimes want to... 

I asked him if my ass looks more like a 'slit' than a hole now... he said: "You are getting there!" He want to 'work on it some more' next time! I can feel a major 'impact' from his ass-play! After all I'm mesmerized every time I see a dude with an 'elongated' hole! Even the young barebacker HELIX boys in porn have that fashionable GAPE slit going... 

Keep this thread going with more stories and feedback!

[bareall77]

I love this thread guys! I'm nowhere near where you guys are but this hole modification discussion is great. It's all about who you're with... experience, and not just physical but very verbal! I hope I meet a mentor like you have!

[phukhole]

I love this concept!  My hole, too, has been conditioned and now responds instinctively to a cock/tongue/finger/hand/toy. I LOVE to feel my hole open up. I love to work my hole however the tops wants - clamping down or releasing completely.  Nothing better than getting that reward!