POLL: Can YOU get HIM to go BARE when he wants SAFE SEX/ CONDOMS???

[URS2USE]

Fuck me bareback, i get your cum.

Fuck me with a condom, i ALWAYS let them watch, as i get out my lube shooter, suck their cum up and shoot it inside my asscunt.  Almost every time they will get hard again, just from watching.  A few will change their mind about condoms and fuck me raw.  The others will fuck me with a condom, just because they want to watch me push their cum inside me once again.

Either way, i win...i get their seed inside me, where it belongs!!!

[TightBott7]

On 11/20/2025 at 7:41 AM, Tempusfuget said:

Generally speaking, I respect a bottoms request of wearing a rubber if he mentions it up front. However, if we hookup 2nd meet, I will immediately start working to get in him bare. Most often, guys want it raw thanks to the overabundance of bb porn. I also think most guys are keen to the idea that guys who meet up to fuck multiple times are more honest vs 1 night stands.

On the flip side, I sometimes ask guys to rubber up only bc I enjoy the friction of the rubber and REALLY ENJOY when the rubber snaps. Only 1 dude pulled out and admitted what happened. Everyone else acts like all is good. Total mind fuck for them. 

I think that a top that seduces a bottom into getting fucked bareback is scorching hot.

[descartes70817]

Every time I pushed just the head in the safe bottom either talked themselves into taking my load or just let me carry on. A couple of times a bottom had been safe only but said he wanted my bare cock the next time. I can't remember ever having a condom in my ass tho, just toys, fingers and dicks.

[VistaCaBB]

I just pre lube with Vaseline and let them go in "safe".  

[superstard72]

Fuck that condom shit.  I will break the condom.  

[Yeasure]

Without exaggeration, only one guy in maybe the past 10 years since I’ve been a dedicated bareback bottom has insisted on using a condom. He was a DL Latin cop. As much as I wanted him to fuck me I passed and only gave him head. I actually find that married “straight” guys never use condoms. I guess they’re natural born breeders. I love taking loads from a man who’s sperm has produced life. 

[Guest Ronnie]

On 8/27/2019 at 11:18 AM, gangbangsuperstar said:

usually but that's cause I'm sexy as fuck so guys really wanna fuck me. so when guys really wanna fuck you they are willing to do whatever it takes. thats how safesex gays get guys to wear condoms or let them wear one so us bareback only cumdumps do the opposite. I feel for a condom just like the safe sex boys but if I feel one I pull it off and if I dont feel one I guide their raw cock to my sloppy fuckhole so they can breed me like a whore

WOW !  Single here - Open Mind - having Raw Sex with anyone ! I be at a Bar - having Fun - Buying Drinks - being Easy ! People knew of my Reputation - sometimes in the Dark place of the Bar - Men and Women comes in the Dark - allowing them Play with me ! I even have had Bi Couples - relazing I was GOOD ! My Point - a POZ BOTTOMS are Extremely HOT ! A Bottom having a Top with a Condom - before Exploding Cum Load - the Bottom knows how to Pull Off the Condom !

[VistaCaBB]

I won't tell a safe Top they can not fuck me but I might prelube my hole with lots of Vaseline. 

[GuelphGuy72]

I’ve only had a few guys refuse to go bear with me since I went bare only.  With the exception of two I turned them down.  The other two occurred when I was in a sling wearing a blindfold so didn’t know until they were fucking me.  My hole was lubed with boy butter though.

[Iker80]

Usually happens. When guys ask if I play safe or say they only play safe meaning we should use condoms, I say I use prep to play safe because it's more reliable than condoms for HIV. And for everything else you'd just get whatever in your throat when you blow each other anyway. Not that I worry about it, I've had all the vaccines and test regular. Been fucking raw for about a decade now and barely had any problems, and anything that could happen is temporary and treatable. So I'm totally fine without a condom, but it's ok if he wants one, no pressure. At this point most guys just say ok or whatever, and when we meet we don't talk about or use a condom. Most times I think guys just want to hear it's ok and safe enough, and they're not going to be judged for doing it raw.

If they're new or I think maybe don't know about stuff I say to guys it's good to get tested, get vaccines and prep so they don't have to rely on their partners doing this. I've met and talked with a lot of dl bi guys who didn't understand prep or that there's vaccines and I know some went and got them, and I've encouraged guys who were nervous to go to the clinic for this stuff that it's normal, not something to worry about doing, and some started going.

As for guys who really want to use condoms, it's fair enough. I won't blow a guy with one though, that's my hard limit. I can't have something with that rubber feel and gross taste in my mouth. Yuck.

[fuzzybttm]

This is an interesting question because a condom has not been seen, nor has mention of it been heard, in like a decade.  I genuinely didn't know that anyone still used them (well, straights and high schoolers I guess)...

[Erik62]

On 11/27/2025 at 5:28 PM, VistaCaBB said:

I just pre lube with Vaseline and let them go in "safe".  

I love a a slut who thinks like I do. I never go out looking for sex without being well lubed, CRISCO. I find every Top fingers me before insertion so he knows I'm greased up & has never tried to use a rubber, they always go BB when their fingers just disappear into a loose sloppy Hole. Being well greased usually not only gets me a hard fuck but, also his piss & fist. Majority also tell me they are about to pozz me before unloading. If I'm not lubed up, they go in dry & that's usually enough to for them to take some of my poz babies away, after adding their babies to me. CONDOMS are essentially IRRELEVANT. 

Edited January 6 by Erik62

[hntnhole]

wellllllllll .... I don't know of any fuckjoints around here that aren't all raw .... if some guy uses a condom, that's the rare exception. 

[norefusal]

questions like this throw me off: 

before prep almost everyone used condoms and although i successfully talked a few single gay guys into taking my dick raw it does come w a certain % of guilt, as it always took emotional manipulation and that gets "iffy" morally when it comes to consent. 

after prep the only guys i ever meet who even bring u the c word are top cheaters on the DL and honestly it's easier just to either give in or say forget it. it's not like there's not plenty of raw-only guys all over the apps to choose from but again, morally, do i really wanna be responsible for helping someone getting cheated on also getting the clap? 

[jmw003]

One thing that has worked for me is a assjob. I ride him with his dick in between my ass cheeks. Its not hard for it to just "slip in on its own" and usual the guy is so into it he doesn't care any more.