Submissive Top !!?!

[Footnotes]

We have all used the term submissive bottoms... But are there submissive tops who totally get off on pleasing their bottoms! And do we call them sub tops or are such tops just referred to as tops that aim to please??!! Sometimes it is kinda nice to be asked what we like (when we bottom) vs what they want!!

[rawTOP]

I've heard of scenes where the top gets tied up and edged to the point where he can't take it any more. I think it's more of a straight thing though. There are dominant women who just don't have the equipment to fuck. It's really rare for gay guys though. The closest you see are pushy bottoms - which everyone sorta hates... (IMHO).

[ruralguy7326]

Sounds like a contradiction in terms. Can't say I have even met a top like that.

Don't mind the odd pushy bottom demanding to cop a pounding and a load especially if he is cute.

[quantegy]

yes, I've experienced one of those before...

had a hookup with a tall, beasty, built daddy off MH. he would fuck for a couple of minutes, then pull out and say, "what now?" I would get him in a different position, then the routine would continue. fuck, stop, ask me what to do. the session ended with no cum and him apologizing, telling me he couldn't cum because he didn't know if I was "completely pleased with him."

I'm something of an atheist, but I pray I never meet another sub top during a hookup.

[BootmanLA]

As in all things, it depends on what one means by "submissive" and "top".

If by top, you mean strictly the insertive partner in a sex act, and by submissive, you mean one who takes direction from another or is controlled by another, it's very possible to have a submissive top. I had a boyfriend many years ago who liked to be tied down so that he couldn't control anything, but he wanted me to ride his cock and make him cum when *I* chose to. Another partner some time later always wanted to be the one fucking, but wanted me to tell him how to do it, when to do it, how hard, how fast, what position, etc.

Admittedly, these guys aren't abundant. But to say nobody likes pushy bottoms discounts the very existence of this kind of guy.

[subcub]

I'd gladly be a pushy bottom's personal milk cow. Dom/sub, to me, has little to do with insertion or reception.

[Male22192]

I would say that porn star AUSTIN SHADOW fits this description since he is very much about pleasing his bottoms.

He spends plenty of time kissing, licking, sucking and rimming them. When he was paired up with Christian in a TIM

scene, Christian was definitely in control over Austin.

[Inception]

When I hear the term "pushy bottom" I think of somebody who tries to get your cock up his ass after you've turned him down. If you mean the same thing as "bossy bottom," a guy who says do this do that while you are in him - yes that is annoying. If a guy can't fuck worth a damn once he is in though I will give him guidance - though this is more with inexperienced guys I find. These guys often are so excited to just be in a big beautiful bouncy ass that they almost cum immediately and don't get many strokes in.

Being a big, masculine, aggressive looking guy I tend to attract a different type than most bottoms. One of my exes once told me after we'd been together for a while, that the first time we met he wanted my ass so bad but was afraid that I was a top and would try to rape his virgin hole. His favourite postion was reverse cowboy, me riding him while he watched my big round buns and thighs bouncing.

I agree with Male22192's comment that these types of tops are more into pleasing the bottom than taking their own pleasure. Though at the same time I get a great deal of satisfaction from hearing their moans of intense pleasure as my soft velvety wet hole smothers and strokes the glans of thier excited dripping cock head and shaft, suctioning up their pre-cum. I love their shock and excitement when I pop my hole off and turn around to swallow their cock into my throat coating it with more of my spit so it will slide easily back into my warm pink cunt. Often the men I meet are a bit insecure about their own masculinity, and seeing the dawning realization in their faces that the guy they are inside who may appear to be all macho is really just a gaping, open pussy for their use is so exciting.

[pulszer]

i once dommed a big bear who was a top. I used to tie him up and bounce on his big fat cock saying how I was going to milk his fucking bone, with my arse and that he was going to conform and give "sir" (aka me) load after load.

It was reallyfun, we got quite inventive and I used to dress him up in clothes to humilate him (bow tie, sailor hat) or just rugby kit/other fetish gear. He'd always give me the most pleading doe-eyed looks when cumming.

[pulszer]

It's really rare for gay guys though. The closest you see are pushy bottoms - which everyone sorta hates... (IMHO).

Well maybe its coming from Essex, but I've had a lot of pushy bottoms, and TBH when Im topping, I often prefer it.

[Inception]

He'd always give me the most pleading doe-eyed looks when cumming.

Tops that get that look in their eyes makes my dick so hard and drooling. When they get close I like to take my hole off their cock and let them whimper for it to go back in. Their look of relief when it slides back up me is so satisfying.

[HungLatinDom]

Here's a great movie about this:

http://vod.rawtop.com/dispatcher/movieDetail?movieId=67002&theaterId=54013

The tops are not really being submissive, but the bottoms are being dominant. Some of them are so hot, I would not mind if they tied me and bounced on me.